The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - NO SPOILERS - Discussion

Yours comments are so funny Katie

I do like Becca. She seems quite normal and nice - not dramatic at all. So far I'm liking this date. I like her answers. They have similar values.

Great date! Laurens got competition. They are my F2.

Twins date - he's going to send one home. Emily seems the more dominant twin.

That house is way too tidy for this to be a spur of the moment visit.

Hayley room is very teenagery. Pictures of old boyfriends? That's strange.

Hey - I like that wall art behind the Mum. That's very cool.

Just not seeing it with either girl. Leave them both at home.

Well - Emily will be getting a rose tonight as he wouldn't bring her back just to send her home again.

Cocktail party and all the girls dresses are gorgeous.

Olivia's being rude - stop interrupting!

Does Ben seem a little exasperated to anyone else. Message - what message?
What! - it was not reciprocated. He didn't say that he was falling in love with her. Maybe she was having that conversation in her mind - with one of her other personalities!

Why is Jubilee so insecure? She's bloody gorgeous and Bens always reassuring her. Must be because of something in her background.

Ok rose ceremony is about to start. Its going to be interesting!

What! He gave Olivia a rose! That does not make sense. IMO it was obviously that he is no longer into her and now finds her annoying.

I seriously thought it would be her and Amber going.

Amber - get a grip! He never showed that he was interested in you. Another delusional one.

Oh no - more Olivia drama next week. And Jubilee drama. Its exhausting.

I have heard of Teen Mum - but what's Teen Mum? Was that comment a burn?

Ayana wrote:I hope Olivia and Amber get sent home

I'm honestly shocked that Olivia wasn't sent home. I thought the producers were setting her up to have a big scene when she didn't get a rose.

I cannot comprehend what Ben sees in her.

SafronSahara wrote:Caila being super aggressive is off-putting. It doesn't come across natural at all.

I noticed that Ben was drunk most of this episode. He was way more lively than he's ever been. He came across as less robotic and his true feelings came out e.g. Olivia gets on his nerves.
Ben's bringing that fire next week with Jubilee. I can't wait to see it.

He loves Lauren B! No doubt about it.

IA with all of the above. That whole Caila being sexually aggressive moment made me uncomfortable - to me she looks like a 14 year old.

I didn't notice him being drunk but he was has way more relaxed, open and even frisky with Lauren H. I liked their banter. I think its telling and am looking forward to their date next week.

I don't know if he loves Lauren B - but he's definitely into her. If I had to choose now she would be my F1 and Becca F2

Katiebelle wrote:

Ayana wrote:I hope Olivia and Amber get sent home

I'm honestly shocked that Olivia wasn't sent home. I thought the producers were setting her up to have a big scene when she didn't get a rose.

I cannot comprehend what Ben sees in her.

@katiebelle
If Ben sees anything in Olivia it's her determination to get what she wants. That makes her a contrast to the other girls. Personally I think she's still there because of the producers wanting the drama.
The Teen Mom comment was definitely a burn. I've never watched that show, but apparently it's about young teenagers becoming Moms out of wedlock. It kind f depends on one's personal views on whether that's o.k. or not. Or whether it's worth watching. But O-blivion making that comment was in very poor taste.

Katiebelle wrote:It's already dark - have we missed some of JoJos date?

JoJo has trust issues - who doesn't have some insecurities? She hasn't had a relationship in 5 months - she's ready to get into another relationship.  ok - he's now leaning in to kiss her. I think he really likes her. He doesn't want the night to end!

Fireworks! Definitely my kind of date! Pyrotechnics and pashing! Awwwwesome!

The girls are so jelly!

Ohh that was lovely! Dis you see how he grabbed her arms when in was kissing her.

Ben wrote in his People Blog that the weather was acting up for the helicopter tour so they canceled it & went gambling instead.

PS: Love reading your comments.

Shame they didnt show them gambling - that would have been fun. Maybe they weren't allowed.

BTW - does anyone else think that the stylist for the show is doing an amazing job?

Apart from Becca's weird dress at the chapel all the dresses have been absolutely gorgeous and I am so envious. Wish I had their figures too!

The dresses on the Kiwi Bach were horrible and ill fitting and the ones on Aussie Bach were a bit hit and miss too. Just shows what a bigger budget can get you.

Ben mentioned they won a lot so seems the date didn't turn out so bad after all

I love the cocktail dresses the girls have been wearing. The finale ones are usually my favorites though!

Katiebelle wrote:Shame they didnt show them gambling - that would have been fun. Maybe they weren't allowed.

BTW - does anyone else think that the stylist for the show is doing an amazing job?

Apart from Becca's weird dress at the chapel all the dresses have been absolutely gorgeous and I am so envious. Wish I had their figures too!

The dresses on the Kiwi Bach were horrible and ill fitting and the ones on Aussie Bach were a bit hit and miss too. Just shows what a bigger budget can get you.

Katiebelle the stylists don't style anyone other than the lead and the final two at the final rose ceremony. The ladies bring their own stuff and even share like Amanda and Lauren B did this episode. They do their own hair and make up or help each other. Only at the last rose ceremony do the stylist get involved. Sometime they borrow clothes or get it to promote a company or store. For instance, I believe Becca got clothes from Carrie Underwood's line for this season.