Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #3

nannymargie wrote:

Jolena wrote:

Laudergirl wrote:

I actually agree with you here, especially the bolded.

I agree with the bolded too! On the other hand I think Josh's intentions of marriage and family were def his true intentions and still are, and since he was mislead I hope he gets a crack at being the next bachelor. jmo

I have to respectfully disagree.  I think Andi wanted to get married and start a family I just think that it wasn't as soon as Josh wanted.  I really think she wanted to enjoy being engaged for a year or two before planning a wedding.  So if Josh truly loved Andi then waiting would not have been too much a problem.  Josh admitted being picky so now will it take him another 3 to  5 years to find that someone again?  So to me he would be closer to being married and starting that family by staying with Andi.

nanny Im sure there was alot more to the breakup then just Andi not wanting to wait to get married and start a family that we are not privy to. I do believe they both tried hard to hold onto it though , but I also think Andi was def the more difficult one in many areas.(she said so herself). Everyone reaches a breaking point at one point or another. They both seem to be doing fine now so that good :Nod: jmo

say what? is CH sticking with his guns from last season about how she'd go with her type while the other guy would be "good for her" or something like that (i do NOT remember the specifics but that's the jist of how he was talking about her)?? he must really believe it if so... could CH be pro-nick? i feel like there are so few ppl who are pro nick it blows my mind when someone like CH who's the company mouth piece has a real opinion about it 

Just watched the new clip of "andy's Apple".  All I can say is, who cares?

I actually totally agree with Andi -- she needs to find herself (like many do at her age) and that's what I've always felt during her own season -- that she's still figuring herself out -- i esp felt she needed to grow towards being vulnerable, breaking down her walls, tuning into other people/being more empathetic, accepting the "grey" sides of life. this is a positive direction towards that or at least it seems...even moving away from fam is a big step.... all the best to her - esp happiness and growth

jmo

IrishGal wrote:Just watched the new clip of "andy's Apple".  All I can say is, who cares?

I guess her fans care. What makes her so different or special than anyone else? Nothing. She's just got a bigger ego than most.

emusha wrote:

I actually totally agree with Andi -- she needs to find herself (like many do at her age) and that's what I've always felt during her own season -- that she's still figuring herself out -- i esp felt she needed to grow towards being vulnerable, breaking down her walls, tuning into other people/being more empathetic, accepting the "grey" sides of life. this is a positive direction towards that or at least it seems...even moving away from fam is a big step.... all the best to her - esp happiness and growth

jmo

You can not truly find yourself when you do not admit to the things she has done and said. You have to live on your own not someone's else's pocket book to truly find what reality is.

Many people have found themselves by her age but it seems to me she is still all about MeAndi and that will never work.

It's becoming more clear to me why Jodi didn't work. Josh is just as much of an alpha as Andi is, and that relationship had to be trying.

whit90 you're right Andi is very focused on herself and she doesn't admit to mistakes -- she has a bit of a controlling streak...I'm hoping these new experiences where she's out of her comfort zone will give her a different perspective on things

Totally Safron!   @ wanting a guy who doesn't talk back as my impression was these two definitely had words for each other behind the scenes if their interviews were any indication. They were constantly going back and forth it seemed like, and it had negative undertones usually.

All that little blip above appeared to me was an intro. Ok--what was it an intro to? 
What was shown on that intro was what most young 20 women do on their day off--emphasis on day off meaning a day off from work. 
In case anyone missed my meaning--in order to enjoy most of those things we saw on that little blip or intro--most would be working in order to enjoy--wine, any type of leisure, being in an upscale restaurant or lounge, or boutique, having an abode to herself. Those things usually require something to support that lifestyle. 
So if you want respect from others don't just talk the talk, walk the walk. (as Nicole Miller was trying to get at)
New Yorkers are tough, hard working people. Most don't get to where they are by wishing it. It can happen, but not often.

I don't get all this finding yourself business. Like, is your other personality hiding under the freaking bed? Did you forget to pack it when moving? Did it get spooked so it hid? Does it quack like a duck like all good alterego personalities and does your shrink know about this? Seriously, life isn't a John Green novel, but whatever, I'll watch this anyway

Not me, I would rather go to RS site, give him money for the click and take my free virus. (btw--I am not doing that anytime soon either)
But yeah, this "finding myself" attitude is not going to go over well with NYC'ers her own age. 
Wah Wah Wah.   Baby wants a cookie. And nice shoes. And a Mexico vacay. And sishy. And why can't I be a well known designer? Waaaah.