Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #4

Are you talking to me?

julychild wrote:I am genuinely curious, what exactly does Andi gain from these types of tweets.  She is not dumb, she must know that the bulk of her followers would automatically think that she is taking about Josh, even if she isn't.

To me when one has a large SM following, and has a voice, it is imperative that you become cautious about the things you say, or insinuate about others. It is very easy to encourage bullying, based on the wave of responses your tweets and whatnot will generate. I just don't know!

She is doing what she has always done... she is a very insecure person, imo. Insecure and immature.

I don't get it guys...can someone explain to me why that tweet about someone trying to hack into her email is attention seeking or anything to do with josh?

People complain about little things in their lives on twitter all the time. That's what I took it as

I'm probably completely missing something here

GuardianAngel wrote:Are you talking to me?

Said in your best gangster voice.

Seriously, I don't pay too much attention to Andi, but why Andi? why?

My first thought is she is trying to sabotage Josh's chances of being the bachelor. Then I thought, she just doesn't really have a clue. I will just move on.

GuardianAngel wrote:Are you talking to me?

Yeah, I was? Wondering what you were referring to? Would have answered you earlier but wasn't online. As for as why Andi said anything about Sam was because people were asking, don't know about Sam but I imagine it was the same for him...

Exactly, Happy it's a lot of assumptions that Andi, was talking about Josh..The thing is Josh doesn't live in Athens he lives in Atlanta...If she had said the ATL or Tampa it would be one thing...I don't follow Josh, is he even in Athens this weekend, because if he is not that blows some theory out of the water that she is subtweeting about Josh...I guess some want these Bachelor people to not be normal, when 99% of people say stuff like this all the time on "their" SM..

GuardianAngel wrote:IMO they are better off keeping their mouths shut.

Whether they did or didn't is no one business, therefore they don't need to defend themselves. The fact that they did make a statement, is what makes it worse.

luvlady345 wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:Are you talking to me?

Yeah, I was? Wondering what you were referring to? Would have answered you earlier but wasn't online. As for as why Andi said anything about Sam was because people were asking, don't know about Sam but I imagine it was the same for him...

Sorry for quoting myself, just putting the string of posts together.

IMO it's no one's business what they did or didn't do. There were apparently those who saw them leave together. If they hooked up for a one night stand, that's their business. IMO I don't find it necessary to have to defend oneself. They are both single and are not married or in a relationship with someone else, that we know of. There are many celebrities I'm sure who hook up for sexual pleasure. I can't really recall any of them defending themselves one way or another. By making a statement directly or indirectly now sounds to me like they are trying to put the rumours to rest and leaves doubt as to whether it happened or not.

That's just me though. I find it annoying when people try to defend their every move in response to negative comments. Ignore them, live your life, stay positive. JMHO

Really, people are in a catch 22, if you don't defend yourself, it must be true. If you do people still are not pleased about that...I guess people in the spotlight are human like us...They pick and choose, what they want to be attached to their names, maybe both of them didn't want a one night stand to be attached to theirs, so they responded....It works for me....

Yup IA. those were my opinions and how I feel. At the end of the day IMO it doesn't matter what they say happened or didn't happen. It will always be there anyway.

I personally don't care if Andi had a hookup with the singer. He is hot, she is hot, if they did good for them, if they didn't it doesn't effect me.

Now the whole someone hacking into the email thing. Andi, seriously, you and Josh already played that game this spring. Someone was hacking into his stuff and you claimed you too. You had those subtweets, we had those discussions. Time for some new material. Is there nothing exciting or new about being the single girl in the biggest city in the country? Please give us something new or interesting. And stop talking or subtweeting about your exes it is time to move on.

stuckinsc wrote:  Please give us something new or interesting.  And stop talking or subtweeting about your exes it is time to move on.

Yup. Time for her to move on. She really makes mountains out of molehills. I guess if you are known by this franchise and the guys you were with then it is hard for her to move on because what relevancy does she have out of that? Not much. To me she is choosing to define herself by this franchise and that is superficial and shallow to me. What an empty focus. jmho.

luvlady345 wrote:

FLChica wrote:^^ One ex is doing the horizontal hoedown with Kaitlyn, one ex is fighting hard to be the next Bachelor and the country singer made it clear he didn't hook-up with MeAndI. Poor girl's ego is taking a beating. Gotta get attention somehow.

And Andi, made it very clear she didn't hookup with him......

I must have missed that tweet. I only saw the tweet that said "That's why it's called a rumor" and wasen't that in response to someone asking if they were DATING? ( two different things imo ) I didn't see anything that said " they didn't hook up , maybe i missed it. I thought he said that she came back stage and they were talking but before that didn't he say " he dosen't kiss and tell? (maybe he can teach Nick a thing or two) imo that could mean that even if there was a one night hook up or any kissing going on back stage your not going to hear it from him. He admitted that he isn't DATING her and she confirmed that. Just saying. Sounds like a stand up guy .