Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley #7

see2love wrote:

bleuberry wrote:

cindebugg wrote:

It seems to me if he really wanted Becca she would have gotten the LCD that Whitney got.   A public bowling alley is not really the place to be alone or have a serious conversation.  Chris could have used the opportunity to show Becca that life on the farm isn't so bad and to show her his beautiful home.  He took Whitney because he wanted her to see the reality of living in Arlington and what it means to be a farmer in the 21st century.  IMO, he wanted her at the farm because he wanted to see her in his element and to make sure they were both on the same page regarding their future.  

That is a good point. I didn't even know they went bowling.

but his dad said it, I didnt dream up the words. His mother as much told Becca it was hers to lose. Chris asked her for anything she would give him. I didnt make these facts up.

mindless wrote:Oh and that goodbye hug in the barn was definitely not a "sorry I hurt you, take care" kind of hug. It was an "I know I have to let go but I really really don't want to, let's hug for a few more minutes(/hours/days)" kind of hug. I saw more emotion in that instant than during the whole proposal. JMO.

ElonM wrote:

Mommyof1 wrote:As I said, it's going to be a hard road for Whit and Chris.

http://hollywoodlife.com/2015/03/10/the-bachelor-chris-soules-loves-becca-tilley-more-whitney-bischof-pressured-by-family-finale/

This article is on point.

His BL was totally off even during the interview this morning on GMA. I guess the pressure of his sisters didn't compare has more weight that what his heart wants.

The mere fact that he is in LA doing DWTS and Whitney moving there is confusing to me given he wanted to move back to Iowa right away.

I'm now thinking why pick Whitney given all these changes when he was sticking to the script of wife and babies. It's obvious that's not on the table yet but these principles were used to convinced him to pick Whitney.

In the end he could have chosen Becca and still spend the time in LA and build on this relationship and eventfully move there.

Now he's in LA with a woman he obviously is trying to love. Cause from what I'm seeing he's not in love he's just convincing himself that he is for his family.

All the best for the happy couple.

mindless wrote:Oh and that goodbye hug in the barn was definitely not a "sorry I hurt you, take care" kind of hug. It was an "I know I have to let go but I really really don't want to, let's hug for a few more minutes(/hours/days)" kind of hug. I saw more emotion in that instant than during the whole proposal. JMO.

Mommyof1 wrote:I don't know how to post pictures and I don't want to rub salt in our wounds that saw the love story with B&C, but scroll down check out this pic of them at the FRC.  WOW!  

http://www.eonline.com/news/633760/and-the-bachelor-chris-soules-chose

soccermom333 wrote:Chris, imho, needed to make a decision and felt pressure from TPTB for an engagement.  He made the best decision for him and his family.  It is his right.  I just wish the show did not put so much pressure on the final couple to become engaged.  

Things always work out like they should.  Becca is happy and will meet her happily ever after and Chris and Whit will have a tough road due to circumstances but I have no doubt will try their best.  

Jolena wrote:

soccermom333 wrote:

Mommyof1 wrote:Here is an interview with Becca:

http://www.people.com/article/bachelor-finale-runner-up-becca-reacts-chris-decision-whitney

Thanks for this.  Interesting how she says he "was begging her."  Hmmm, I know Becca is being honest and this just shows how torn Chris was and what he wanted to hear from her.  

Happy Becca is happy with her decision but sad that she says she was willing "to date" him.  Again, she didn't fit with the show and a proposal at the end.  

AS great a girl that Becca is she is not in the same place with her life as Chris is. He's ready to get married , settle down and have babies like yesterday. I don't think a long distance dating relationship especially with Becca's beliefs would have worked out for either one.  I wish Becca the best and Im sure that she'll find her special prince. :Nod:  I wish TPTB would have made her the Bachelorette .

Pia1 wrote:

mindless wrote:Oh and that goodbye hug in the barn was definitely not a "sorry I hurt you, take care" kind of hug. It was an "I know I have to let go but I really really don't want to, let's hug for a few more minutes(/hours/days)" kind of hug. I saw more emotion in that instant than during the whole proposal. JMO.

Did you also notice the way he hugged her at the ATFR? You could hear his heart beating fast through the microphone. He hugged her with more emotion than he did his fiance. imo

Mommyof1 wrote:Ryan Sutter's tweets were interesting about Becca.


Ryan Sutter @ryansutter  
 ·  15h 15 hours ago  
New prediction. Chris is going to pick Becca and agree to move to California.  No more family farm.
 
I like Becca for not caving and staying true to her self and ideals.

Relationships work when both people love themselves & each other. Becca gets that. She's prudent. She should be Chris's pick. The end.

I realize I've only watched one hour and that things aren't always what they seem (been there after all), but I'd pick Becca and be patient.

Well. Guess that shows how much I know. Good luck Chris and the girl you picked. Good night folks.

ElonM wrote:

Mommyof1 wrote:I don't know how to post pictures and I don't want to rub salt in our wounds that saw the love story with B&C, but scroll down check out this pic of them at the FRC.  WOW!  

http://www.eonline.com/news/633760/and-the-bachelor-chris-soules-chose