The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - General Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

It doesn't change my opinion of Ben at all, just like the Jenna thing didn't change my opinion of Sean and the zach thing didn't change my opinion of Kaitlyn. They're all hot 20-somethings! They should be flirting and having meaningless make out sessions! It's still interesting to me, just on a gossip front.

Yeah, I'm not sure his integrity should be brought into question over this. He wasn't even "The Bachelor" yet. Oh that RS stirring the pot.

OK, now the tabloids are saying Ben wants to quit and drop out of the Bachelor, I don't believe that one. But where do they get this stuff? Never heard that one before on any other season

They are just stirring the pot IMHO

These young good looking folks are all "friends" on social media...it is easy to make a post or comment or like and your "friends friends" see it and connect and so on....I don't really blame them for using social media when everyone else does

I think Cassandra probably wanted to make the most of her short stay in Mexico and chatted online with a few possible fellow contestants..and so what? I never thought any of it was that horrible..sigh

Ben seems level headed, I just hope they don't totally throw him under the bach bus, but I think he will come out ok, hopefully some decent gals

Cassandra and Jonathan seem like a cute couple, and their little guys can hang out together....she is rooted in Michigan and so is he, so good for them

I doubt Ben is having 2nd thoughts LOL. I only hope they keep Tenley off there, we don't need to see her yet again. JMO

Cassandra is young and gorgeous, I could see him taking a liking to her. I'm not even sure if I even see Ben with an older woman, for some reason. *shrug*

I don't think I could see Ben with an older woman either. Even though Kaitlyn was older, she never seemed it - she always acted younger.

I could see him with someone who is like a year or two older. No more than that thought. Definitely someone under 30 I think.

I could see Ben with someone who is older. But when I say that I mean someone who may be 30-32 max range. And someone who is a single mom wouldn't scare him off either. Ben is someone who really doesn't look at the age factor, it's more like how will this person be as a mate, and will they be a good fit into my family. So I honestly hope that they get women on the show who are in the 25-33 age range, and gets one who are emotionally mature. Throw a single mom or 2 in there also please.

I see him going the Sean route, where an older woman doesn't faze him, won't be a deal breaker, and will probably make f4; yet, he'll still end up with a girl that's younger or the same age. Just a feeling. I also think he's going to go for a very sweet, nice, slightly introverted girl. That's why I could see him with girls like cassandra and Becca long-term, but never saw it between him and Kaitlyn.

I don't know if I can see him with someone like Cassandra, they both seem way too quiet and laid back. I can see him with a mix of Tenley and Kait. We'll see what he sees himself with though

Ben doesnt strike me as quite. Laid back? Yes. But quite? Not really. He is an Aries, afterall;)

FLChica wrote:Ben H. confirmed to Kaitlyn that he isn't a virgin or even a born-again virgin. Doesn't seem to be a Stormhorse either. Maybe he is a hot, mature, employed, Christian homeowner looking for love on The Bach.  

This topic reminds me, that Ben can do no wrong.  If anyone else, they would have been raked over the coals for days if not weeks.  I personally don't have a problem with it.  Just pointing out that higher standards seem to be held for other individuals.   jmo