Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - General Discussion Thread #3

by AnandaMarie Mon Jan 12, 2015 7:47 pm

nannymargie wrote:
aviej wrote:Seeing those pics, made me smile but at the same time it made me sad. They were so great together, darn! How can love that looks so good be so fleeting?! I know reasons have been put forth for why they broke up and some of them may be more serious than others. But at the end of the day, are those issues so big that they are worth losing your best friend, your great love over? With time, Josh and Andi would be the ones to answer that question. It's well and good to move on and carry on with life, it's healthy, but at the end of the day, the heart wants what the heart wants. The question is, which would triumph in this case, head or heart?

the heart wins.

Aviej and nannymargie, I hope that you guys are right and I agree, especially with the bolded.
I think that especially in a relationship where no cheating was involved and where the love is still there, I think that none of those issues is worth losing your best friend and your great love. I hope the heart wins too.

by Jolena Mon Jan 12, 2015 9:33 pm

I opened the link and I only see one picture of them above the article. Are there more pics? if so, where on that site are they? TIA

by **GuardianAngel** Mon Jan 12, 2015 9:41 pm

Jolena wrote: I opened the link and I only see one picture of them above the article. Are there more pics? if so, where on that site are they? TIA

Below that pic, there is a row of very small boxes of pics. Click on the boxes and they will enlarge in size.

by Ladybug82 Mon Jan 12, 2015 11:02 pm

Sometimes while in the relationship you think it is that great love you can't live without. The significant other is your best friend, other half, love of your life, etc. And then, slowly you begin to see the foundation you thought was built solidly on similar backgrounds, values, morals and faith are not the same at all. No matter how much you try, there is no fixing it enough to live with each other forever.

That does not mean that at the time all the special words and love were not real, it just means it's not a forever kind of love. It helps you better learn what is and isn't important to you in a relationship and better prepares you for the next. So that when you find the one your meant to be with, you fully appreciate that person.

I believe they did what was best for them and not a decision made quickly or without lots of thought. If they decide to eventually try again, ok. They seem to be handling it nicely (no drama or rudeness). I wish them both the best moving forward and hope they each find happiness in both themselves individually and eventually in that someone special meant just for them. And continued good thoughts to you fans moving forward, as well.

by **GuardianAngel** Mon Jan 12, 2015 11:25 pm

Nice post Ladybug82. Very well said. yes

by Jolena Mon Jan 12, 2015 11:32 pm

Maggenzm wrote:Yep, still future Mrs Murray, you go girl! I hope she fights for him.
Looking at all those pictures brought back old memories of these 2 lovers and made me really sad, and a little mad at Josh.

What happened to the " unconditional love that he promised"? He can't just quit when the tough get going. He should talk to Sean, JP, Chris and Jason, they will tell him, he wasn't easy, you have to fight for what you want.
What happened to " that 's a sexy quality to me", when he was told that Andi was difficult. Oh no! I love Josh, but I am not letting him off the hook.
Andi also told him that she can be difficult, and what did he say? " I can handle that". What is up with that?
We should really send Josh a copy of the episodes with all the promises he made to Andi and her father.
Like our prince Siegfried wrote " feeling is eternal if you chose me? and he meant it and we see the realization. JMO

maggenzm , what makes you think josh is the one who broke up with andi? just curious.

by AnandaMarie Tue Jan 13, 2015 12:24 am

I just watched the Bachelor. Around the same time last season, Andi and Josh had their first kiss. I just remember how happy and giddy they were that night. I hope they remember how they felt that night. I still think that Andi and Josh have the same morals and values and I still think that they are perfect together. I think they have found great love with each other - the forever kind of love and I hope they can fix their mistakes, forgive each other and give their relationship another try.

by nannymargie Tue Jan 13, 2015 12:27 am

AnandaMarie wrote:I just watched the Bachelor. Around the same time last season, Andi and Josh had their first kiss. I just remember how happy and giddy they were that night. I hope they remember how they felt that night. I still think that Andi and Josh have the same morals and values and I still think that they are perfect together. I think they have found great love with each other - the forever kind of love and I hope they can fix their mistakes, forgive each other and give their relationship another try.

by aviej Tue Jan 13, 2015 12:30 am

If wishes were horses....

by Guest Tue Jan 13, 2015 12:32 am

I'm starting to think what they had was lust not love. I've been a Jodi fan since the first episode but I think once you got past the attraction and obvious chemistry between them what they thought they wanted and what they wanted weren't the same. Also the things that they value in there life weren't matching up. Josh's first priority was family, his family and creating a family with Andi, her first priority was fame and cashing in on it to become a designer, there in 2 different spots in there life and sadly I don't believe they will reconcile

by **GuardianAngel** Tue Jan 13, 2015 12:36 am

Costiesgirl wrote:I'm starting to think what they had was lust not love. I've been a Jodi fan since the first episode but I think once you got past the attraction and obvious chemistry between them what they thought they wanted and what they wanted weren't the same. Also the things that they value in there life weren't matching up. Josh's first priority was family, his family and creating a family with Andi, her first priority was fame and cashing in on it to become a designer, there in 2 different spots in there life and sadly I don't believe they will reconcile

This IMO is the reality of the relationship. There is no indication they will get back together. Once the decision was made, I believe Josh wouldn't go backwards.

There's nothing wrong with that, they were together, it was real at the time. I'm sure the decision was not made overnight, therefore once it was made, it's time to move forward. Josh is doing just that. I hope Andi is doing the same as well as all those who support them here.

by AnandaMarie Tue Jan 13, 2015 12:40 am

Costiesgirl wrote:I'm starting to think what they had was lust not love. I've been a Jodi fan since the first episode but I think once you got past the attraction and obvious chemistry between them what they thought they wanted and what they wanted weren't the same. Also the things that they value in there life weren't matching up. Josh's first priority was family, his family and creating a family with Andi, her first priority was fame and cashing in on it to become a designer, there in 2 different spots in there life and sadly I don't believe they will reconcile

I still hope that they will reconcile and i truly believe that they were in love. I think that when Andi became the Bachelorette, all she wanted was to find love, find a husband and have a family. That's exactly what Josh wanted then and still wants now. I do think that while Andi wanted a family, she got caught up in the business opportunities that the Bachelorette provided . However, because i think that they really loved each other, they can fix those things as long as Andi can remember what she wanted on the first place and I'm still hopeful that they get back together.

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