Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - Facebook - Twitter - IG's - Updates - Discussion Thread #10

by Justafan2 Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:25 pm

aviej wrote:I can only see TPTB saying, darn! if we had waited a bit longer we could have had the Bachelor of the century! I'm sure they'd be hounding Josh like a dog now, but IMO he should stay away from further manipulation.

I would be extremely shocked if he decided to be the bachelor if they approached him. It doesn't seem to fit him. Not that he wouldn't want 30 ladies pining for him I am sure, I just don't see him wanting to be on the main stage of tv again.

by Kashathediva Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:27 pm

I hope so for his sake and his family's.

by Guest Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:33 pm

I don't see him wanting it either. I just hope he is able to find someone to love and love him back. Based on what he said at the proposal, he stayed awake at night worrying about never finding the woman to spend his life with. I realize there will be plenty of woman interested in him, but it really isn't as easy as having a bunch of women around to find the right chemistry and compatibility, especially at 30. I''m not sure if Atlanta is the best place for him to be, but I know he needs to be with family and friends, especially now. I wonder if Chad will move in with him for a while since he currently lives with his parents and hung out at Josh's all the time anyway watching Sabel?

by aviej Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:37 pm

That would be a good idea for Chad to move in. I wonder if he would show at the Advocare event, it's this weekend right?

by Guest Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:39 pm

There is an Advocare mixer tonight, and AdvoNation, a big conference is tomorrow. I hope Josh is up for going, I think it would be good for him to be with all those people. It could give him motivation and something to look forward to. Who knows, maybe he will even meet another Advocare enthusiast like himself to settle down with eventually.

by Alanna Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:41 pm

aviej wrote:That would be a good idea for Chad to move in. I wonder if he would show at the Advocare event, it's this weekend right?

It starts today iirc.

They probably kept delaying the breakup because they had a magazine shoot, and a charity event, and their parents' visit, etc. etc. etc., so there wasn't a "good" time for this.

Anyway, Josh will be just fine. He just needs to find a woman who is VERY secure in herself and while doesn't need to look like a supermodel, most definitely has the confidence of one. Andi will also be fine, but she probably needs someone who doesn't have women throwing themselves at her man all day and night.

by edenpol Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:42 pm

How can you guys think of them settling down with other people? They broke up like, yesterday. Again, they are my favorite couple, I'm still rooting for them, can't think of them with anyone else, sure not now.

by aviej Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:44 pm

Yeah I think Andi needs to be with someone where she is the limelight. Because of Josh's good looks, he stole some of her thunder (albeit unknowingly). I'm not sure he should go though. I mean people would mean well but they would be gushing on how good the relationship was, he'd be fine blah blah blah, and I'd just ball my eyes out hearing all that. He needs to sufficiently "grieve" first before being swarmed by people.

by aviej Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:47 pm

edenpol wrote:How can you guys think of them settling down with other people? They broke up like, yesterday. Again, they are my favorite couple, I'm still rooting for them, can't think of them with anyone else, sure not now.

Exactly! Thoughts of another are unfathomable at this point. Josh already said he's picky and he doesn't like breaking girls' hearts. I could only imagine he may be inclined to be even more picky especially knowing the kind of chemistry and love that he shared/shares with Andi. It'll be hard to top that.

by nannymargie Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:47 pm

aviej wrote:I'm not taking sides really. But I feel it more for Josh at this point, knowing he wanted to get married and have kids. It can't be easy playing second fiddle to your baby brother - first with the football career now with the wedding.

OH Aviej you just made me cry again and I am at work. That is one of the things that concerned Andi is that she didn't want the HTD to be all about Aaron and wanted them to be happy for Josh to.

Me too I feel more for Josh right now because we know Josh wants to get married and start a family and he thought he found that only to have it coming crashing down. I know Andi must be hurting also.

by edenpol Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:49 pm

aviej wrote:
edenpol wrote:How can you guys think of them settling down with other people? They broke up like, yesterday. Again, they are my favorite couple, I'm still rooting for them, can't think of them with anyone else, sure not now.

Exactly! Thoughts of another are unfathomable at this point. Josh already said he's picky and he doesn't like breaking girls' hearts. I could only imagine he may be inclined to be even more picky especially knowing the kind of chemistry and love that he shared/shares with Andi. It'll be hard to top that.

Exactly. Still wishing they would go back together.

by Justafan2 Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:51 pm

edenpol wrote:
aviej wrote:
edenpol wrote:How can you guys think of them settling down with other people? They broke up like, yesterday. Again, they are my favorite couple, I'm still rooting for them, can't think of them with anyone else, sure not now.

Exactly! Thoughts of another are unfathomable at this point. Josh already said he's picky and he doesn't like breaking girls' hearts. I could only imagine he may be inclined to be even more picky especially knowing the kind of chemistry and love that he shared/shares with Andi. It'll be hard to top that.
Exactly. Still wishing they would go back together.

I can only assume there is a lot of pain for both of them right now. As I said, I think if they do get back together, which I could see potentially happening, it will take some time apart. I think it will take some maturing on Andi's part and realizing what she had. For Josh, I am not sure what he needs right now but I do think they could absolutely wind up back with each other in the future.

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