Joelle Fletcher - (JoJo) - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #2

Ash2214 wrote:"Don't blindside me" could have meant different things to JoJo. Maybe she wouldn't be as upset if he just let her go, but telling her he loved her and possibly having sex with her? That is harsh IMO. He didn't have to tell her he loved her. He took it to another level IMO. At least skeezy Andi didn't tell Nick she loved him. She still had that card to use against him when he outed her, but Ben doesn't. Could it have been genuine when he told her he loved her? Absolutely, but I still think he knew he was picking Lauren.

In regards to the preview, I think they clear up the ex thing fairly quickly because on the same couch, we see them talking about her ex and then we also see Ben smiling pretty big telling JoJo he's nervous presumably to meet her family and there's also a snippet of them kissing on that couch. I'll hold my judgement when it comes to the brothers until I see it.

Maybe she wouldn't be as upset if he just let her go, but telling her he loved her and possibly having sex with her? That is harsh IMO.

ForeverLove wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:"Don't blindside me" could have meant different things to JoJo. Maybe she wouldn't be as upset if he just let her go, but telling her he loved her and possibly having sex with her? That is harsh IMO. He didn't have to tell her he loved her. He took it to another level IMO. At least skeezy Andi didn't tell Nick she loved him. She still had that card to use against him when he outed her, but Ben doesn't. Could it have been genuine when he told her he loved her? Absolutely, but I still think he knew he was picking Lauren.

In regards to the preview, I think they clear up the ex thing fairly quickly because on the same couch, we see them talking about her ex and then we also see Ben smiling pretty big telling JoJo he's nervous presumably to meet her family and there's also a snippet of them kissing on that couch. I'll hold my judgement when it comes to the brothers until I see it.

Who said he told Jojo he loves her? The promo says, this WEEK I told two women I love them. We can only confirm one of them being Lauren. The other could have been Caila who was still there in that week before Ben sent her home. The first ily is so unemotional and detached. A thought was implanted by TPTB about two women being told ily,  and we did automatically assume it was Jojo and Lauren, but it's probably not Jojo imho

Ash2214 wrote:

ForeverLove wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:"Don't blindside me" could have meant different things to JoJo. Maybe she wouldn't be as upset if he just let her go, but telling her he loved her and possibly having sex with her? That is harsh IMO. He didn't have to tell her he loved her. He took it to another level IMO. At least skeezy Andi didn't tell Nick she loved him. She still had that card to use against him when he outed her, but Ben doesn't. Could it have been genuine when he told her he loved her? Absolutely, but I still think he knew he was picking Lauren.

In regards to the preview, I think they clear up the ex thing fairly quickly because on the same couch, we see them talking about her ex and then we also see Ben smiling pretty big telling JoJo he's nervous presumably to meet her family and there's also a snippet of them kissing on that couch. I'll hold my judgement when it comes to the brothers until I see it.

Who said he told Jojo he loves her? The promo says, this WEEK I told two women I love them. We can only confirm one of them being Lauren. The other could have been Caila who was still there in that week before Ben sent her home. The first ily is so unemotional and detached. A thought was implanted by TPTB about two women being told ily,  and we did automatically assume it was Jojo and Lauren, but it's probably not Jojo imho

How can you confirm one of them is Lauren? Because the spoiler said she's the F1 and because we can see a few blonde strands of hair in the corner? For all we know, Emily, Olivia and all of the other blonde girls could have come running back. We're both doing the same thing and that is assuming he told his F2 women, that we know of because of spoilers and investigating, that he loved them. He has said more than once now that he fell in love with two women. I highly doubt if he felt that way about Caila that he would have let her go when he did IMO.

Ash2214 wrote:^ Not clumsy I just personally think it would make sense that the two girls were JoJo and Lauren. In reality, we're going off of spoilers and digging, so we won't really know 100% until we see it and even then, it might not be the whole truth.

Mommyof1 wrote:JoJo, Becca and Ben all said the word "blindside."  We have already seen Becca get blindsided, now it's JoJo AND Ben's turn.  We know how JoJo will be blindsided in the end, but how will Ben be blindsided?  Thoughts?