The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - ATFR - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #3

kraft33 wrote:I really don't know about BenLo either. I was really rooting for them but I just can't get over the breakup with Jojo. He kept telling her he loved her and yet was able to propose to Lauren a few hours later?. Honestly, I hate saying this, but looking at him with Lauren now, he seems to have had more of a personality with Jojo. And Lauren seems to have him in check... Like on jimmy kimmel when she said, I have trained him to let me sleep in. I don't know. I hate not seeing the Benlo spark I saw on tv. I wish them the best though. Also did anyone see this little clip...

http://twitter.com/KateCasey/status/709621118483574784/video/1
@katecasey Twitter
Yikes!!!

Mommyof1 wrote:

kraft33 wrote:I really don't know about BenLo either. I was really rooting for them but I just can't get over the breakup with Jojo. He kept telling her he loved her and yet was able to propose to Lauren a few hours later?. Honestly, I hate saying this, but looking at him with Lauren now, he seems to have had more of a personality with Jojo. And Lauren seems to have him in check... Like on jimmy kimmel when she said, I have trained him to let me sleep in. I don't know. I hate not seeing the Benlo spark I saw on tv. I wish them the best though. Also did anyone see this little clip...

http://twitter.com/KateCasey/status/709621118483574784/video/1
@katecasey Twitter
Yikes!!!

Oh, snap!  I missed that one.  :shocked!:

Mommyof1 wrote:Imo, Ben has a lot of growing up to do.  

sosleepy wrote:

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One thing I noticed in all these interviews is just how well spoken Lauren is. She really is just as well spoken and poised as Ben, and in that way, they are very well matched. Juliette Litman said it a few times during podcasts and I agree, I feel like if the mood struck Ben, he really does have the demeanor to run for public office some day. And watching Lauren, she'd be a wonderful "First Lady."

Rolly wrote:

Mommyof1 wrote:

kraft33 wrote:I really don't know about BenLo either. I was really rooting for them but I just can't get over the breakup with Jojo. He kept telling her he loved her and yet was able to propose to Lauren a few hours later?. Honestly, I hate saying this, but looking at him with Lauren now, he seems to have had more of a personality with Jojo. And Lauren seems to have him in check... Like on jimmy kimmel when she said, I have trained him to let me sleep in. I don't know. I hate not seeing the Benlo spark I saw on tv. I wish them the best though. Also did anyone see this little clip...

http://twitter.com/KateCasey/status/709621118483574784/video/1
@katecasey Twitter
Yikes!!!

Oh, snap!  I missed that one.  :shocked!:

Is this a video or just a pic? What is the concern?

mercieme wrote:

sosleepy wrote:

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One thing I noticed in all these interviews is just how well spoken Lauren is. She really is just as well spoken and poised as Ben, and in that way, they are very well matched. Juliette Litman said it a few times during podcasts and I agree, I feel like if the mood struck Ben, he really does have the demeanor to run for public office some day. And watching Lauren, she'd be a wonderful "First Lady."

Re the bold....maybe Lauren also has the ability to run for office if she is as well spoken & poised as stated. I just feel we stereotype women into these "First Lady" roles when we live in a time now that women have come so far. We have a woman leading one of the most powerful EU nations & who knows if history will be made in the U.S. come November....all JMO.

ForeverLove wrote:Why is being all lovey dovey a sign of anything ?
Sometimes the OTT affection proves the exact opposite . Therein could lie the faking. They were a normal in love couple with family support and love.

kraft33 wrote:

ForeverLove wrote:Why is being all lovey dovey a sign of anything ?
Sometimes the OTT affection proves the exact opposite . Therein could lie the faking. They were a normal in love couple with family support and love.

I guess I meant the lovey dovey feeling I was hoping to feel when I finally saw them together at atfr. You are right it's not a sign of anything except my own interpretations and feelings I felt when seeing them. All just my opinion. Doesn't prove anything, just sharing my thoughts.