Re: The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Britt Nilsson - Premier May 18-19 - Thread #2 *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

[Rolly]

It's often not as it seems....TPTB cut and paste to make you believe many things that aren't true.

Without a doubt the show just got a lot more interesting.

Go big or go home.

[bleuberry]

Didn't RS said Nick is upset that Kaitlyn wont change her mind?

Yes I believe RS said Nick is not at all happy with the ending. He thinks he will try and contact Kaitlyn at some point as well.

This is not a good sign. Kait had better give him closure stat. 

[soccermom333]

Didn't RS said Nick is upset that Kaitlyn wont change her mind?

Yes I believe RS said Nick is not at all happy with the ending. He thinks he will try and contact Kaitlyn at some point as well.

Oh my goodness. Didn't this already happen??!! TPTB are ruthless. Ugh!! Maybe Brady will propose to Britt.

[SueSt]

I totally get what you're saying, but I think it depends on how Kaitlyn describes it. If she says that Nick came to HER, it can just be that he made a move and she "succumbed", like Ben and (allegedly) Juan Pablo. It doesn't mean that she was seeking him out for sex. Also, JP (again, allegedly) did get physical with Clare in the ocean and still didn't pick her. So, I guess the guys could think "oh, she just had sex with him because she's known him the longer and HE made a move". I agree that it's really uncomfortable to hear about, but I get why they wouldn't leave. Especially if she sounds super apologetic about it.

I hope for all womankind that K does not frame this like she was an unwilling or hesitant (succumbed) partner in a tryst with Nick (or whoever).  I mean, that would be pretty gross IMO.  

If I was one of the guys, K being super apologetic about it, would not make me feel better.  Either K can control her desires or she can't.  If she's in control, she has to be ready to take responsibility for sleeping with Nick (or whoever).  If she's not in control, then why would I ever trust her as a possible wife?

Well, succumbed/giving into temptation =/= unwilling. One is r*pe, the other is very normal sexual behavior.

I don't think Kaitlyn regrets the sex. Like I said, I think that she had probably already seen Nick naked (and, vice versa) if they had been FT-ing since January. I think that it just happened sooner than she was planning on it because of producer influence/manipulation, and THAT's what she feels bad about.

I can understand her feeling a little bad, since she disappointed a number of guys who might feel an interest. I mean that's RL, right? You like a girl/guy and they choose someone else. But I hope her mea culpas don't disparage what she shared with Nick... (and the edit implies that she might) since that would be kind of icky to me. Look, the truth is she and Nick (assuming it's him) had real chemistry and after months of cyber dating finally consummated their relationship. If I'm one of the other guys it's game over, definitely (she made her choice)....

[mercieme]

Didn't RS said Nick is upset that Kaitlyn wont change her mind?

Yes I believe RS said Nick is not at all happy with the ending. He thinks he will try and contact Kaitlyn at some point as well.

Not again please, they will brand him as a stalker. Even as much as I like Nick, I would say he needs to consider what his family went through last season, just enough...If he didn't end up with Kaitlyn on the show then he can do well on his own at this point.

[emusha]

from the edit so far i think K is getting thrown under the bus ...dunno if they'll paint Nick as the seducer or as the hopeless romantic./...as long as they cut the villian music i prefer hopeless romantic who gets hurt rather than seducer who falls for the girl and gets what's coming to him when she dumps him....

[tigertiz]

I don't understand why Nick get's vilified if it was him, when clearly there were willing participants in each instance.

The other guys are probably kicking themselves silly that they didn't think of it first.    This season adds a bit of spice to Special Quality Time.

Bahaha kasha. Line of the night.

[jen689]

Tweet to Britt from Kaitlyn...

@kaitlynbristowe 9:06 PM - 19 May 2015

@brittkarolina you are beautiful inside and out. It pains me to watch you cry, you handled that with class and I love you girl!

[emusha]

 the nick show part dos!!
can't stop giggling
ETA where are NR and Happy??

[Guest]

http://allmyvideos.net/dgagr07hqfkv There's a link to the episode here and if you skip to the end (I think around 36 minutes in) you can watch the preview... Holy **** it looks like an absolute trainwreck this season.

[SueSt]

Emusha what was the posting on carly's IG?

https://instagram.com/p/2jpNiMPAy8/

ETA: Also makes sense of the "slow and steady" comment from her -- moved too fast -- i'm looking forward to see if they built a relationship foundation or got hot and heavy as two passionate ppl which they def are
.....wow ...so many things clicking into place!

So, did he break her heart by moving too fast or by being too hesitant? or both??

[emusha]

http://allmyvideos.net/dgagr07hqfkv There's a link to the episode here and if you skip to the end (I think around 36 minutes in) you can watch the preview... Holy **** it looks like an absolute trainwreck this season.

THANK YOU

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