Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #4

I thought the proposed title of Andi's book was It's Okay or some riff on JP's fave saying.  It just seems from Andi's book description that the book is going to be about Andi's former relationships.  That sounds like a Tell All to me.
Andi has been way less than mature on SM and with her public comments numerous times.  I am not holding my breath that the book will be all about positivity.  JMO

It seems like Andi has stated in several interviews that the book is about what she journaled while going through her breakup. I don't know if that will include when her and Josh started to "struggle" and before their "official" breakup or not, but either way, what she journaled about would likely include some bad feelings and anger towards Josh. I don't expect positivity. I anticipate she be will making fun of and joke about all the crazy things she did and felt after the breakup. Hopefully it's a lot of self deprecating humor and not all targeted at her exes.

I'm sure she'll keep her jabs subtle, so she can claim she's taking the high road.

I wonder if she's really thought this thing through. I mean I doubt guys will be lining up to date her after they read the account of her craziness. Well I guess not many guys will, but I'm sure it'll be summarized in the media. Any new date who happens to google her will be linked to details of her stalkerish behaviour. It may seem like a funny relatable topic to write about but it'll be out there FOREVER. I for one am glad few people know about my pathetic phases. They still make me cringe a decade later.

It's ok. Many of us have graduated from the Univ. of Cray. Some with honors and some still proudly wear the colors.

^^^ My male friends say that "the hotter the woman is, the further up the crazy scale she is" . And I have to admit since they've mentioned it, I've noticed there is, unfortunately, some fact to this

rhondam wrote:^^^ My male friends say that "the hotter the woman is, the further up the crazy scale she is" . And I have to admit since they've mentioned it, I've noticed there is, unfortunately, some fact to this

I actually think, it's that the hotter a woman is, the more crazy guys will put up with. As HIMYM coined, it's the crazy/hot matrix. I've seen lots of conventionally unattractive women just as crazy as Andi. It's just that if Andi didn't look the way she did, do you think any guys would be wanting to date someone who hacked into her ex's twitter, subtweeted her ex like crazy, puts her panties out to dry in the kitchen and PHOTOGRAPHS it, quits her steady job to work in an industry she has no experience or talent in, still trashes her ex from a year ago, and is writing a tell-all book again trashing her ex's? Nope. Explains why every single unattached guy on BIP went after Sammi, but stayed far away from Jacklyn (equally crazy, in a different way)/

Makes sense to me.

Jaclyn gets no love on here.

chasingpavements wrote:

rhondam wrote:^^^ My male friends say that "the hotter the woman is, the further up the crazy scale she is" . And I have to admit since they've mentioned it, I've noticed there is, unfortunately, some fact to this

I actually think, it's that the hotter a woman is, the more crazy guys will put up with. As HIMYM coined, it's the crazy/hot matrix. I've seen lots of conventionally unattractive women just as crazy as Andi. It's just that if Andi didn't look the way she did, do you think any guys would be wanting to date someone who hacked into her ex's twitter, subtweeted her ex like crazy, puts her panties out to dry in the kitchen and PHOTOGRAPHS it, quits her steady job to work in an industry she has no experience or talent in, still trashes her ex from a year ago, and is writing a tell-all book again trashing her ex's? Nope. Explains why every single unattached guy on BIP went after Sammi, but stayed far away from Jacklyn (equally crazy, in a different way)/

My husband loves that crazy/hot matrix. For those who haven't seen the video, here it is:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwbKYcBdVyk

Regarding the bolded, we don't know for sure Josh was talking about Andi when he tweeted about someone hacking into his SM accounts. But now that Andi has claimed she did every crazy, psychotic, depressing thing a girl can do during a break-up, I'm thinking she may just have been guilty after all.

I guess we're lucky (or Josh is) that she didn't end up boiling Sabel. 

LOL True True CP!  Love the matrix BeachLover!

We didn't need Josh to confirm who hacked into his accounts, IMO we just knew. We are sleuthers, who can examine human behaviour and are usually correct!

It was obvious to many who he was referring to especially after her response when she was caught red handed.