Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - Facebook - Twitter - IG's - Updates - Discussion Thread #10

[GuardianAngel]

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[GuardianAngel]

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"the next woman he said “I love you” to would be his wife"
This part made me cry again
And Sara you have to be right about the pics that Andi deleted then. I didn't notice though.
But yes this breakup is the strangest thing ever. They loved each other so much and seemed to have the same lifestyle and values etc.
I may be wrong about this, and its obviously just a thought. I love Andi but I think that shes a lot different now from when she was on the bachelor and when she first became the bachelorette. Then I think that all she wanted was to find love, get married and have kids. Recently, she left her job, started her blog, started designing clothes and so I wonder if marriage and kids are no longer her first priority (still a priority, but not 1st - shes 27, she has time to do both if she wants to get married later). Josh on the other hand, seems to want to get married now and have kids 'yesterday' and so I wonder if she and Josh now want different things right now in life. They wanted the same thing when they met, but that could have changed.
I really love Andi and I don't mean to say anything bad about her. Shes my role model and really somebody I look up to, but I wonder if fame and publicity has temporarily changed what she wants in life.

[GuardianAngel]

I think he ended it though. I mean Andi was the one in the premiere who saw more of the need to "act". After the interview was done with CH Josh went over to talk to the boys and Andi came up behind him, holding onto his arm while she tried to adjust her shoe or something. He didn't even look down to see what had happened to her. To me at that point he was done. There was a Vine that was posted on twitter that when the camera zoomed in on Andi and Josh, Josh bowed his head to evade the camera, they both had serious looks, and once Andi realised she was on TV she had the broadest smile. So to me, she was the one grasping at straws.

[sara11]

I think he ended it though. I mean Andi was the one in the premiere who saw more of the need to "act". After the interview was done with CH Josh went over to talk to the boys and Andi came up behind him, holding onto his arm while she tried to adjust her shoe or something. He didn't even look down to see what had happened to her. To me at that point he was done. There was a Vine that was posted on twitter that when the camera zoomed in on Andi and Josh, Josh bowed his head to evade the camera, they both had serious looks, and once Andi realised she was on TV she had the broadest smile. So to me, she was the one grasping at strawss

I agree, I also saw the fixing shoe thing and was shocked he didn't even so much as glance at her.

[AnandaMarie]

Yes, I don't think Josh was blindsided. And they were probably broken up by Monday. Andi tried to hide it, but looking back at everything now, Josh seemed quiet, withdrawn and just there because he had to be. He didn't look very happy. However, some of the things that they said on both the interviews with CH and Access Hollywood, make me wonder why they would say those things if they were already broken up. But I think you could kinda tell from Josh's body language - the complete opposite of what it was when the show aired.

[luvlady345]

Well if that's the case that Josh was done... Why post what he posted on IG? Strange if you ask me.... Can't be hurting too bad if he was done..

[SafronSahara]

I always liked Josh and Andi individually but the coupling of them as Jodi was who I adored. I've said this before, but my heart aches for Josh. To spend all those years single waiting for a great love and then meeting Andi in an abnormal way...

Bachelor/Ette breakups don't faze me usually but this split is devastating.

[Alanna]

I think he ended it though. I mean Andi was the one in the premiere who saw more of the need to "act". After the interview was done with CH Josh went over to talk to the boys and Andi came up behind him, holding onto his arm while she tried to adjust her shoe or something. He didn't even look down to see what had happened to her. To me at that point he was done. There was a Vine that was posted on twitter that when the camera zoomed in on Andi and Josh, Josh bowed his head to evade the camera, they both had serious looks, and once Andi realised she was on TV she had the broadest smile. So to me, she was the one grasping at strawss

I agree, I also saw the fixing shoe thing and was shocked he didn't even so much as glance at her.

I saw that too, it was so strange and un-Josh-like.

Overall, Andi was the one that seemed like a wreck Monday, not Josh, so I have to think that the breakup was mostly initiated by him but she probably knew it was the end of the relationship also.

Anyway, Steve's chat starts in a few mins and he's talking Josh and Andi immediately. Hope he has some gossip regarding the breakup.

[sara11]

Josh has started deleting pics, so far only 2 and those are the 2 nye promo pics. I screenshotted both his and andi's IGs earlier tonight.

[aviej]

I think you can be the one to end a relationship and still be very much hurt by its demise.

[AnandaMarie]

I always liked Josh and Andi individually but the coupling of them as Jodi was who I adored. I've said this before, but my heart aches for Josh. To spend all those years single waiting for a great love and then meeting Andi in an abnormal way...

Bachelor/Ette breakups don't faze me usually but this split is devastating.  

Yes completely devastating. And I agree with you, I love them individually and I loved them even more together. I think that they could not have been more perfect for each other and to me, their relationship was what true love was.

[Ash2214]

I saw that vine as well. Josh looked completely detached, but Andi was still leaning into him, actually kind of laying on him a bit and she didn't even realize at that moment she was on camera given her reaction when she finally realized she was on tv. I don't think this came as a surprise to Josh whatsoever.

If he was the one to initiate the break up or put the final nail in the coffin, he will still be hurt and upset. I don't doubt that they cared or loved each other. Regardless of who you are, it's devastating to break up with someone.

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