Bachelor 19 - Whitney Bischoff #2

Another reason to me that Whitney is the F1 is that she obviously has had a few relationships in the past.  If I were a guy, Becca's virginity would not concern me, rather a virgin, than a Jade, (sorry to be so harsh, just having a hard time thinking about the holiday conversations with the family, especially the guys).  But what would have me concerned is that if I am her first boyfriend she may really not know what she wants in a long term partner.  That would scare the hell out of me.  That is not to say it couldn't work, as I have plenty of friends still married to HS sweethearts, just thinking about it pertaining to this scenario.

Idlemess wrote:MiniDiva which brings to mind....

Honesty is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what I need from you ....

But I don't want some pretty face
To tell me pretty lies
All I want is someone to believe
~ Billy Joel

kinda like this season's theme (pretty lies or secrets)

I like that - so true coming from Billy Joel.  Chris is easily dazzled by the women but he did his best to peel off the layers.  I give credit to Whitney for making the most of her time and moments with Chris so she would stand out.  She was familiar with the show and what needed to happen especially competing with 29 other women.

MiniDiva wrote:Chris said he wanted honesty in a woman and I think Whitney brings that by letting him know where he stands with her. Chris has misread some women and he seems to be blinded by beauty and charm that he can't think with both his head and his heart.  She is putting it all out there and if she is not for Chris, she at least gave the relationship all she could during the entire filming and not keep secrets to the HTD's and/or the FS.  
I hope she finds the love she deserves and if it is Chris, he better not mess it up.  Otherwise we are going to send Uncle Johnny after him!  

IA also, I think Chris at this point knows with Whitney what you see is what you get, so there's no second guessing who she really is unlike as you say, some of the others.

That darn head and heart always gets in the way sometimes!

Boy it sure sounds like a lot of people have given up on Whitney is F1 .. what a bummer

I haven't Just more to write about/look for if you're trying to prove the spoiled F2 is the F1.

I've also learned it's a losing battle to try and convince people about body language and such when people have their minds made up

I don't think people have given up, for me anyway I'm just still sleuthing. There are a lot of good reasons why she is F1 but no solid proof as in something-gate or a s/cap.

ETA: exactly lurker. I don't look at it as trying to convince anyone of anything. It's the sleuthing that keeps it fun!

nuts2uiam wrote:Another reason to me that Whiney is the F1 is that she obviously has had a few relationships in the past.  If I were a guy, Becca's virginity would not concern me, rather a virgin, than a Jade, (sorry to be so harsh, just having a hard time thinking about the holiday conversations with the family, especially the guys).  But what would have me concerned is that if I am her first boyfriend she may really not know what she wants in a long term partner.  That would scare the hell out of me.  That is not to say it couldn't work, as I have plenty of friends still married to HS sweethearts, just thinking about it pertaining to this scenario.

Yes, I could see "concerns" with both Jade and Becca family discussions.  In one scenerio you know everyone at the dinner table has seen her "hoohah" and the other scenerios they would be asking Chris if he has seen the "hoohah" yet.  

No table discussion about Whitney like the above--she wears her heart on her sleeve.  BTW:  Did you really mean to type "Whiney"  

lurker11 wrote:I haven't Just more to write about/look for if you're trying to prove the spoiled F2 is the F1.

I've also learned it's a losing battle to try and convince people about body language and such when people have their minds made up

WORD. I find the body language battle so hit-and-miss season to season in terms of the F1 that I can't really rely on that. Plus, Chris sure likes touching and kissing Whit based on the most recent episodes and the previews we have.

I honestly ignore most of the trying to prove the spoiled F2 is really F1 because most of the time it's just reaching and there hasn't been a single smokin gun posted that proves the spoiler wrong yet. And I'm not holding my breath that it's gonna happen.

Jeepers wrote:Boy it sure sounds like a lot of people have given up on Whitney is F1 .. what a bummer

I haven't!

MiniDiva wrote:

nuts2uiam wrote:Another reason to me that Whiney is the F1 is that she obviously has had a few relationships in the past.  If I were a guy, Becca's virginity would not concern me, rather a virgin, than a Jade, (sorry to be so harsh, just having a hard time thinking about the holiday conversations with the family, especially the guys).  But what would have me concerned is that if I am her first boyfriend she may really not know what she wants in a long term partner.  That would scare the hell out of me.  That is not to say it couldn't work, as I have plenty of friends still married to HS sweethearts, just thinking about it pertaining to this scenario.

Yes, I could see "concerns" with both Jade and Becca family discussions.  In one scenerio you know everyone at the dinner table has seen her "hoohah" and the other scenerios they would be asking Chris if he has seen the "hoohah" yet.  

No table discussion about Whitney like the above--she wears her heart on her sleeve.  BTW:  Did you really mean to type "Whiney"  

Omg MiniDiva!!!!!

lurker11 wrote:I haven't Just more to write about/look for if you're trying to prove the spoiled F2 is the F1.

I've also learned it's a losing battle to try and convince people about body language and such when people have their minds made up

So true!

MiniDiva wrote:

nuts2uiam wrote:Another reason to me that Whiney is the F1 is that she obviously has had a few relationships in the past.  If I were a guy, Becca's virginity would not concern me, rather a virgin, than a Jade, (sorry to be so harsh, just having a hard time thinking about the holiday conversations with the family, especially the guys).  But what would have me concerned is that if I am her first boyfriend she may really not know what she wants in a long term partner.  That would scare the hell out of me.  That is not to say it couldn't work, as I have plenty of friends still married to HS sweethearts, just thinking about it pertaining to this scenario.

Yes, I could see "concerns" with both Jade and Becca family discussions.  In one scenerio you know everyone at the dinner table has seen her "hoohah" and the other scenerios they would be asking Chris if he has seen the "hoohah" yet.  

No table discussion about Whitney like the above--she wears her heart on her sleeve.  BTW:  Did you really mean to type "Whiney"  

OH my bad typing fingers!!!!!! Thanks I corrected it. DH who calls the B/Ette series my "no redeeming social hours" time when told of the Jade story and Chris seeing it on the computer as he did said, "boy that would be some mighty uncomfortable family occasions". He then said " he would think the initial reaction of his friends would be "wow you lucky so and so, she is scorching hot" only to have them back pedal in embarrassment once they saw the rest of the story". He said it would make him uncomfortable with the rest of the story.