Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilly #4

truelovealways wrote:

Diana wrote:

truelovealways wrote:IF Becca left on her own and Chris picked Whitney because Becca "just wasn't into him" (which I'm not seeing) than that sucks for Whitney it's never fun being the default :hidingchair

It never said he was going to choose Becca but she left so I am not sure where this default stuff is coming from. I doubt IF he is engaged to Whitney it was because she is default. Maybe its because she wants to give him the things he wants?  :hidingchair

"It really came down to a feeling" sensing her hesitation, Soules, 33 followed his gut and proposed to the woman he believed was all in" That screams to me he wanted Becca BUT because she wasn't all in he chose another. Kinda like papa Soules said jmo :hidingchair

With so much gut moves, I wonder if Chris still has his gut. I guess he is gutless now given his gut was telling him not to send Becca home at the FD Rose Ceremony.

And, then there is this gem
"Chris will have to see someone he loves who didn't love him"

^^^ This also goes along with the rumors about Chris having his feelings "sorted out now." Weird that he might have proposed without his feelings being "sorted out."

I for one can't wait to see how it plays out. I like both Whit and Becca. I hope they are both happy and okay.

Diana wrote:

truelovealways wrote:

Diana wrote:
It never said he was going to choose Becca but she left so I am not sure where this default stuff is coming from. I doubt IF he is engaged to Whitney it was because she is default. Maybe its because she wants to give him the things he wants?  :hidingchair

"It really came down to a feeling" sensing her hesitation, Soules, 33 followed his gut and proposed to the woman he believed was all in" That screams to me he wanted Becca BUT because she wasn't all in he chose another. Kinda like papa Soules said jmo :hidingchair

Again that dad comment was clearly cut and spliced IMO. Guess we will never know and it's a pointless debate because no matter what anyone says I think we both have our mind up Nothing wrong with it but I just don't see it the same way you do.

Actually the gut feeling seems to scream Becca more to me... maybe W when she arrived in Arlington had second thoughts and she always said that if she wasn't all in she would excuse herself... hmmm...

Again the stack of "evidence" all points to Becca being F1 in my mind from their chemistry, the plot line of the season, the worth the wait stuff, Chris' Dads comments (I mean how would Whitney feel after hearing that?) and the only thing saying W to me is RS.

I can believe it but hope it's not true for Whitney and Chris' sake. Will have to see it play out, but sounds heart wrenching. I wish Becca hadn't said she was falling in love with him, if this is true. It does make sense that a quick engagement to a man who very much wants to start a married life would terrify someone so inexperienced in love and relationships. Sniff. Such a nice romance they had though, even if they don't end up together. I've loved watching it.

truelovealways wrote:And, then there is this gem
"Chris will have to see someone he loves who didn't love him"

Exactly! WT$??

relaxing wrote:I can believe it but hope it's not true for Whitney and Chris' sake.  Will have to see it play out, but sounds heart wrenching.  I wish Becca hadn't said she was falling in love with him, if this is true. It does make sense that a quick engagement to a man who very much wants to start a married life would terrify someone so inexperienced in love and relationships. Sniff.  Such a nice romance they had though, even if they don't end up together. I've loved watching it.

I liked watching it too and sleuthing. I like Whit though and will be watching her closely. Hope she is happy.

hmbach wrote:Either way this doesn't paint him in that great of a light... unless Whitney was not as into him as he thought she was and left... the other way around it just doesn't work, and I don't see how Whitney would like being 2nd fiddle.  

I agree. And think about Ellen show, of course, Chris is directed to throw people off in interviews. But really, Whitney's got to be a little hurt watching him say "She looks like a mother" about her, and then him gushing over Becca being the total package. The entire edit has got to be hard for Whitney to watch, no doubt. I'm sure there were many moments with her that were not shown, but no one can see them now, not even the happy couple. It's just sad. I think this is why so many couples don't make it from this show, because they always edit the F2 to have the most passion and chemistry (to throw people off). So that the F1 becomes insecure after the show. The 2/13 interview where Chris almost seemed to forget Valentine's Day and hadn't even thought about it made me go hmm.. Also Chris said that they were not talking about wedding plans, nor did they get to see each other much. Thinking Becca was F1, that made me sad, too.

US Magazine and what we know so far.

Last Rose Ceremony
Becca talking to Chris-im not doing good. I havent slept, because I cant stop thinking about you. Im crazy about you.

Whitney talking about Chris walking back into the Rose Ceremony with Becca -Im confused. I thought he sent her home. She cant be right for him if I am right for him. Then sizes Becca up against her standards.

Chris and Becca took things slow-she came on the show with that attitude day one. She set their pace and was level headed. Whitney, as noted, stepped out of the limo, infatuated with Chris, ready to marry him and have his babies....and she didnt even know him.

Whitney leaves. Hes engaged to Becca.

Is it possible for someone to post the article in the magazine?

Much thanks.

Oh and all the love letter stuff in Cs blog?? I'd be lit up fierce if I was Whitney. I like her alot, but if B was really worth waiting for (his words all season) then giving up on her at the last minute is just cruel and why wouldn't he just have let her go last week? (unless of course she leaves first which I just don't see).

hmbach wrote:

Diana wrote:

truelovealways wrote:IF Becca left on her own and Chris picked Whitney because Becca "just wasn't into him" (which I'm not seeing) than that sucks for Whitney it's never fun being the default :hidingchair

It never said he was going to choose Becca but she left so I am not sure where this default stuff is coming from. I doubt IF he is engaged to Whitney it was because she is default. Maybe its because she wants to give him the things he wants?  :hidingchair

I don't buy that.  It doesn't make sense to the story they have been portraying all season.  If I am W and see how the story up to this point has played out I would feel like 2nd fiddle... he really wanted Becca but Whitney will "do".  If W is 2nd choice I don't see that he would say, I was really going to propose to this one, but since she left I guess I will give you the ring... Now on the other hand if Becca is in love, eventually willing to move to Arlington but not right away I can see the scenario of him proposing to her and waiting. (Could this be what their argument was about the morning of the FS?)

I don't know. I am confused.  Everything in my eyes is leading Becca to be F1 except for the spoilers from RS.  Still hopeful that ABC leaked that info on purpose to up the drama for the FRC.  

I agree with you, I think ABC leaked it to up the drama. They are master manipulator on these type of stuff :Nod: