Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - Facebook - Twitter - IG's - Updates - Discussion Thread #10

by aviej Fri Jan 09, 2015 9:25 am

nannymargie wrote:
aviej wrote:Guys this was posted in another thread but I want to get the fans' thoughts. Kelly tweeted: She almost loves him. And she had a pic of a black and a white dog facing each other. Some people think she was speaking about Andi almost loving Josh. Do you guys buy that?

NO, Kelly got a new dog and her other dog Molly is just getting use to the new dog.

Well, I hope so because I really do think that Andi loved/loves Josh. And what about Brian's latest tweets?

Brian Osborne @Coach_Osborne

Stop stressing & worrying about what people say or think about you. Never leave the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

How disciplined are you?
Discipline is between choosing what you want right now, and what you want for your future.

by aviej Fri Jan 09, 2015 9:27 am

AnandaMarie wrote:
nannymargie wrote:
aviej wrote:I think faith could be a factor here as well not that she was Jewish or that he was Catholic, but that he had a higher sense of spirituality and he trusted and had faith that God would work things out. I think he has a stronger sense of commitment, especially given that he's older and everything. Andi is young and still wants to explore all that life has to offer.

I think he wanted to get married and start a family right away and Andi always wanted to wait on the family part.

I also think that they had different plans on when to start a family and I think it could be a factor in their breakup. However, I might be wrong, but I dont think that it's too serious to prevent them from getting back together.

Exactly! I just think that right now they are making emotional decisions. Right now they need to think with both the head and the heart, not just one or the other. Because when reality hits them, the grass is never greener on the other side. Their kind of love doesn't happen everyday.

by AnandaMarie Fri Jan 09, 2015 9:28 am

When I just looked at their instagram accounts just now, I want to cry again. The pictures are so cute and the captions are even nicer. But what I noticed though, is that the last picture that Josh posted of them with a nice caption was 4 weeks ago. Maybe that's when the problems started and they just recently decided to split.

by AnandaMarie Fri Jan 09, 2015 9:32 am

aviej wrote:
AnandaMarie wrote:
nannymargie wrote:

I think he wanted to get married and start a family right away and Andi always wanted to wait on the family part.

I also think that they had different plans on when to start a family and I think it could be a factor in their breakup. However, I might be wrong, but I dont think that it's too serious to prevent them from getting back together.

Exactly! I just think that right now they are making emotional decisions. Right now they need to think with both the head and the heart, not just one or the other. Because when reality hits them, the grass is never greener on the other side. Their kind of love doesn't happen everyday.

You're right, this love probably only happens once in a lifetime. I try to be optimistic that they will get back together. However, I don't know if this is just a rushed emotional decision. It cant be easy to go through a breakup so publicly and announce it to the world and so i think that they would have tried alot to make the relationship work before announcing a break up. They're not like normal couples who can just breakup and get back together. But i still hope they realize how much they miss and love each other and get back together.

by nannymargie Fri Jan 09, 2015 9:33 am

AnandaMarie wrote:When I just looked at their instagram accounts just now, I want to cry again. The pictures are so cute and the captions are even nicer. But what I noticed though, is that the last picture that Josh posted of them with a nice caption was 4 weeks ago. Maybe that's when the problems started and they just recently decided to split.

I know I want to cry also. What can be so bad that they can't patch things up?

by aviej Fri Jan 09, 2015 9:35 am

nannymargie wrote:
AnandaMarie wrote:When I just looked at their instagram accounts just now, I want to cry again. The pictures are so cute and the captions are even nicer. But what I noticed though, is that the last picture that Josh posted of them with a nice caption was 4 weeks ago. Maybe that's when the problems started and they just recently decided to split.

I know I want to cry also. What can be so bad that they can't patch things up?

If Jason Mesnick can patch things up with Molly, I don't see why they can't. At least from the public's eye, their situation isn't as bad.

by AnandaMarie Fri Jan 09, 2015 9:40 am

aviej wrote:
nannymargie wrote:
AnandaMarie wrote:When I just looked at their instagram accounts just now, I want to cry again. The pictures are so cute and the captions are even nicer. But what I noticed though, is that the last picture that Josh posted of them with a nice caption was 4 weeks ago. Maybe that's when the problems started and they just recently decided to split.

I know I want to cry also. What can be so bad that they can't patch things up?

If Jason Mesnick can patch things up with Molly, I don't see why they can't. At least from the public's eye, their situation isn't as bad.

True, I feel that they Jason and Molly situation is different though. Jason said that by the time the lead hands out the Final rose, he or she would have spent like 48 hours total with the person that he or she chose. Andi and Josh lived together for 8 months. However, Andi and Josh are different people from Jason and Molly and they have different personalities and i hope that they can make it work. Both Andi and Josh have very strong personalities and i hope that an argument didn't cause them to make a hasty, bad decision.

by Trueloveforever Fri Jan 09, 2015 9:58 am

AnandaMarie wrote:
aviej wrote:
nannymargie wrote:

I know I want to cry also. What can be so bad that they can't patch things up?

If Jason Mesnick can patch things up with Molly, I don't see why they can't. At least from the public's eye, their situation isn't as bad.

True, I feel that they Jason and Molly situation is different though. Jason said that by the time the lead hands out the Final rose, he or she would have spent like 48 hours total with the person that he or she chose. Andi and Josh lived together for 8 months. However, Andi and Josh are different people from Jason and Molly and they have different personalities and i hope that they can make it work. Both Andi and Josh have very strong personalities and i hope that an argument didn't cause them to make a hasty, bad decision.

Also just think about Melissa & Tye. They were together, broke up, and now they're married with two kids. It can happen to Josh & Andi too, they just need to follow their hearts.

by AnandaMarie Fri Jan 09, 2015 10:11 am

In the pictures from Monday, I thought the looked happy. It's in the videos and interviews that you can see that Josh's body language was kinda off. I just saw a picture on Instagram that they took with fans on Monday and the girl said that they were so incredibly nice and they didnt just take the picture and walk off. They stayed and talked to the fans for a few minutes.

by AnandaMarie Fri Jan 09, 2015 10:24 am

I just read what Patrick said about their breakup and i feel the exact same way. I'm so sad, I dudnt even sleep last night

by edenpol Fri Jan 09, 2015 10:29 am

AnandaMarie wrote:I just read what Patrick said about their breakup and i feel the exact same way. I'm so sad, I dudnt even sleep last night

I know what you mean. I found out about this this morning so I have a feeling I won't be able to sleep also.

by aviej Fri Jan 09, 2015 10:32 am

Ok, so it was like clear as day to practically the whole cast of the show about their destiny, it was clear to us, what could be so bad for them to deny such a great enviable love? To be honest, not even the married couples from the franchise while they were on the show were as much giddy in love as Andi and Josh, IMO. So it's just so weird. They are the reason my twitter is active, they are the reason I joined this forum, they are the reason I have an IG account. Argghh!

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