Married At First Sight - Season 2 - Sean Varricchio - Davina Kullar - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Ruqibabe wrote:

relaxing wrote:

Ruqibabe wrote:According Dr Logan, Davina's deal breaker was moving out of Manhattan. Dr L said that during the interview process, Sean was committed to relocating.

I'm thinking Sean said whatever he thought would get him on the show and Davina expected a Manhattan professional as her match.  Disconnect with them right off the bat.

I think Sean was just overwhelmed with the move ystrday. Davina should have comforted him instead of complaining abt her need. He also needs to communicate better.

I saw an extended preview ystrday during the arranged marriage show. Sean was moving his bags from the apartment. Did someone else see that?

Is it this clip ??

https://www.facebook.com/FYI/videos/vb.334832696659288/565022523640303/?type=2&theater

Looks like he is carrying some suitcases...maybe they decided to spend take some time apart.

Steel2009 wrote:

Ruqibabe wrote:

relaxing wrote:

I'm thinking Sean said whatever he thought would get him on the show and Davina expected a Manhattan professional as her match.  Disconnect with them right off the bat.

I think Sean was just overwhelmed with the move ystrday. Davina should have comforted him instead of complaining abt her need. He also needs to communicate better.

I saw an extended preview ystrday during the arranged marriage show. Sean was moving his bags from the apartment. Did someone else see that?

Is it this clip ??

https://www.facebook.com/FYI/videos/vb.334832696659288/565022523640303/?type=2&theater

Boy Davina is performing for those cameras...make that money girlie

emusha wrote:Sean and Davinia and their constant overanalysis is exhausting - Dr. C put it perfectly when he pointed that out...

Yeah I'm tryna hang in there...

Thomigirl wrote:

Steel2009 wrote:

Ruqibabe wrote:

I think Sean was just overwhelmed with the move ystrday. Davina should have comforted him instead of complaining abt her need. He also needs to communicate better.

I saw an extended preview ystrday during the arranged marriage show. Sean was moving his bags from the apartment. Did someone else see that?

Is it this clip ??

https://www.facebook.com/FYI/videos/vb.334832696659288/565022523640303/?type=2&theater

Boy Davina is performing for those cameras...make that money girlie

In this clip, I feel like she's talking to him like a child being scolded.  I hope he starts to speak up and tell her about herself.

That's the clip. I blame him for not speaking up. He really should have called her out on her language. Why use the f word when talking to him.

JerseyNurse wrote:
When he signed up for it, before he was even cast, he was all into it. He was telling anyone who would listen. Before the wedding, he was all excited about getting married. He changed in a matter of WEEKS. Now he is just unhappy. And was REALLY cranky on Valentines Day. Just didn't seem like someone who would be in love.
He was always loud and boisterous. Now he is just an irritated soul.

JerseyNurse, You Rock!!! We appreciate your first-hand witness insights to Sean SO MUCH!!!!!   You are adding so much to this forum!! Thank You!  

Sooooooo I found something interesting.. On one of Sean's picture. A woman who lives in Jackson NJ (I think that's where Sean lives) commented. See comment below. 

Michele Prendimano Megill

I think people should refrain from bad mouthing Davina. We all have thoughts but this woman may still be his wife and I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate bad mouthing the woman he loves. Have some class...just my opinion!!
 
She works at the Meridian fitness and Wellness Center Jackson. Even though she isn't friends with Sean on fb, are we sure she doesn't have an insider's view? Coupled with the matching for the interview, are we really sure they are not together? 

https://m.facebook.com/SeanVarricchioMAFS/photos/a.1380069005644983.1073741830.1374418719543345/1413502635634953/?type=1&fs=7

Whistler

DAVINAAAA..... She really was expecting a perfect husband from the expert.


http://www.aetv.com/married-at-first-sight/video/davina-demands-manhattan

it's looking like davina is going to be very unhappy just as monet was with the way she'll be depicted -- she comes off as very cold, uncompromising, rigid, and self-absorbed -- i really don't think she's like that but I don't see her giving much to the relationship in any significant way right now...she seems to be skirting around and making sure all her check boxes are ticked for her needs...

I think its pretty interesting and very convenient that the "experts" created three unique scenarios with the three couples.

Ryan and Jacqulyn- go 50/50 on everything, move equidistant from each others original location, both compromise about the same amount. Everything seems to be going dandy for them. I was a Jackie fan from Day 1, I liked her quick wit and found her crazy eyes kind of hypnotizing. So I'm glad Long Island Iced Tea and her are doing well!

Sean and Davina- Sounds like Sean's nervous about costs while Davina can care less as long as it's in Manhattan, with very little compromise on Davina's end. I get the feeling that Sean is more financially conservative than Davina maybe because he makes less, but also understands $3600 for a shoebox house makes no sense (just like the rest of the world).  I think he preemptively told the experts he would relocate for his wife, but I do not get the feeling that Sean is willing to relocate for Davina (sorry homegirl, but you freaked me out with your "happy-crying-turned-angry-crying" on the honeymoon and I'm not the one in a relationship with you!). So more compromising is happening on the husbands end here.  

Ryan and Jess: Ryan feels like he "should" be paying more because he's a man (wtf?), Jess is okay with this. But Ryan is also a financial nightmare ($50-60 a day on food!!?! Ryan, you're a fool) while Jess is more conservative with money.Then he takes up all the closet space (because he's the man).I personally would be perplexed if my male counterpart told me he needed ALL of the closet space to hang his work clothes and I would have to use the chest of drawers, I mean there are always garment racks...basically it seems like the wife has to compromise more in this relationship scenario.    

I just think its VERY INTERESTING how these three very different relationships were orchestrated. Not trying to pull a conspiracy theory here but if three couples were really matched for success, I doubt such differences in these areas of conflict would present itself so quickly. I think unfortunately for two of these couples, they were matched poorly on purpose for entertainment purposes. I could be wrong but we shall see!

Jadeh wrote:I blame the experts.  I suspect that the formula for the experts is find the best matches but that they must be somewhat photogenic and there must be some hurdles or conflict (makes for more exciting TV).  The differences between D & S is too great(remember Vaughn lived in Central Jersey and Monet lived in Harlem).  If you really want to be married you make compromises.  Neither of these two are willing to do that - in part because they are both dominated by their own fears.  Davina defines herself by her jobs and her friends, all of which are in NYC.  Leaving them to marry a stranger - a very risk proposition  in itself - would be terrifying.  Sean, opens up and wants sympathy, but I have seen no empathy.  To make a marriage work you need to have shared values, willingness to compromise, and be straight with yourself and your spouse.  These are the issues that I recall from the casting episode that have come true: Davina said that she would not leave NYC, Dr. C said Ryan D had an edgy temper (how about a short fuse?), Ryan R. said it would be hard for him to leave his mom (couple of things on that- he is 28 and not left home, he seems to have stepped in when his parents split 18 years ago), Jaclyn said admitted to walling her self off (she also said that she was an all in or all out girl), Sean was bullied in the past which could suggest poor personal skills (that is not meant to blame the victim, I was bullied as a child to the point that when we moved in 4th grade two little girls made everyone saying they were glad hated me (happened in the very last few minutes of class when the teacher left the room and what I mean by bad skills is that he may have been shy, nerdy and not stood up for himself,  that took me years to overcome).

The bolded could not be further from the truth. It has zero to do with choosing people that are photogenic or that make exciting TV. And I mean zero.

Every single couple has issues they are dealing with, just like we all do. This is real life. Production builds a storyboard surrounding the conflict or hurdle, but it is in no way part of the selection process.

The experts are putting their professional integrity on the line and they each take this very seriously. Not one of them would be a part of this if it were about creating exciting TV. That has been made very clear to me in multiple conversations.