Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

I am definitely NOT a Becca/Ben shipper and would rather get to know new girls this season. Although I didn't mind Becca last season, she was certainly not my favorite and I hope that Ben ends up with someone that I like a whole lot more (because it's all about me you know.. ). With that said, stranger things have happened and they could possibly be hitting it off. I doubt it, but to say with such certainty that Becca has zero connection with him just seems irrational to me.

loveactually9 wrote:I am definitely NOT a Becca/Ben shipper and would rather get to know new girls this season. Although I didn't mind Becca last season, she was certainly not my favorite and I hope that Ben ends up with someone that I like a whole lot more (because it's all about me you know.. ). With that said, stranger things have happened and they could possibly be hitting it off. I doubt it, but to say with such certainty that Becca has zero connection with him just seems irrational to me.

OMG thank you!
What's worse is people assuming she'll be F1 because of the wedding dress date.

KatCAli90 wrote:I wonder if Becca is shy/reserved like they portrayed her last season, or more outgoing than they showed? I know she didn't seem that happy with her edit. Jade was also more reserved but Becca seems a little more outgoing than her, not that either way is bad or anything. I can see why her and Kaitlin get along, Kaitlin seems like a fun friend to have.

She definitely is more outgoing than the show portrayed her to be, but she's far from a party animal like Kaitlyn. Especially before the show, she would go out to movies and grab a bite to eat by herself at times. She's more of an introvert than an extrovert, not that that's a bad thing.

albean99 wrote:I'm just not seeing that unless they want to turn off viewers. People are going to catch on that some things are pre-planned if they have b2b seasons with the f2 coming back and making it to f2. Nothing exciting about that imo.

I really doubt that they asked Ben who he wanted them to bring back, GA. They always seem to like to surprise the lead in those situation.

In this particular situation, I think I also heard Ben was asked. :Nod:

RammerJammer91 wrote:

KatCAli90 wrote:I wonder if Becca is shy/reserved like they portrayed her last season, or more outgoing than they showed? I know she didn't seem that happy with her edit. Jade was also more reserved but Becca seems a little more outgoing than her, not that either way is bad or anything. I can see why her and Kaitlin get along, Kaitlin seems like a fun friend to have.

She definitely is more outgoing than the show portrayed her to be, but she's far from a party animal like Kaitlyn. Especially before the show, she would go out to movies and grab a bite to eat by herself at times. She's more of an introvert than an extrovert, not that that's a bad thing.

Thanks for giving us a little peek into who Becca really is in real life. She was hilarious on Twitter while CS's season was airing! #whoisbecca

RammerJammer91 wrote:She definitely is more outgoing than the show portrayed her to be, but she's far from a party animal like Kaitlyn. Especially before the show, she would go out to movies and grab a bite to eat by herself at times. She's more of an introvert than an extrovert, not that that's a bad thing.

Maybe she's just getting out of her shell ... or maybe there weren't opportunities or the situation to "spread the wings" where she lived ... just saying, people change when they move out of their nest where most people have a perception of who they are. I know I behaved differently while I was living in another country, I had different crowd/friends to hang out, different type of night-outs and since I've returned back to my country, I continue to have different attitude while I'm living by myself in the city than when I'm back in my hometown.

I actually get the Kaitlyn/Becca relationship - I think that Kaitlyn brings out a more goofy, crazy side of Becca (which Becca likes) and Becca just adores Kaitlyn and thinks she's the funniest person in the world (which Kaitlyn likes). I know that Kaitlyn has this reputation of being a party animal, but I do think that she also has a softer and kinder side, which is why she was so well-liked by all the girls on her season. I also think she does have a lot in common with Becca and Whitney, in that she's super family-oriented and very honest. I've always heard she's incredibly sweet when she meets fans in person, which I can say is definitely not true for all ex-Bachelorettes. I think the problem with a TV edit and even SC, where people are choosing what to show us, is that we do form kind of black and white perceptions of these people.

(jmo)

chasingpavements wrote:I actually get the Kaitlyn/Becca relationship - I think that Kaitlyn brings out a more goofy, crazy side of Becca snipped

(jmo)

You're not kidding. IMO one doesn't change their behaviour when they are in the company of someone else who's behaviour is totally opposite to yours. This to me indicates, you're tyring to be part of the "in" crowd. That was the feeling I got with the infamous tweet.

She may be very sweet and well liked, but she forgot her manners when she cancelled her plans with Jared to pursue the shining L.A lights especially after what I suspect, she was the one who initiated the plans.

I like Becca, I'm just not sure she knows what she wants.

Can't say I disagree, GA! It's like that roofie joke - I keep harping on it, but it's just a stupid comment to make by someone who claims to be Christian and has sisters in college, where date r*pe is an epidemic. I think it's what turned me into a non-fan, b/c it shows that though she carried herself well on the show, she's not that much more mature than Kaitlyn.

What was the infamous tweet, GA?

The joke you are referring to. On second thought, maybe it wasn't a tweet but periscope?

chasingpavements wrote:Can't say I disagree, GA! It's like that roofie joke - I keep harping on it, but it's just a stupid comment to make by someone who claims to be Christian and has sisters in college, where date r*pe is an epidemic. I think it's what turned me into a non-fan, b/c it shows that though she carried herself well on the show, she's not that much more mature than Kaitlyn.

What was the infamous tweet, GA?

Caroline is in college. Hannah is a senior in HS. In fact, she is back in Shreveport for her senior year. What's cool is that now she is living with Katie and her brother-in-law and going to the same school (K-12) as their nephew, Jack. And Caroline goes to school just an hour away from Shreveport.

We all say dumb things that are not recorded on SM.  Kids put everything out there without thinking of what they are doing or saying.  There is no filter!  

I don't feel I got to know who Becca really is last season and I am hoping we see more of her natural personality and interaction with Ben and the other girls.  Of course with editing and storyboarding who knows.