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why do you think all the contestants dislike/despise the producers so much?

EDIT DRAMA & FALSE ASSUMPTIONS

They have no idea how they will be portrayed and I am sure all the michelle frank wes weatherman kasey were sooooooo pleased to see themselves in such a great light uh?




Do you think ChrisL was pleased to see the producers to use and abuse his mom's story?

Do you think that Frank was pleased to see the same?

1. why would ChrisL contact Ben if not to confort him going thru the medias and else. I do not find the first tweet but it was Chris who I think initiated the contact with him.

2. why would ChrisL miss Frank if Frank was not a nice guy (been told that they shared their way plane trip back to the us together and made buddy-buddy there)




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Chris Lambton

@@evolvewines no worries man. We are here all weekend. If u free for a drink let me know



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@Me too. Reunion. I'll bring the absinthe @CRAIGR1 : I really miss Frank Neuschafer





I am just saying that WE DO NOT KNOW what really happened and we will NEVER know what was said.

They are the masters of using photoshop and have experts to cut the 10,000,000 hours of taping.

We should ALL start our post with: IN MY OPINION (IMO)

just sayin'

I'm actually going to take a bit of a stab at what the "absinthe" tweet and Frank is all about. Not that they're not friends with Frank now, but I think this was an inside joke. Absinthe is a type of liqueur that is popular in France, and didn't Frank live in Paris for a while? I bet he used to tell the guys about how he drank absinthe there (which probably came off a little pretentious), and so Craig was making a joke about bringing the absinthe (not even sure you can buy it in the US) and missing Frank, the "absinthe drinker".

I didn't find it disrespectful when Bevin said nothing after her rejection.... Broke my heart, and I was a Tessa fan...

alsoaktchr wrote:I didn't find it disrespectful when Bevin said nothing after her rejection.... Broke my heart, and I was a Tessa fan...

In my culture it is disrespectful if you dont answer someone back when they speak to you. To me she was saying why waste anymore of my breath on you, you are not worthy of it.

Not sure how I would react if my heart was broken in front of millions (eventually) by someone who'd told me he loved me...

reason wrote:

alsoaktchr wrote:I didn't find it disrespectful when Bevin said nothing after her rejection.... Broke my heart, and I was a Tessa fan...

In my culture it is disrespectful if you dont answer someone back when they speak to you. To me she was saying why waste anymore of my breath on you, you are not worthy of it.

Interesting (and I do not mean it in a sarcastic way at all).

This confirms that because we are all coming from different culture and background and education and experience and age and genre, we all see the same episode differently

In my book, silence is the best response or I would be over dramatic. I learned with years that silence is my BEST FRIEND.


note: recently I was cut out from my job. The RH guy started to say BS of their reasons. I did not say a word beside "when will I receive my last paycheck?"... the guy was litterally sweating in front of me... stupid but I jubilated (SP?) to see him so uncomfortable. In the end what I say or not did not change the issue so why bother and not get some fun from it? I will also add that if the person in front of "you" has an open mind it is fun to confront different opinions but if we know that this person will never accept that you can have a different opinion, why bother?

alsoaktchr wrote:Not sure how I would react if my heart was broken in front of millions (eventually) by someone who'd told me he loved me...

I don't mind what Bevin did either. I would be afraid of either opening my mouth and insulting him or begging him to take me back. I don't think I would be able to wish them well, but I totally commend those who can say such things at those moments!

Titou wrote:

reason wrote:

alsoaktchr wrote:I didn't find it disrespectful when Bevin said nothing after her rejection.... Broke my heart, and I was a Tessa fan...

In my culture it is disrespectful if you dont answer someone back when they speak to you. To me she was saying why waste anymore of my breath on you, you are not worthy of it.

Interesting (and I do not mean it in a sarcastic way at all).

This confirms that because we are all coming from different culture and background and education and experience and age and genre, we all see the same episode differently

In my book, silence is the best response or I would be over dramatic. I learned with years that silence is my BEST FRIEND.


note: recently I was cut out from my job. The RH guy started to say BS of their reasons. I did not say a word beside "when will I receive my last paycheck?"... the guy was litterally sweating in front of me... stupid but I jubilated (SP?) to see him so uncomfortable. In the end what I say or not did not change the issue so why bother and not get some fun from it? I will also add that if the person in front of "you" has an open mind it is fun to confront different opinions but if we know that this person will never accept that you can have a different opinion, why bother?

I might have not explain myself well. I like when Bevin did not answer Andy it was insulting him for the way he treated her and he deserved it. Not answering in my culture = to someone insulting you. She insulted him big time and he truly deserved it. I never like Andy thought he was creepy and not officer and a gentleman so I laugh out loud that night.

It is not an insult when one actually CAN'T find words to say .. Just like Bevins reaction was. Ben may have had/could have the same/similar type reaction as well. Just could not find the words, can't speak in order to hold it together.

Not an insult by a long shot. And BTW she may not have asked a question that needed an answer lol

Titou wrote:

reason wrote:

alsoaktchr wrote:I didn't find it disrespectful when Bevin said nothing after her rejection.... Broke my heart, and I was a Tessa fan...

In my culture it is disrespectful if you dont answer someone back when they speak to you. To me she was saying why waste anymore of my breath on you, you are not worthy of it.

Interesting (and I do not mean it in a sarcastic way at all).

This confirms that because we are all coming from different culture and background and education and experience and age and genre, we all see the same episode differently.

For me, this is the post of the season. If we can understand this one thing, it will be a foundation for building tolerance and respect for multiple perspectives.

1. why would ChrisL contact Ben if not to confort him going thru the medias and else. I do not find the first tweet but it was Chris who I think initiated the contact with him.

I'm sure I wasn't the only one that tweeted Chris & Peyton that they should look up Ben when they're in SF. I doubt very much Chris wants to comfort Ben. That's not a guy kind of thing to do even if Chris did know the outcome which I doubt he does. He doesn't even watch the show.

Color me confused. Why are we speculating that Ben left without saying anything to Ashley? We have nothing to support that theory.

Someone asking me a question, puts me under NO obligation to answer it...