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Post by ElonM Sun Mar 01, 2015 4:53 pm

why is Becca following CHris on twitter?
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Post by mprssdbyu Sun Mar 01, 2015 4:53 pm

I will admit Becca's SM behavior carries a great deal of weight in my feeling she did not walk away leaving him to have a life with someone else.


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Post by Beagle Sun Mar 01, 2015 4:55 pm

mprssdbyu wrote:I just don't think Becca's dilema is do I love him..for me its more can I get married and move to Arlington yesterday...cause until then that has been his biggest want. Of course, he still does but he slowed down enough  to put himself in Becca's shoes...he just wants that girl. When CH asked him who were his waking thoughts about...from what he told us of his sleepless nights esp after BC FD...C would have answered B. You know..just send her home already if she's just not that into you.

He could not. Esp after he understood she's scared chatless which doesn't equate to not loving him back.

Again, all my opinion. I can't for the life of me see it another way and I have tried!

I think he looks at Becca the way Brad looked at Emily. I think he surprised himself with how strong his feelings are for Becca. Thing is, he had Whitney on his radar first, IMO because Whitney pursued him in just the way he wanted. Then comes Becca late in the game, not promising him anything , but he is really smitten with her, he can't get her out of his mind. At the end, I think, he is going to realize that there is no guarantee with Becca and Whitney is ready, willing and able and he doesn't want to lose that opportunity with Whitney so he gives up on Becca.
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Post by hmbach Sun Mar 01, 2015 4:55 pm

quietpal wrote:Yeah, some of us have pondered about that, why they would show that on the beach, but no one has come up with any answers yet.

My theory that it was a hidden love letter from Chris to Becca saying, "you're the one" from here on out it's all show.

Remember the conversation they had in the loft about her being nervous because Dez didn't reciprocate feelings to her? My theory is that this was Chris' way of telling her that he loves her and he's all in. They would have had to spend their alone time doing something if not having sex... perhaps they walked the beach and he spelled it out for her? Could he have done it while they were together and then the producers threw it in as a reminder to B when watching the show back that he loved her all along? I know it's far fetched but it just came to mind when I saw it. I am a ridiculous hopeless romantic.

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Post by hmbach Sun Mar 01, 2015 4:59 pm

Beagle wrote:
mprssdbyu wrote:I just don't think Becca's dilema is do I love him..for me its more can I get married and move to Arlington yesterday...cause until then that has been his biggest want. Of course, he still does but he slowed down enough  to put himself in Becca's shoes...he just wants that girl. When CH asked him who were his waking thoughts about...from what he told us of his sleepless nights esp after BC FD...C would have answered B. You know..just send her home already if she's just not that into you.

He could not. Esp after he understood she's scared chatless which doesn't equate to not loving him back.

Again, all my opinion. I can't for the life of me see it another way and I have tried!

I think he looks at Becca the way Brad looked at Emily. I think he surprised himself with how strong his feelings are for Becca. Thing is, he had Whitney on his radar first, IMO because Whitney pursued him in just the way he wanted. Then comes Becca late in the game, not promising him anything , but he is really smitten with her, he can't get her out of his mind. At the end, I think, he is going to realize that there is no guarantee with Becca and Whitney is ready, willing and able and he doesn't want to lose that opportunity with Whitney so he gives up on Becca.

Did Whitney really pursue him in just the way he wanted?  All of their dates were things that SHE wanted to do. City stuff, HER work, even their physical attractions she was the pursuant... all of the dates with Becca were honest, real things that he enjoys doing and he kept referencing how REAL it all was and how wonderful and romantic.

My guess is in the last episode he realizes that Whitney is only in love with him because of the show (all of the dates with her are very staged, and much more over the top than B's dates) I think he will see that she can't envision her life in Arlington after all but he is truly in love with Becca and is willing to be patient with her because she has always been honest with him about how she feels.


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Post by Hopefully Sun Mar 01, 2015 4:59 pm

All I gotta say is this. Becca if you reading this please please DO NOT WATCH CHILDREN OF THE CORN. Lol after what I have been seeing I so would not watch that movie. Nope there isn't enough covers with Chris that would help child.

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Post by Guest Sun Mar 01, 2015 5:00 pm

hmbach wrote:
quietpal wrote:Yeah, some of us have pondered about that, why they would show that on the beach, but no one has come up with any answers yet.

My theory that it was a hidden love letter from Chris to Becca saying, "you're the one" from here on out it's all show.  

Remember the conversation they had in the loft about her being nervous because Dez didn't reciprocate feelings to her? My theory is that this was Chris' way of telling her that he loves her and he's all in. They would have had to spend their alone time doing something if not having sex... perhaps they walked the beach and he spelled it out for her?  Could he have done it while they were together and then the producers threw it in as a reminder to B when watching the show back that he loved her all along? I know it's far fetched but it just came to mind when I saw it. I am a ridiculous hopeless romantic.

That wasn't in the loft, that was at night on the date in South Dakota, when she said her ex didn't reciprocate feelings. In the loft, her story was a little different. She said she had never been in love before and that she could not picture her ex as her husband and the father to her children.

I really think the I LOVE YOU in the rocks was either already there, Bali is a honeymoon spot, or the producers did it. It is a romantic spot.  Why not capture it on the Bachelor? I don't think any of the cast and crew have time to create that...


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Post by mprssdbyu Sun Mar 01, 2015 5:00 pm

Beagle wrote:
mprssdbyu wrote:I just don't think Becca's dilema is do I love him..for me its more can I get married and move to Arlington yesterday...cause until then that has been his biggest want. Of course, he still does but he slowed down enough  to put himself in Becca's shoes...he just wants that girl. When CH asked him who were his waking thoughts about...from what he told us of his sleepless nights esp after BC FD...C would have answered B. You know..just send her home already if she's just not that into you.

He could not. Esp after he understood she's scared chatless which doesn't equate to not loving him back.

Again, all my opinion. I can't for the life of me see it another way and I have tried!

I think he looks at Becca the way Brad looked at Emily. I think he surprised himself with how strong his feelings are for Becca. Thing is, he had Whitney on his radar first, IMO because Whitney pursued him in just the way he wanted. Then comes Becca late in the game, not promising him anything , but he is really smitten with her, he can't get her out of his mind. At the end, I think, he is going to realize that there is no guarantee with Becca and Whitney is ready, willing and able and he doesn't want to lose that opportunity with Whitney so he gives up on Becca.
if she isn't F1, she made that choice for him. Until that moment, I don't think he ever gave up. I'll say it again, her SM doesn't add up to a very sad story that involves her.


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Post by happygolucky Sun Mar 01, 2015 5:04 pm

Beagle - love your avatar, but maybe is time to change the signature giggling Shar is engaged.

I wrote my deductions in general thread - but just to sum up: I still believe the edit leads to Becca as F1, and from that I draw out that she was in the "corner of his eye" before Whitney. Even when I watched the first part of Whitney's 1on1 date at the broad daylight and compare it to Chris&Becca's interaction on the roof on the evening (which happened before) ... I see different expression on Chris' face. But I could be reading it all wrong.


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Post by GuardianAngel Sun Mar 01, 2015 5:04 pm

I'm so far behind, but just wanted to clairiy my post about $250K and Becca. It was meant as a reminder not to question the source if that's all the info was given.

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Post by hmbach Sun Mar 01, 2015 5:08 pm

mprssdbyu wrote:
Beagle wrote:
mprssdbyu wrote:I just don't think Becca's dilema is do I love him..for me its more can I get married and move to Arlington yesterday...cause until then that has been his biggest want. Of course, he still does but he slowed down enough  to put himself in Becca's shoes...he just wants that girl. When CH asked him who were his waking thoughts about...from what he told us of his sleepless nights esp after BC FD...C would have answered B. You know..just send her home already if she's just not that into you.

He could not. Esp after he understood she's scared chatless which doesn't equate to not loving him back.

Again, all my opinion. I can't for the life of me see it another way and I have tried!

I think he looks at Becca the way Brad looked at Emily. I think he surprised himself with how strong his feelings are for Becca. Thing is, he had Whitney on his radar first, IMO because Whitney pursued him in just the way he wanted. Then comes Becca late in the game, not promising him anything , but he is really smitten with her, he can't get her out of his mind. At the end, I think, he is going to realize that there is no guarantee with Becca and Whitney is ready, willing and able and he doesn't want to lose that opportunity with Whitney so he gives up on Becca.
if she isn't F1, she made that choice for him. Until that moment, I don't think he ever gave up. I'll say it again, her SM doesn't add up to a very sad story that involves her.

Exactly. And part of me thinks she has waited this long to feel these feelings, is probably a hopeless romantic and what an amazing story this is if he is willing to propose to her with the stipulation that they will date outside the show after filming, he will be in CA for DWTS, and then they go to Arlington when she is ready. I just hope for her that the gossip mags and media don't chew them up and spit them out if she is F1 and they are really a fit. Once they get to Iowa I think they'd be fine, they can be out of the spotlight and have a wonderful life sheltered from the Hollywood angle of things and they both seem to have families that are smart, intelligent and somewhat wise to celebrity status.

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Post by Guest Sun Mar 01, 2015 5:16 pm

A few seasons ago, I read that the F2 have to agree not to reject a proposal. That it's a rule of the show, that once a contestant makes top 2, they cannot say no to a proposal. I'm sure it was Desiree's season where this was mentioned bc this is why Brooks backed out. He was pretty sure if he didn't walk away, he wouldn't be able to once he got another rose. Is this maybe one of the rules this season, that they did away with. Because, if this was still a rule, then Chris knows that he can propose to either woman and get a yes. Becca should have backed out in Bali, if she was unsure.

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