Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilly #4

Chrisbecca wrote:As others have noted, Becca does seem very happy and not heartbroken!  So....I have a feeling if she was heartbroken, Chris would be 6 foot under and Nancy Tilley sitting in jail.  YOU CAN MESS WITH ME....DONT MESS WITH MY KIDS!

This made me chuckle a little bit. IA true, whatever makes Becca happy as I have been more invested in her than the lead.

I just don't think Becca's dilema is do I love him..for me its more can I get married and move to Arlington yesterday...cause until then that has been his biggest want. Of course, he still does but he slowed down enough  to put himself in Becca's shoes...he just wants that girl. When CH asked him who were his waking thoughts about...from what he told us of his sleepless nights esp after BC FD...C would have answered B. You know..just send her home already if she's just not that into you.

He could not. Esp after he understood she's scared chatless which doesn't equate to not loving him back.

Again, all my opinion. I can't for the life of me see it another way and I have tried!

quietpal wrote:

Chrisbecca wrote:As others have noted, Becca does seem very happy and not heartbroken!  So....I have a feeling if she was heartbroken, Chris would be 6 foot under and Nancy Tilley sitting in jail.  YOU CAN MESS WITH ME....DONT MESS WITH MY KIDS!

This made me chuckle a little bit. IA true, whatever makes Becca happy as I have been more invested in her than the lead.

I totally agree!! She is one class act. It is so refreshing to watch her. I really hope that she finds love though (whether Chris can step up to the plate and be that, or whether she kicks him to the curb and finds it on her own). Her SM presence is outstanding too which just backs up what we see of her on TV. I will be interested to hear what the girls have to say about her ATFR. Notice there was no story line of jealousy by any of them about her (even though there probably was some since she got back to back one on one dates and received that necklace... although I guess they wouldn't have known about that). I really hope the producers don't drag her thru the mud at all after, either way it ends up.

mprssdbyu wrote:I just don't think Becca's dilema is do I love him..for me its more can I get married and move to Arlington yesterday...cause until then that has been his biggest want. Of course, he still does but he slowed down enough  to put himself in Becca's shoes...he just wants that girl. When CH asked him who were his waking thoughts about...from what he told us of his sleepless nights esp after BC FD...C would have answered B. You know..just send her home already if she's just not that into you.

He could not. Esp after he understood she's scared chatless which doesn't equate to not loving him back.

Again, all my opinion. I can't for the life of me see it another way and I have tried!

Agreed!! I really want to know what that I LOVE U on the beach was all about. Did you catch that? It was after B and Cs FSD and before he started talking to CH.

Another thing that could give Becca pause going into LCD, how after their talk during the RC, Chris still called Whitney first. That would give her some reservations for sure, that he kept saying he was falling in love with her MULTIPLE times, yet called Whitney first. As well, Chris paused for a very long time, deep in thought, before he called Becca's name. If I had been Becca, I would have been thinking what the heck? Am I being played here? Really both the F2 have reason to believe this.

Did anyone notice that Caroline Tilley retweeted a bachelorfan tweet of a video of B and C that said "what and incredible love story"

Why would your sister do that if it was someone who picked someone else?

Yeah, some of us have pondered about that, why they would show that on the beach, but no one has come up with any answers yet.

Mybe the I love u on the says that she is the one says it to. I'm starting to wonder if he doesn't day when they are in the hotel. When it looked like they were having a disagreement and you could see them kinda smiling. Maybe it's C telling her that he's not falling in love with her, but he loves her. He only says it to one. I know it prob. Doesn't happen until the final rose. But you could always hope.

Becca is now following Chris..

hmbach wrote:

quietpal wrote:

Chrisbecca wrote:As others have noted, Becca does seem very happy and not heartbroken!  So....I have a feeling if she was heartbroken, Chris would be 6 foot under and Nancy Tilley sitting in jail.  YOU CAN MESS WITH ME....DONT MESS WITH MY KIDS!

This made me chuckle a little bit. IA true, whatever makes Becca happy as I have been more invested in her than the lead.

I totally agree!! She is one class act.  It is so refreshing to watch her.  I really hope that she finds love though (whether Chris can step up to the plate and be that, or whether she kicks him to the curb and finds it on her own).  Her SM presence is outstanding too which just backs up what we see of her on TV. I will be interested to hear what the girls have to say about her ATFR. Notice there was no story line of jealousy by any of them about her (even though there probably was some since she got back to back one on one dates and received that necklace... although I guess they wouldn't have known about that). I really hope the producers don't drag her thru the mud at all after, either way it ends up.

I dont ever remember hearing anyone (but Whitney at last RC) say anything negative about Becca. And i dont recall ever hearing her say anything bad about any of the other girls. It appears she is truly just a beautiful woman inside and out!

concerned36 wrote:Another thing that could give Becca pause going into LCD, how after their talk during the RC, Chris still called Whitney first.  That would give her some reservations for sure, that he kept saying he was falling in love with her MULTIPLE times, yet called Whitney first. As well, Chris paused for a very long time, deep in thought, before he called Becca's name. If I had been Becca, I would have been thinking what the heck?  Am I being played here?  Really both the F2 have reason to believe this.

That doesn't seem to bother me. If he was going to really not pick her he would have done it when they talked. I think her solemn face had more to do with knowing that he was having to send one of her friends home, and truly felt bad about that. I think TPTB placed more drama into that than was really there. I think if anything that makes W look foolish because she came off looking TOO confident.

concerned36 wrote:Another thing that could give Becca pause going into LCD, how after their talk during the RC, Chris still called Whitney first.  That would give her some reservations for sure, that he kept saying he was falling in love with her MULTIPLE times, yet called Whitney first. As well, Chris paused for a very long time, deep in thought, before he called Becca's name. If I had been Becca, I would have been thinking what the heck?  Am I being played here?  Really both the F2 have reason to believe this.

She didn't looked concerned to me because she was smiling when they were walking back to the RC. They didn't show the last part of their conversation before walking back, so we don't know what was said.