Bachelor 19 - Whitney Bischoff #2

mindless wrote:Whitney doesn't really strike me as someone who would wallow in heartbreak. She's gone through way worse stuff in her life than not being chosen by a guy she's known for 5 minutes and bounced back. I think she's got enough perspective on things to get over Chris quite soon, if it came to that.

Good point! She does seem mature enough to realize hey, he didn't choose me. I need to get over it. I was probably wrong about her. Maybe she is/will/did bounce back quickly if she isn't the F1.

sanlee088 wrote:

mindless wrote:Whitney doesn't really strike me as someone who would wallow in heartbreak. She's gone through way worse stuff in her life than not being chosen by a guy she's known for 5 minutes and bounced back. I think she's got enough perspective on things to get over Chris quite soon, if it came to that.

Good point! She does seem mature enough to realize hey, he didn't choose me. I need to get over it. I was probably wrong about her. Maybe she is/will/did bounce back quickly if she isn't the F1.

Great post. I feel the same way about Becca. Sanlee your avatar is gorgeous. Kaitlin is beautiful.

mindless wrote:Whitney doesn't really strike me as someone who would wallow in heartbreak. She's gone through way worse stuff in her life than not being chosen by a guy she's known for 5 minutes and bounced back. I think she's got enough perspective on things to get over Chris quite soon, if it came to that.

This is such a good post! :Nod:

My hope that if Whit isn't F1 that she already has someone special in her life and odds would say that that relationship would probably last longer than than Chris with his F1 anyway. I like her more than Chris so I'd rather see her happy than him, but if she is with him I will wish them happiness.

umngirl wrote:My hope that if Whit isn't F1 that she already has someone special in her life and odds would say that that relationship would probably last longer than than Chris with his F1 anyway. I like her more than Chris so I'd rather see her happy than him, but if she is with him I will wish them happiness.

I agree with you! I wish is for Whitney to be happy at the end of this no matter the outcome.

umngirl wrote:My hope that if Whit isn't F1 that she already has someone special in her life and odds would say that that relationship would probably last longer than than Chris with his F1 anyway. I like her more than Chris so I'd rather see her happy than him, but if she is with him I will wish them happiness.

Yes I feel the same way about Whitney.  She has been a refreshing character on this show.  I wish her happiness.

soccermom333 wrote:

Idlemess wrote:

sanlee088 wrote:Whitney was so into Chris, that I also find it hard to believe that she would be posting pics of her and Chris and following him, etc. if she wasn't the F1. I guess though it's possible she would. We just don't really know. And yep, two weeks to go!

Confident women don't hate .... she says

She is carryon on with her life and fulfilling obligation for the show

Are you saying idle, that she is "masking" her pain and the quote is about her and not someone from WTA?

I don't know. It can be about anything or anyone.
I like what I've seen of Whit in her confidence but she is in a vulnerable position laying it all on the line. Most of the women are but with her she never wavered in her journey.
My take based on timing of the post is that its about WTA. Whit is true to herself. Confident and focus.

If Whitney is F2, any chance she's our next bachelorette and that's why we are seeing positive SM activity?

I have read statements regarding Whitney chasing Chris. Whitney seems, (from my perspective and what I have been shown) to be a strong and confident/grounded woman, but also a vulnerable one. She also seems a very upbeat/enthusiastic personality. I don't see her chasing Chris so much as possibly reacting to the signals he is giving her. I feel like we have not been shown a lot of their interactions....time will tell I suppose.

I don't see Whitney chasing Chris either. I just see her being happy whenever they interact. For the physical part the chemistry is great w/o the over the top makeout sessions

Chris said he wanted honesty in a woman and I think Whitney brings that by letting him know where he stands with her. Chris has misread some women and he seems to be blinded by beauty and charm that he can't think with both his head and his heart.  She is putting it all out there and if she is not for Chris, she at least gave the relationship all she could during the entire filming and not keep secrets to the HTD's and/or the FS.  
I hope she finds the love she deserves and if it is Chris, he better not mess it up.  Otherwise we are going to send Uncle Johnny after him!  

MiniDiva which brings to mind....

Honesty is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what I need from you ....

But I don't want some pretty face
To tell me pretty lies
All I want is someone to believe
~ Billy Joel

kinda like this season's theme (pretty lies or secrets)