Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

KatCAli90 wrote:I don't see this as a sweet/funny haha wedding dress date... something is behind it

What do you think is behind it??

eversotrue wrote:

KatCAli90 wrote:I don't see this as a sweet/funny haha wedding dress date... something is behind it

What do you think is behind it??

I just mean, I'm sure Becca's storyline is going to be the girl who's never been in love/isn't ready for marriage.....so putting her on this date is not random, the producers put her on it for a reason, prob having to do with that. In fact the whole season is prob going to be her convincing Ben she's ready.

Now, Becca made it very clear to Chris last season that she couldn't see herself getting engaged to him but would just date him at the end, imo that really just meant she "just wasn't that into Chris". Because obvi now she thinks she is ready to be engaged to Ben at the end. I'm pretty sure Ben will use the same excuse to her when he lets her go, but it will really just mean Ben "just isn't that into Becca". Haha if that makes any sense.

She cried when she got to the hotel after she got dumped by Chris. She was into him, she just wasn't ready to accept a proposal. If she wasn't into him, she wouldn't have stayed that long and she wouldn't have kept on kissing him and been touchy Feely with him. Those things mean a lot to her and they aren't things that she freely gives.

That's good. But do you think she would accept a proposal from Ben? What makes Ben any different then, if she was very into Chris

Ben doesn't live on a farm, to name one of the differences between them.

KatCAli90 wrote:That's good. But do you think she would accept a proposal from Ben? What makes Ben any different then, if she was very into Chris

She would be way more open to it since she's been through this before. Plus, she has stronger feelings for Ben preseason than she did for Chris preseason. She definitely could accept a proposal. If she is F1, I still think the most likely scenario is them dating and then a proposal a few months down the line.

From what I've gathered and observed, she's not ready to get married tomorrow. I'm far from the only one that knows her that feels that way. But Becca is the only one who truly knows.

Yea I mean, I think most people would rather date for a while before getting engaged, but we all know that's not what this show is about. I'm not sure if Ben will be ok or the producers will be ok with them not getting engaged. Most of the couples just get engaged just for the show, and then kind of go backwards and date for a while, and if they make it then they get married. Not sure if Becca would do that though. Kind of think most of those girls would get engaged to Ben right out of the limo, .
Anyways, I just think that will be Becca's storyline, and why she got the wedding date.

Her return will not have been worth it if she isn't F1, for a variety of reasons. If she gets a hometown date, I'll be able to share what happened during it.

You mean it won't have been worth it for her? well yea
Not sure if that will happen...but it could, only Ben knows really

KatCAli90 wrote:You mean it won't have been worth it for her? well yea
Not sure if that will happen...but it could, only Ben knows really

I wasn't just referring to Becca

RammerJammer91 wrote:

KatCAli90 wrote:You mean it won't have been worth it for her? well yea
Not sure if that will happen...but it could, only Ben knows really

I wasn't just referring to Becca

Haha is that your opinion or you know? You are tricky RJ! But I don't think F1 is much within the control of the producers, when it comes down to it, it's Ben's decision. But now you are leaning towards Becca lasting longer than you thought?