Married At First Sight - Season 2 - Sean Varricchio - Davina Kullar - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #2

Ruqibabe wrote:

snewtsie wrote:Message to Davina - WE GET IT.  He was disingenuous and was on the show only as a springboard for other reality shows.  He's a creep, okay?  You expected a real relationship and were duped.  It's awful and we feel for you.  But you handled things poorly, too, and showed us that before he ever showed his true colors to you.  No compromise on your part for anything, reminding him repeatedly when he failed to meet your expectations, and becoming an overall unpleasant person to be around.  Please STOP with the woman scorned routine on social media.  If you had any inkling of awareness you would see it's reflecting poorly on you.  

   I keep trying not to write anything because my writing tone gets harsh when I give my opinion regarding this couple. I am not Sean's fan but I believe in fairness. These questions have been bothering me. 

1. If we didn't have the insider's view, what opinion would we have about this couple?

2. We were told Sean did it to be on other reality show but he is the only one currently avoiding SM. Davina is actually milking SM and trying to get support from viewers. Anyway, The aim of getting on reality show is mostly for fame. Even Jac is using her new founded fame to organize a meet and greet for her vodka company Tito. 

3. There are lots of speculations regarding Sean's sexuality which I think is unfair. There are different scenarios on why Sean might not want to have sex with her.
 I. She did create the no sex rule until love comes. She needs to bend the rule when she is ready. Her body language doesn't even scream I am ready, it screams back off. She keeps sending mix signals and expecting him to decode. For example when when they were looking at the planetrium show. She was lying down miles away instead of moving close to him. 
ii. He might not be into her anymore. Shouldn't we commend him for not wanting to take advantage of her when he is sure he wants a divorce. I recall our insiders said he talked about getting some while on the show. this is an opportunity to get some without being blamed for it but he chose not to. Could we still say he has integrity issues. 

I don't believe all men are manly man or alpha male. Should we tell our kids that are awkward that they might be gay even if they are not? Stereotyping is wrong on all levels

4.  Davina Davina Davina... Where should I start? I really liked Davina. I can relate to her because I am also a successful professional (not boasting) but I don't live in manhattan.. I believe she is book smart but not street smart. Even if she was matched with a creep (which I don't believe is true), she hasn't shown maturity in handling SM and her conduct on the show. I understand you were matched with someone who had anxiety issue, what would Courtney have done if She were in your shoes? She would have been there for her husband instead of looking at it as weakness. Sean said in an interview that he wanted someone that would push him to be a better person. I believe Davina also wanted to Figure things out. It's about giving and taking not just expecting a ready-made guy. 
Davina would have benefitted from an advice from a female who is married so she could adjust her unrealistic expectations.

5. I wonder what happened?  Davina was so pleasant to Sean on SM during the first two episodes. I remember how they were sharing wedding pictures online. Immediately She started Receiving heat on SM everything changed. Does She have to point fingers to justify her actions? Why play the blame game by liking controversial comments online? Why must people always use the victim card?

I do believe the match was a very good one but the expectations were not rightly set. JMO

snewtsie wrote:Ruqibabe- Your posting is SO GOOD, I could comment on every point, but it would just be a lot of, "I agree" phrases.  :-)  You have stated some really thought provoking observations, questions, and comments.  Thank you!

Something has just occurred to me based on the comment re: D's body language.  It's telling the true story.  She is not into him.  But she knows he's not into her, so she can keep saying, "I want this to work, I want sex, I am committed to this marriage - HE is the one who isn't."  It's a lie.  She doesn't want sex with him, her body language screams, "don't touch me."  She knows she can say anything because she sees he's not into her, and she's decided to play the victim rather than admit she's not into him, too.

Steel2009 wrote:Davina's dog:

https://www.facebook.com/DavinaKullarMAFS/photos/pb.898410790222504.-2207520000.1431965664./933572320039684/?type=1&theater

https://www.facebook.com/DavinaKullarMAFS/photos/pb.898410790222504.-2207520000.1431965664./924939430902973/?type=1&theater

Sean's dog or Dr. C's Dog ...no match.

https://www.facebook.com/SeanVarricchioMAFS/photos/pb.1374418719543345.-2207520000.1431964049./1402122843439599/?type=1&theater

sandyqcar wrote:That's NOT Davina's dog. Davina's right front leg is white.

crazychicken wrote:From Snetsies post earlier she posted a link from Dr Joseph himself saying  his dog is half Boston terrior half English bulldog. Davina's dog is black and white where the dog in the pic is brindle.

http://community.babycenter.com/post/a51777142/married_at_first_sight_part_3?cpg=28