The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - #8 - Media - Tweets - IG - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - Discussion

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I know that many people here are Nick fans, which is completely understandable, but at times I feel like he's put on a pedestal and made out to be like he can do no wrong. ***snipped***

mindless wrote:

timfan wrote:It is kind of funny that both andi and Kaitlyn after both there shows ended they both had nothing nice to say about nick maybe he is showing his true self when he gets rejected and people are mad how unfair andi was to nick at the atfr but maybe something happened behind the scenes we do not know about jmo

Only problem with that theory is that Sharleen is friends with Nick, despite being close friends with Andi as well. If Nick did something horrible to Andi behind the scenes then Sharleen would know and I can't imagine her fostering a friendship with him in that scenario.

luvlady345 wrote:But who cares if Sharleen, is friends with Nick? I am friends with people who are friends with people who I don't particularly care for, who I never discuss...My friendship is independent from the other person, that is what mature people do,  there is not a monopoly on who someone can be friends with.....

mindless wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:But who cares if Sharleen, is friends with Nick? I am friends with people who are friends with people who I don't particularly care for, who I never discuss...My friendship is independent from the other person, that is what mature people do,  there is not a monopoly on who someone can be friends with.....

Well obviously there's no monopoly as evidenced by their friendship. But Sharleen is a fair intelligent woman, so if Nick had done something horrible that we, the viewing public, aren't aware of, then I don't think she would be interested in being friends with him. It's not like she gets anything out of it besides his company. That's why I think we have all the "gruesome" facts and are able to form an informed opinion of him, whatever that may be. There can't have been something hideous towards Andi we aren't aware of, unless Sharleen is a total weirdo. That's my point.

And we know they're friends because Sharleen keeps mentioning it in her FLARE recaps every week. [/quote


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I take what Sharleen says with a grain of salt. I'm not sure that she is an expert. She was a poor judge of JaunP character. He turned out to be what ALL the other women were saying, so Sharleen didn't know JaunP well, or maybe he acted differently with her, based on her personality. Nonetheless, I don't consider her an expert about peoples' character at all. The only thing she has going is that she can explain what or how producers manipulated the scenes, imo.

Intelligent people have flaws, too. It's impossible to be smart in ALL areas, IMO. Life is ironic, if you're good in one area, another area suffers. Just my experience.

MVMom39forever wrote:I have always had my doubts about Nick's intentions for returning this season. Maybe Kaitlyn discovered the truth that it wasn't really for her but more cause Elan and tptb  made him a deal he could not refuse. Imo, of course.

There is a reason ABC is allowing her People blogs and SM activity. Nobody actually thinks this is all her doing, right?!