Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #4

nothatgirl wrote:I can't imagine she won't write about Nick though! Not all the intimate details, but I think she'll talk about the conversations they had before and after the FS to show how (in her opinion) he wasn't deceived by her and knew what he was getting into. 

With Josh, I don't have a problem with her talking about it. They were engaged and Josh talked about "trying to get her pregnant" on the ATFR, so it's not a reveal. She has a right to share her own perspective on that, just like Josh is going to share his own perspective on private things on Famously Single.

nothatgirl wrote:I can't imagine she won't write about Nick though! Not all the intimate details, but I think she'll talk about the conversations they had before and after the FS to show how (in her opinion) he wasn't deceived by her and knew what he was getting into. 

With Josh, I don't have a problem with her talking about it. They were engaged and Josh talked about "trying to get her pregnant" on the ATFR, so it's not a reveal. She has a right to share her own perspective on that, just like Josh is going to share his own perspective on private things on Famously Single.

peggy0221 wrote:

Laura Walsh wrote:
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Out of all the Bachelorettes on the show I would imagine there are more than just Andi and why she is being called all these bad names is beyond me.   How many others did the same exact thing she did and no one has called them names.  She just happened to pick a guy like Nick who never gave it a second thought to embarrass her and both their families on National TV.  Write her a letter and question her about this if you must but to do what he did is unthinkable to me.  

I can tell you why I think she is one of the worse, if not the worst B'ette.
Because she thought she has all the right to humiliate Nick, to toy with his feeling, and thought she can get away of it.

All my opinion.

Beach Lover wrote:

nothatgirl wrote:I can't imagine she won't write about Nick though! Not all the intimate details, but I think she'll talk about the conversations they had before and after the FS to show how (in her opinion) he wasn't deceived by her and knew what he was getting into. 

With Josh, I don't have a problem with her talking about it. They were engaged and Josh talked about "trying to get her pregnant" on the ATFR, so it's not a reveal. She has a right to share her own perspective on that, just like Josh is going to share his own perspective on private things on Famously Single.

I honestly don't think anyone has a "right" to publicly discuss personal, intimate details about an ex, whether it be sexual or otherwise.  

Beach Lover wrote:

nothatgirl wrote:I can't imagine she won't write about Nick though! Not all the intimate details, but I think she'll talk about the conversations they had before and after the FS to show how (in her opinion) he wasn't deceived by her and knew what he was getting into. 

With Josh, I don't have a problem with her talking about it. They were engaged and Josh talked about "trying to get her pregnant" on the ATFR, so it's not a reveal. She has a right to share her own perspective on that, just like Josh is going to share his own perspective on private things on Famously Single.

I honestly don't think anyone has a "right" to publicly discuss personal, intimate details about an ex, whether it be sexual or otherwise.