Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #4

Glad to see classy Christian Cat trying to pump up sex related interest for her pal Andi.

Not interested in MeAndi's sex life or her book. I won't buy it and will try not to read articles about it. Funny how low the tough prosecutor is willing to go. She is making Famously Single look like the classier way to make money  

We had a dodged a bullet club for Emily for a while, I kind of feel like Andi deserves one too.

Kashathediva wrote:Being of her parents ages and 6 degrees or less from the Dorfmans, I can not imagine they would be happy or dare I say it, not proud of this.

Nope. A classy woman who supposedly is taking the high road would not write a tell all detailing her sex life. If you want classy look at Whitney B.

stuckinsc wrote:Glad to see classy Christian Cat trying to pump up sex related interest for her pal Andi.

Not interested in MeAndi's sex life or her book. I won't buy it and will try not to read articles about it. Funny how low the tough prosecutor is willing to go. She is making Famously Single look like the classier way to make money  

We had a dodged a bullet club for Emily for a while, I kind of feel like Andi deserves one too.

Haha, Emily's actually kind of looking good to me these days compared our last few leads. Never thought I'd say that!

Laura Walsh wrote:
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Out of all the Bachelorettes on the show I would imagine there are more than just Andi and why she is being called all these bad names is beyond me.   How many others did the same exact thing she did and no one has called them names.  She just happened to pick a guy like Nick who never gave it a second thought to embarrass her and both their families on National TV.  Write her a letter and question her about this if you must but to do what he did is unthinkable to me.  

I can tell you why I think she is one of the worse, if not the worst B'ette.
Because she thought she has all the right to humiliate Nick, to toy with his feeling, and thought she can get away of it.

All my opinion.

I know, Emily does seem like a kinder, gentler version of the self centered princess. Unfortunately, sweet Des highlighted all the Emily flaws for me. But I agree, both Andi and Kaitlyn make Emily look good in hindsight , how sad is that?

bluwavz wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:Glad to see classy Christian Cat trying to pump up sex related interest for her pal Andi.

Not interested in MeAndi's sex life or her book. I won't buy it and will try not to read articles about it. Funny how low the tough prosecutor is willing to go. She is making Famously Single look like the classier way to make money  

We had a dodged a bullet club for Emily for a while, I kind of feel like Andi deserves one too.

Haha, Emily's actually kind of looking good to me these days compared our last few leads. Never thought I'd say that!

I liked Emily
At least she never tried to hide her divaness, and she really doesn't care what the public think of her.

MeAndi, yuck!!!

If she writes about Nick, I don't think he would care as much as if she wrote about her with Josh.

We should get some pretty good subtweets from Josh!

Too lazy to hit the multi quote option:
I did hit the like button a lot, however.
I do agree, the Emily from her season is coming across as angelic compared to the last 2 'ettes.
IMO--MEandI is only classy if you are comparing her to Kaitlyn. 
It's one thing to hang your undies from your supposedly clean kitchen. It's another to flaunt it with an IG photo. WTF moment on my end. Sorry. Who does that and why? Again--why? Because you can?  Well news alert--we all can and choose not to for the most part because there is word called "class".
The comment by Cat led me to believe that the book was not simply going to be a tell all of a sexual nature, but a tell all of a sexual nature with some bdsm thrown in...thus the 50 shades reference. No need to mention 50 shades if it was plain ole vanilla sex.
Sorry and again imo--TACKAY... TACKAY...TACKAY. Do what you want and when you want--safe, sane and consensual, but don't want to hear how you tied Josh up or vice versa and worse.
 Unless MEandI had Josh barking like a dog and play fetch then that might be interesting. Maybe MEandI had Josh and Sabel eating out of dog bowls. I don't need the visual thank you very much. Or worse, maybe Josh had ME sleeping in the crate. That would be justice, IMO.

Laura Walsh wrote:How can anyone say if she told Josh or not when we weren't in the Fantasy Suite with her and Josh.  He did say, however, on many interviews ATFR that Andi was 100% honest with him when telling him what she did on the show.  Out of all the Bachelorettes on the show I would imagine there are more than just Andi and why she is being called all these bad names is beyond me.   How many others did the same exact thing she did and no one has called them names.  She just happened to pick a guy like Nick who never gave it a second thought to embarrass her and both their families on National TV.  Write her a letter and question her about this if you must but to do what he did is unthinkable to me.  

Exactly. I'll be honest - I've never been an Andi fan and probably never will be. There's just something about her that gives off a spoiled and entitled vibe to me. Just because I personally don't like her, though, doesn't mean she deserved that. I heard Nick's conversation on the airplane - he specifically said Andi would never change her mind and wasn't crying about it, yet, months later, he suddenly seemed so confused and heartbroken about her choices and wrote that novel to get her back? Or how about when Kaitlyn invited him for sex after their first date? Did he say "Just so we're clear, I only want to engage in intercourse if you are in love with me and will pick me. Honesty is very important to me before having sex and I don't want to be hurt in the same way I was last year ". Nope. He was all in (no pun intended) before anyone even had a chance to remove their mics.

The constant sl*t-shaming on both Kaitlyn and Andi does annoy me, because a) there's a HUGE double standard - guys like Nick and Brad Womack and Graham and other fan favorites have slept around, yet no one calls them street walkers and b) pretty much every Bachelorette has done the same, be it Trista or Emily or Ashley or Deanna, but it just wasn't talked about. The show has gotten more liberal over the years and we now have contestants like Nick who spill the beans, but not much has changed. People use sex to make their decision. They're not hurting me, so I'm certainly going to judge them. JMO.

Crap Kasha, if Josh had ME sleeping in a crate, I might actually want to read about that. You have found a reason I could be interested in reading her craptastical book.

I am still hoping that the book is like her fashion line and her web show. Talked about, but never actually happening.

OMG, Kasha, you had me dying! But that's exactly what I took from what Cat said too. And it doesn't surprise me that Andi and Josh may have gotten a little kinky in the bedroom but it's a whole different ball game to write about it in a book.