Married At First Sight - Season 2 - Sean Varricchio - Davina Kullar - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #2

Ruqibabe wrote:I hope Davina is watching the show objectively and not just pointing fingers. She is also to blame in the failure of her marriage. IMO

Davina is getting so much heat for the video that was posted on MAFS Facebook page.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=367941766742149&id=296143973921929&fs=0

Most of these comments are on point!

Steel2009 wrote:

Ruqibabe wrote:I hope Davina is watching the show objectively and not just pointing fingers. She is also to blame in the failure of her marriage. IMO

Davina is getting so much heat for the video that was posted on MAFS Facebook page.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=367941766742149&id=296143973921929&fs=0

Most of these comments are on point!

Yeah. Sean is no saint but Davina will never find a husband if she is unwilling to compromise. It's like she expected Sean to do all the compromising.

Someone did make a valid comment. The person told her to try older men.

This is an excruciating amount of negativity coming at her, especially for someone who believes she has been bullied in the past. She and Sean are my least favorite couple for a host of reasons but they may be least equipped to stand up under so much negativity. I wonder if the show would be better served to just acknowledge they broke up so the vitriol crescendoes and then dies down more quickly. Several more weeks of this can take a serious toll. Dr. C. said all the experts and crew loved Sean (the reasons totally escape me), so they must have anticipated that public opinion would go wildly against Davina. That short clip showing her explanation for why she never felt a need to compromise on location is really damaging. Her lack of empathy and understanding leaps out in a way that would touch a nerve with everyone who ever felt they made a serious effort that their partner ignored. it probably could have been edited by a friendlier hand to be more human, but the show appears to want to let her hang out there. I hope they bring this particular "journey" to a close soon. She was never a good candidate for this show and they bear responsibility for not recognizing that too.

Ruqibabe wrote:Someone did make a valid comment. The person told her to try older men.

Older men won't necessarily leave their homes or jobs or do the long commutes either. They get even more set in their routines.

I think first and foremost if they did not stay together, Davina has to learn to compromise as well. It can't be all one sided.

I'm not saying that she maybe didn't have reasons to get upset with Sean, with editing you never know what ended up on the floor
but she sure looks put out in the last picture of them at NYE, that is posted here.

^^ I agree She didn't help herself with the explanation on location. I understand why the experts would support Sean. He did try to make the marriage work. Didn't the expert counsel them before matching them? They should have prepared them for marriage. Realistic expectations not fairy tale

The experts probably matched them hoping Davina would fall hard enough for Sean and bend a little bit on Manhattan. Ryan and Jaclyn had moving as dealbreakers so what's her excuse? She comes across as selfish. If I were Sean I would check out too.

They were hoping she would bend on the UES and at least show a little compassion.

I find Sean very sweet.  I think he is biting his tongue with Davina and he probably wants to see how truly selfish she is.  I wonder what if anything she is willing to sacrifice for this relationship.  At the moment - it looks like nothing.  
I am always impressed with Jaclyn and Ryan, they clearly have skills to resolve deal breakers since they are in sales.  Davina must be really new to sales because she does not seem to understand that you think she won the battle with hey I got the apartment, but it puts Sean in a situation where he has an awful commute and he can't spend the night with you since he probably has to be at a hospital,at 7am, and function at a level where he does not kill anyone due to lack of sleep.  I think his employer would not like to see him acting so irresponsibly to keep spoiled Davina happy.  I think Sean did the right thing here.  And if Davina does not come around, I think she is going to be a very lonely woman.

My husband works in NY City he has only an 90 minute commute and he is exhausted when he gets home.  He is basically a zombie from the commute...he does not have to work a 12 hour shift either.  I really hope she comes around, but the more she puts on her facebook/twitter that puts sean in an unflattering view the more I dislike her.

justify14 , great first post!

From Sean on Facebook an hour ago.

Davina Kullar and I are positive people with good hearts. All of the negative comments and posts are not welcome period.
We are real people with real lives. Be mindful of what you say. You would not want these things said to you or about anyone close to you. Remember the golden rule do unto others as you want done unto you.

justify14 ! Enjoy your stay.