Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley #7

It's hard to say what is sarcasm or not via twitter.

bleuberry wrote:It doesn't sound that bad to me, but I haven't a clue what Shoney's is.

It's a restaurant.

As I said, it's going to be a hard road for Whit and Chris.

http://hollywoodlife.com/2015/03/10/the-bachelor-chris-soules-loves-becca-tilley-more-whitney-bischof-pressured-by-family-finale/

hmbach wrote:

see2love wrote:Sean Lowe ‏@SeanLowe09  15h15 hours ago
Cons for Becca moving to Iowa: no job, away from family, no nightlife.

Pros: Shoney's
#TheBachelor

Becca Tilley ‏@beccatilley5  9h9 hours ago
@SeanLowe09 i dont really go out... Nightlife wasnt an issue .

Sean LoweVerified account
‏@SeanLowe09
@beccatilley5 please don't take my tweets seriously. They're all sarcastic and ridiculous. We thought you did great

‏@clmgiudici
@SeanLowe09 @beccatilley5 sorry if we hurt your feelings! Our tweets are all in good fun & we think you've been gracious the whole season

I think that Becca takes things much more personally than she lets on.  Which is why she is so quick to try and actually figure out what it is that people don't like about her on SM posts.  

Sean and Catherine threw a lot of tweeted jabs at her all season, i guess she just responded to this as it was the latest she could respond to.
I doubt they meant any harm but i respect her and them for hashing it out

^^^ They did? That's odd.

soccermom333 wrote:snipped
Totally agree with this.  I think Becca's fans will be around for awhile.  ;)  However, I do wish the "happy" couple the best.  Time will tell.  IMHO, these two are showing signs of stress already.  It is his choice but I really wish they were going back to the farm now and not doing DWTS.  I hope that now they are out of the bubble, Whit gives this some time before she packs up and moves to Arlington.  JMHO :cutesmile!:

I watched them on Kelly and Michael and she said she knew after their wedding date that he was the one.  I know that all the final couples say this but yikes.  I will always appreciate Becca's fresh perspective on taking things slow.  Unfortunately, TPTB won't ever let that happen.  Like Sean said, "Becca was too good for the bachelor."  

I am a Becca fan, and let me say, I would have been very happy for the final couple if they looked happy on AFTR like Des and Chris. I learned from Des and Chris to put my own wishes aside and really look for happiness from the final couple. Des and Chris had it. Chris didn't look happy last night. He did look tired, but Sean was doing DWTS and he still looked happy and excited Catherine. Sadly, Chris looked like a man ready to move on and trying to be happy with his decision. I hope I am wrong. But I really was hoping the three months since the show would show me a happy couple, that as was not what I saw and it seems it continues today. I feel really bad for Whitney. I know she wants this, but I am hesitant with the couple who wants love and marriage and babies not talking about when moving to Iowa or even a marriage date. Red flag.

Ladybug82 wrote:snipped
!  I agree!  By no means do I think Whitney if a default or settled for choice, he made his choice and it was Whitney.  I did see there was something there throughout the show, and as you said Whitney was everything he said he wanted.  I agree with you, Becca was a total gamble on how long it'd take to get there - in love and Arlington, and would she really stay once she got there.  I'm just not sold, yet, that he was really sure in the end, that everything he'd said he wanted was actually what he really wanted.  The whole show he worried over making decisions and letting people (his family) down, etc. if he didn't make the right choice... he was never going to gamble on anything.  

I really do wish them the best and hope they have a lifetime of happiness together... if that's what they both want.

ETA:  I do hope they eventually win me over as a couple.  I like Whitney as an individual.  Chris...well, I'm not sold on.  Right now, I'm still on the, I think they can do better boat.  Maybe that will change in the future.  

I agree with you LB. I want to be sold and hope to get there. I am waiting until the end of DWTS, if they make it through that I will think they have a better chance.

Mommyof1 wrote:Whitney fans, I feel your pain.  I was in your shoes during JPG's season, defending him and Nikki until the cows came home.    Shout out to notarose!    I just wish since Whit was F1, she would have received a better edit.  

I was on the JPG and Nikki boat until Couples Therapy. I actually saw more love from I won't say I love you JPG to Nikki then from Chris to Whitney last night.

I do wish they would have shown Whitney as a better edit. And that Chris would have just answered the if Becca had been there question better. No need to respect Becca, this was his time to make it better for his F1, it would have been Whitney no matter what.

Good luck to the final couple. I still didn't see Chris being as in love with Whitney, rather a man accepting the choice he had to make. For all the romance and an engagement this final couple is much less romantic to me then the video love song we got from JPG to Nikki last year.

see2love wrote:We can blame the edit all we want but why is Chris still unable to say he would still have chosen Whitney over Becca? He cant because it would be a lie. He wanted Becca and his parents who were not watching an edited version saw that. They knew he wanted Becca at MTP and that is that.

It seems to me if he really wanted Becca she would have gotten the LCD that Whitney got. A public bowling alley is not really the place to be alone or have a serious conversation. Chris could have used the opportunity to show Becca that life on the farm isn't so bad and to show her his beautiful home. He took Whitney because he wanted her to see the reality of living in Arlington and what it means to be a farmer in the 21st century. IMO, he wanted her at the farm because he wanted to see her in his element and to make sure they were both on the same page regarding their future.

see2love wrote:

hmbach wrote:

see2love wrote:Sean Lowe ‏@SeanLowe09  15h15 hours ago
Cons for Becca moving to Iowa: no job, away from family, no nightlife.

Pros: Shoney's
#TheBachelor

Becca Tilley ‏@beccatilley5  9h9 hours ago
@SeanLowe09 i dont really go out... Nightlife wasnt an issue .

Sean LoweVerified account
‏@SeanLowe09
@beccatilley5 please don't take my tweets seriously. They're all sarcastic and ridiculous. We thought you did great

‏@clmgiudici
@SeanLowe09 @beccatilley5 sorry if we hurt your feelings! Our tweets are all in good fun & we think you've been gracious the whole season

I think that Becca takes things much more personally than she lets on.  Which is why she is so quick to try and actually figure out what it is that people don't like about her on SM posts.  

Sean and Catherine threw a lot of tweeted jabs at her all season, i guess she just responded to this as it was the latest she could respond to.
I doubt they meant any harm but i respect her and them for hashing it out

What jabs? They repeatedly called her too normal for this show. Even Cat apologized when she had been calling Becca, Bree for the first month of the season. I think Becca just took his tweet literally instead of realizing he's joking 95% of the time with his Bachelor tweets.

cindebugg wrote:

see2love wrote:We can blame the edit all we want but why is Chris still unable to say he would still have chosen Whitney over Becca? He cant because it would be a lie. He wanted Becca and his parents who were not watching an edited version saw that. They knew he wanted Becca at MTP and that is that.

It seems to me if he really wanted Becca she would have gotten the LCD that Whitney got.   A public bowling alley is not really the place to be alone or have a serious conversation.  Chris could have used the opportunity to show Becca that life on the farm isn't so bad and to show her his beautiful home.  He took Whitney because he wanted her to see the reality of living in Arlington and what it means to be a farmer in the 21st century.  IMO, he wanted her at the farm because he wanted to see her in his element and to make sure they were both on the same page regarding their future.  

That is a good point. I didn't even know they went bowling.

hmbach wrote:

see2love wrote:From the people interview with Becca

Tilley says of an enamored Soules (who pleaded, "I want everything you can give me"), "I wished I could have told him what he needed to hear. But it would have been unfair of me. With him sitting there, begging me, it would have been so easy for me to just be like, 'Okay, I am in love with you.' But if I lied about how I was feeling, it was just going to be a disservice to us when it was all over." 


It was hers to lose and everyone, Chris, Becca,  MF, CH, including his parents knew it

Everyone except for Whitney. I really wish he wouldn't have proposed to anyone.

Begging. Did not need to go there imo.

iamreal2u wrote:

hmbach wrote:

see2love wrote:From the people interview with Becca

Tilley says of an enamored Soules (who pleaded, "I want everything you can give me"), "I wished I could have told him what he needed to hear. But it would have been unfair of me. With him sitting there, begging me, it would have been so easy for me to just be like, 'Okay, I am in love with you.' But if I lied about how I was feeling, it was just going to be a disservice to us when it was all over." 


It was hers to lose and everyone, Chris, Becca,  MF, CH, including his parents knew it

Everyone except for Whitney. I really wish he wouldn't have proposed to anyone.

Begging.  Did not need to go there imo.

she didnt go there. He went there and we saw it on our tvs

Oh, yeah. I forgot the 'Bree' thing. Don't have any idea how someone could get her name wrong, but whatever.