The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 3 - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Kashathediva wrote:Ben totally shut down Amber and that drama. Good for him.

I bet he was wishing he didn't give her that group date rose. She has a horribly negative attitude and needs to do some inner reflection like Lace is doing.

Seems Jubilee's story is her crutch and she uses it as an excuse to be stand-offish, and as sad as it is, she needs to take some responsibility for those relationships it affects.. as she complained that women don't usually like her. I'm in the minority on this, but I felt they laid on the victim edit hard, which can annoy me sometimes. I did not agree with Amber pushing that conversation, either. I'd just leave a contestant alone if they acted distant/broody. I could definitely come around, and while I don't dislike her, I have to say I'm not as in love with Jubilee as Bachelor Nation appears to be.

And her humor might be too dry for me cause I didn't get the complaining that Ben was late The nerves? I should re-watch the episode if I can.

Alanna wrote:This is strangely very mature of Lace.

Yes quite a different "story" for her tonight now that there is other drama to focus on. We (viewers) are only shown what they (tptb) want us to see. So the first two episodes we saw "horrible" Lace. I wonder who else is horrible that they just aren't showing? Or who else is a little bitchy but we are seeing it as a very bitchy? It'll be interesting to really see how they are when they are in real life er I mean SM.

PS Alanna, I find myself busting a gut at your witty snark! Thank you so many laughs!!

Was Jubilee not in the army? If so time is of the essence for them. If you are going on a date being on time is showing respect too. 20 mins is too much waiting around especially if those woman act so catty who knows being around would get even a pig anxious.

lindsayliles @higgins.ben is just taking in the view while waiting for #thebachelor tonight. Who else is excited???

I really felt like she was joking there. Ben didn't seem offended to me at all, so I'm not sure why the girls were so offended on his behalf?

I just realized that I would do horribly on this show, as I have a sense of humor and use sarcasm, which are apparent no-no's in the show. It's so different than the AU shows where everyone jokes around with each other.

lindsayliles Up, up and away! #thebachelor #heliride

nothatgirl wrote:And the Oscar for best bachelorette audition goes to...

Seriously, I tried. But this girl is so fake and mean. I'm not a fan.

Do you mean Caila? I really liked her tonight. More than the last two weeks. Well most were talking smack about one or another, Caila didn't (or hardly maybe she did a couple if times in an ITM) say anything mean IMO.

lindsayliles Lace is in the house!!! You better be watching #Bachelorlive!!! #thebachelor

lisamiverson Time for a selfie! #bachelorlive

jasonmesnick Fun on The Bachelor with my babe

theyearofelan I love everyone in this photo and if you say something mean about them I will kick you (except for the dude he is fair game)