The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - #8 - Media - Tweets - IG - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - Discussion

agentcurls wrote:Jared, Cupcake, Ben H....they would've thought Nick was a bigger problem (maybe not quite to the extent of Shawn) had they been more emotionally invested in Kaitlyn. To be fair, that could be because Kaitlyn didn't make them feel comfortable in getting more emotionally invested subconciously because she was already so far gone with Shawn.
Most of their emotional turmoil came/comes after Kaitlyn cuts them lose. Maybe if they would've demonstrated more emotion with K on dates, they would've had more of a chance. She seems to like when a man goes goo-goo over her and isn't afraid to just put it all out there a'la Shawn.

Shawn has the bigger problem with Nick mostly due to it's impact on his relationship with Kaitlyn...and I will say Shawn's personality. He just seems more assertive than the other men, IMO. I think it turns Kaitlyn on, personally. She just about acknowledged how flattered she was with the whole Nick vs. Shawn thang because she knows it has very much to do with HER.

northernviewer wrote:Shawn reminds me of Whitney from last season .... Totally in the Bach bubble and believed themselves to be in love before the M&G

northernviewer wrote:Shawn reminds me of Whitney from last season .... Totally in the Bach bubble and believed themselves to be in love before the M&G

Nibbles22 wrote:

northernviewer wrote:Shawn reminds me of Whitney from last season .... Totally in the Bach bubble and believed themselves to be in love before the M&G

I agree with this, but at least Whitney came in with positive thoughts, was engaging in conversation, got along well with the other girls, and displayed nothing but class.

Alanna wrote:Personally, I think Kait is just as needy, if not moreso than Shawn. Even on periscope, she's obsessed with totally random people pressing the screen to send her hearts. I'm not joking. She asks for this and gets super excited when we comply. And if you're out there, Kait, I do it all the time

Anyway, I think she and Shawn both need a lot of support, reassurance and comfort from their partner. So for Kait to reassure Shawn isn't a struggle because I think he does it back to her just as much and just as frequently. There is a reason she wrote that Insta comment about how much love and support she's getting and how comforting it feels imo. So while some may think Shawn is too needy, it seems to me, he's just right for her and she doesn't see it as needy at all.

Alanna wrote:Kait can do whatever she wants, tptb don't care and the overwhelming majority of fans are either already spoiled anyway or they don't notice how skewed her media is because they're not as obsessed as us hardcore types.

I think this has zero to do with Shawn or Shawn's jealousy or insecurities and everything to do with her and how much she wants to post and say about him. Shawn doesn't even post anything or defend himself or fav anything generally. It's all Kaitlyn.

Jmo.

nutty1 wrote:

agentcurls wrote:Jared, Cupcake, Ben H....they would've thought Nick was a bigger problem (maybe not quite to the extent of Shawn) had they been more emotionally invested in Kaitlyn. To be fair, that could be because Kaitlyn didn't make them feel comfortable in getting more emotionally invested subconciously because she was already so far gone with Shawn.
Most of their emotional turmoil came/comes after Kaitlyn cuts them lose. Maybe if they would've demonstrated more emotion with K on dates, they would've had more of a chance. She seems to like when a man goes goo-goo over her and isn't afraid to just put it all out there a'la Shawn.

Shawn has the bigger problem with Nick mostly due to it's impact on his relationship with Kaitlyn...and I will say Shawn's personality. He just seems more assertive than the other men, IMO. I think it turns Kaitlyn on, personally. She just about acknowledged how flattered she was with the whole Nick vs. Shawn thang because she knows it has very much to do with HER.

Jared had the right attitude throughout though. Worry about your relationship with Kaitlyn, and no one else.  I adore Jared!!

jojo47 wrote:

Alanna wrote:Kait can do whatever she wants, tptb don't care and the overwhelming majority of fans are either already spoiled anyway or they don't notice how skewed her media is because they're not as obsessed as us hardcore types.

I think this has zero to do with Shawn or Shawn's jealousy or insecurities and everything to do with her and how much she wants to post and say about him. Shawn doesn't even post anything or defend himself or fav anything generally. It's all Kaitlyn.

Jmo.

Kaitlyn's SM, including her blogs, say what she wants to say.

If you look at Shawn's SM for even one minute, it's full of women drooling over him. He gets more propositions in the first 43 seconds after he posts than some contestants get all season.

I think Kaitlyn is telling as many people (ahem women) as she can that Shawn is hers.

northernviewer wrote:

Nibbles22 wrote:

northernviewer wrote:Shawn reminds me of Whitney from last season .... Totally in the Bach bubble and believed themselves to be in love before the M&G

I agree with this, but at least Whitney came in with positive thoughts, was engaging in conversation, got along well with the other girls, and displayed nothing but class.

Agreed .... And again, I think this highlights their true personality really does shine through with their edit.