Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Despite what we know, the "desperate" angle really doesn't work as a storyline for Becca after the way she was portrayed last season. It'll be more "I couldn't fall in love with Chris but I think Ben is the guy for me". They want some sort of "love story" between Ben and Becca IMO. Hopefully he'll put his foot down and end it before HTD.

Also, I 100% believe RS and RJ aren't being foiled. Ben wants to pick from the girls that were chosen for HIM. Not Chris. He's a guy after all. There are already articles about him getting Chris' "sloppy seconds".  JMO.

Didn't at one point in Kaitlyn's season Ben mentioned he thought he may be "unlovable" after the breakup with his girlfriend??   Maybe they want to use the story line of the "unlovable" and the "never been in love"

So after Ben rejects Becca for a second time, I wonder if she'll come back again for her Bachelorette audition another shot at Ben?

^Lol. Wouldn't put it past her.

bluwavz wrote:So after Ben rejects Becca for a second time, I wonder if she'll come back again for her Bachelorette audition another shot at Ben?

The bolded above very likely could've been the hint of a possibility from TPTB as to the main reason Becca decided to do the show anyway after Ben told her not to come on. Other beneficial reasons to her or any returnee are the same as first timers IMO. Fame, increase followers/income from selling products, attention, travel, adventure, new friends, Bach perks, etc.

BlackHalo wrote:Also, I 100% believe RS and RJ aren't being foiled. Ben wants to pick from the girls that were chosen for HIM. Not Chris. He's a guy after all. There are already articles about him getting Chris' "sloppy seconds".  JMO.

I 100% believe it too. RJ has been saying from September that she got detailed information from sources that told her that there is zero chance Becca will be F1. For RJ, Becca's own friend who thinks highly of her, to believe that? Yeah, I'm going to say it's a pretty good source with pretty solid information. Even RS said something along the lines of "I can't say more or the source's cover will be blown".

It also just makes sense. If Ben saw something real with Becca, he would have pursued it and not gone on the show. He doesn't seem like someone who would put fame and attention over true love. I think he just saw all three women (Tenley, Cassandra, Becca) as nice girls that were fun to talk to, but not people he wanted to marry.

(jmo)

It seems that Ben and Becca have a lot in common:
RS/RJ saying Becca won't find love on the show.
RR (Right Reasons' Juliet Litman) saying she doesn't think Ben will find love on the show.


Sidenote: What's with all the R's in these "names" that have inside scoop on the show?

I have a questions:
Do we know for sure that BT was supposed to have a date with Jared and stood him up, or is it based on RS? Everyone seems so positive about it, but if it is RS, I think it is BS. jmo

Also, I can not believe that if Ben told her not to come on that she would be so bold as to come on anyway. Based on her feelings getting hurt with negative comments here and on SM, I just don't think that she would do that.

chasingpavements wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:Also, I 100% believe RS and RJ aren't being foiled. Ben wants to pick from the girls that were chosen for HIM. Not Chris. He's a guy after all. There are already articles about him getting Chris' "sloppy seconds".  JMO.

I 100% believe it too. RJ has been saying from September that she got detailed information from sources that told her that there is zero chance Becca will be F1. For RJ, Becca's own friend who thinks highly of her, to believe that? Yeah, I'm going to say it's a pretty good source with pretty solid information. Even RS said something along the lines of "I can't say more or the source's cover will be blown".

It also just makes sense. If Ben saw something real with Becca, he would have pursued it and not gone on the show. He doesn't seem like someone who would put fame and attention over true love. I think he just saw all three women (Tenley, Cassandra, Becca) as nice girls that were fun to talk to, but not people he wanted to marry.

(jmo)

I agree. This isn't a Nick situation where Kaitlyn wanted and expected him to come on the show. I imagined Ben was pretty annoyed when he saw Becca and Amber there.

BowenAnderson wrote:I have a questions:
 Do we know for sure that BT was supposed to have a date with Jared and stood him up, or is it based on RS?  Everyone seems so positive about it, but if it is RS, I think it is BS. jmo

Also, I can not believe that if Ben told her not to come on that she would be so bold as to come on anyway.  Based on her feelings getting hurt with negative comments here and on SM, I just don't think that she would do that.

Two reasons why I think it's true:

1) RJ has confirmed that it happened and she knew about CALIA and Becca going on the show, before RS did, so I personally consider her a good insider source.
2) Becca didn't deny it. Whenever a tabloid would come out about her and Chris, she would go to Twitter ASAP to deny it. She didn't, with the whole Jared thing, just said "oh, yeah, people have been asking me about that". Heck, she came on here to defend herself and didn't deny it!

(jmo)

BlackHalo wrote:Also, I 100% believe RS and RJ aren't being foiled. Ben wants to pick from the girls that were chosen for HIM. Not Chris. He's a guy after all. There are already articles about him getting Chris' "sloppy seconds".  JMO.

If that were the case, Ben would not have gone on Kaitlyn's (or Britt's) season and/or he would have tried to bail.

I don't think RS has the whole story and we don't have all the facts.  This is not adding up for me.

Ben is right to want his own season after dealing with the returnee situation on Kaitlyn's season, IMO.