Re: Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley #7

by Guest Tue Mar 10, 2015 1:24 pm

bleuberry wrote:
cindebugg wrote:
see2love wrote:We can blame the edit all we want but why is Chris still unable to say he would still have chosen Whitney over Becca? He cant because it would be a lie. He wanted Becca and his parents who were not watching an edited version saw that. They knew he wanted Becca at MTP and that is that.

It seems to me if he really wanted Becca she would have gotten the LCD that Whitney got. A public bowling alley is not really the place to be alone or have a serious conversation. Chris could have used the opportunity to show Becca that life on the farm isn't so bad and to show her his beautiful home. He took Whitney because he wanted her to see the reality of living in Arlington and what it means to be a farmer in the 21st century. IMO, he wanted her at the farm because he wanted to see her in his element and to make sure they were both on the same page regarding their future.

That is a good point. I didn't even know they went bowling.

but his dad said it, I didnt dream up the words. His mother as much told Becca it was hers to lose. Chris asked her for anything she would give him. I didnt make these facts up.

by Jolena Tue Mar 10, 2015 1:24 pm

soccermom333 wrote:
Mommyof1 wrote:Here is an interview with Becca:

http://www.people.com/article/bachelor-finale-runner-up-becca-reacts-chris-decision-whitney

Thanks for this. Interesting how she says he "was begging her." Hmmm, I know Becca is being honest and this just shows how torn Chris was and what he wanted to hear from her.

Happy Becca is happy with her decision but sad that she says she was willing "to date" him. Again, she didn't fit with the show and a proposal at the end.

AS great a girl that Becca is she is not in the same place with her life as Chris is. He's ready to get married , settle down and have babies like yesterday. I don't think a long distance dating relationship especially with Becca's beliefs would have worked out for either one. I wish Becca the best and Im sure that she'll find her special prince. :Nod: I wish TPTB would have made her the Bachelorette .

by hmbach Tue Mar 10, 2015 1:25 pm

stuckinsc wrote:
soccermom333 wrote:snipped
Totally agree with this. I think Becca's fans will be around for awhile. ;) However, I do wish the "happy" couple the best. Time will tell. IMHO, these two are showing signs of stress already. It is his choice but I really wish they were going back to the farm now and not doing DWTS. I hope that now they are out of the bubble, Whit gives this some time before she packs up and moves to Arlington. JMHO :cutesmile!:

I watched them on Kelly and Michael and she said she knew after their wedding date that he was the one. I know that all the final couples say this but yikes. I will always appreciate Becca's fresh perspective on taking things slow. Unfortunately, TPTB won't ever let that happen. Like Sean said, "Becca was too good for the bachelor."

I am a Becca fan, and let me say, I would have been very happy for the final couple if they looked happy on AFTR like Des and Chris. I learned from Des and Chris to put my own wishes aside and really look for happiness from the final couple. Des and Chris had it. Chris didn't look happy last night. He did look tired, but Sean was doing DWTS and he still looked happy and excited Catherine. Sadly, Chris looked like a man ready to move on and trying to be happy with his decision. I hope I am wrong. But I really was hoping the three months since the show would show me a happy couple, that as was not what I saw and it seems it continues today. I feel really bad for Whitney. I know she wants this, but I am hesitant with the couple who wants love and marriage and babies not talking about when moving to Iowa or even a marriage date. Red flag.

Ladybug82 wrote:snipped
! I agree! By no means do I think Whitney if a default or settled for choice, he made his choice and it was Whitney. I did see there was something there throughout the show, and as you said Whitney was everything he said he wanted. I agree with you, Becca was a total gamble on how long it'd take to get there - in love and Arlington, and would she really stay once she got there. I'm just not sold, yet, that he was really sure in the end, that everything he'd said he wanted was actually what he really wanted. The whole show he worried over making decisions and letting people (his family) down, etc. if he didn't make the right choice... he was never going to gamble on anything.

I really do wish them the best and hope they have a lifetime of happiness together... if that's what they both want.

ETA: I do hope they eventually win me over as a couple. I like Whitney as an individual. Chris...well, I'm not sold on. Right now, I'm still on the, I think they can do better boat. Maybe that will change in the future.

I agree with you LB. I want to be sold and hope to get there. I am waiting until the end of DWTS, if they make it through that I will think they have a better chance.

Mommyof1 wrote:Whitney fans, I feel your pain. I was in your shoes during JPG's season, defending him and Nikki until the cows came home. Shout out to notarose! I just wish since Whit was F1, she would have received a better edit.

I was on the JPG and Nikki boat until Couples Therapy. I actually saw more love from I won't say I love you JPG to Nikki then from Chris to Whitney last night.

I do wish they would have shown Whitney as a better edit. And that Chris would have just answered the if Becca had been there question better. No need to respect Becca, this was his time to make it better for his F1, it would have been Whitney no matter what.

Good luck to the final couple. I still didn't see Chris being as in love with Whitney, rather a man accepting the choice he had to make. For all the romance and an engagement this final couple is much less romantic to me then the video love song we got from JPG to Nikki last year.

I just don't think that Chris lies well. I think he WANTS to love Whitney because she is perfect on paper, but when confronted directly with the question of whether he would have chosen differently if Becca would have been on board he can't help but speak some mumbled version of the truth. I just think that's who he is. Even back during the ATFR or the MTA on Andi's season... he was one of the ones that passed the lie detector test. I just don't think it's easy forhim to lie, even though in this case he wants his answers to be the truth, they just aren't yet. Hopefully he'll get there eventually.

by ElonM Tue Mar 10, 2015 1:26 pm

Mommyof1 wrote:As I said, it's going to be a hard road for Whit and Chris.

http://hollywoodlife.com/2015/03/10/the-bachelor-chris-soules-loves-becca-tilley-more-whitney-bischof-pressured-by-family-finale/

This article is on point.

His BL was totally off even during the interview this morning on GMA. I guess the pressure of his sisters didn't compare has more weight that what his heart wants.

The mere fact that he is in LA doing DWTS and Whitney moving there is confusing to me given he wanted to move back to Iowa right away.

I'm now thinking why pick Whitney given all these changes when he was sticking to the script of wife and babies. It's obvious that's not on the table yet but these principles were used to convinced him to pick Whitney.

In the end he could have chosen Becca and still spend the time in LA and build on this relationship and eventfully move there.

Now he's in LA with a woman he obviously is trying to love. Cause from what I'm seeing he's not in love he's just convincing himself that he is for his family.

All the best for the happy couple.

by Litta123 Tue Mar 10, 2015 1:27 pm

atem wrote:It's hard to say what is sarcasm or not via twitter.

Especially true when you are not a regular reader of that person's tweets. It's hard to know someone's intentions. Becca does not follow Sean or Catherine...so I think her response is understandable.

by Mommyof2 Tue Mar 10, 2015 1:29 pm

ElonM wrote:
Mommyof1 wrote:As I said, it's going to be a hard road for Whit and Chris.

http://hollywoodlife.com/2015/03/10/the-bachelor-chris-soules-loves-becca-tilley-more-whitney-bischof-pressured-by-family-finale/

This article is on point.

His BL was totally off even during the interview this morning on GMA. I guess the pressure of his sisters didn't compare has more weight that what his heart wants.

The mere fact that he is in LA doing DWTS and Whitney moving there is confusing to me given he wanted to move back to Iowa right away.

I'm now thinking why pick Whitney given all these changes when he was sticking to the script of wife and babies. It's obvious that's not on the table yet but these principles were used to convinced him to pick Whitney.

In the end he could have chosen Becca and still spend the time in LA and build on this relationship and eventfully move there.

Now he's in LA with a woman he obviously is trying to love. Cause from what I'm seeing he's not in love he's just convincing himself that he is for his family.

All the best for the happy couple.

I just watched the clip. The BL was very off. Couldn't they at least hold hands? Very cold, imo. Wow.

I sense a lot of tension already.

by mindless Tue Mar 10, 2015 1:33 pm

Mommyof1 wrote:As I said, it's going to be a hard road for Whit and Chris.

http://hollywoodlife.com/2015/03/10/the-bachelor-chris-soules-loves-becca-tilley-more-whitney-bischof-pressured-by-family-finale/

That's exactly what I saw. It's not the edit, it's him. The heart wants what the heart wants.

Compare him telling people what he loves about Whitney on GMA to him saying what he thinks about Becca on Ellen. I'm not talking about the words, but how they come out. It took no effort from him to list Becca's good qualities.

by **GuardianAngel** Tue Mar 10, 2015 1:34 pm

Mommyof1 wrote:As I said, it's going to be a hard road for Whit and Chris.

http://hollywoodlife.com/2015/03/10/the-bachelor-chris-soules-loves-becca-tilley-more-whitney-bischof-pressured-by-family-finale/

Wow, those are all the things that we have been discussing since last night and all day. Thanks Mommy for bringing the link over.

by Pia1 Tue Mar 10, 2015 1:35 pm

Mommyof1 wrote:Here is an interview with Becca:

http://www.people.com/article/bachelor-finale-runner-up-becca-reacts-chris-decision-whitney

I cannot imagine what the unedited version of that conversation was like. In a way, it's for the best to all parties involved that it wasn't shown because even with the snippet they showed my heart broke for Chris.

by ElonM Tue Mar 10, 2015 1:35 pm

mindless wrote:
Mommyof1 wrote:As I said, it's going to be a hard road for Whit and Chris.

http://hollywoodlife.com/2015/03/10/the-bachelor-chris-soules-loves-becca-tilley-more-whitney-bischof-pressured-by-family-finale/

That's exactly what I saw. It's not the edit, it's him. The heart wants what the heart wants.

Compare him telling people what he loves about Whitney on GMA to him saying what he thinks about Becca on Ellen. I'm not talking about the words, but how they come out. It took no effort from him to list Becca's good qualities.

This GMA interview was very telling. They BARELY touch each other. Seriously?

He couldn't even say properly what he loves about her.

by hmbach Tue Mar 10, 2015 1:36 pm

I am curious what Becca would do if C and W break up and he is still interested in pursuing a relationship with her. I would guess that she would tell him that it wasn't right, but curious. I definitely think B can do better though.

by Mommyof2 Tue Mar 10, 2015 1:38 pm

Ryan Sutter's tweets were interesting about Becca.

Ryan Sutter @ryansutter
· 15h 15 hours ago
New prediction. Chris is going to pick Becca and agree to move to California. No more family farm.

I like Becca for not caving and staying true to her self and ideals.

Relationships work when both people love themselves & each other. Becca gets that. She's prudent. She should be Chris's pick. The end.

I realize I've only watched one hour and that things aren't always what they seem (been there after all), but I'd pick Becca and be patient.

Well. Guess that shows how much I know. Good luck Chris and the girl you picked. Good night folks.

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