Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #2

Yes, I have a very good idea of what this refers to. 
I paraphrase what I heard/read.
Basically in a nutshell she did not say something bad about Josh--she insinuated it. Remember the mag says source/sources vs her own mouth.
Paraphrase from article: 
"She thinks New York City is the right place for her to find someone with an energy and intellectualism to match her own," says a pal of the former district attorney and budding fashion designer, 27.  "She needs to be with a guy who's open-minded and won't try to put her in a traditional wife role."

Interpret this as you will.
My fav part is "budding fashion designer". 
I guess she wants more than a box of rocks? Sounds like she needs cracker jack, that box has caramel corn, nuts and a prize.

Is Andi moving?

The article indicated she was strongly considering it--to NYC. 
Who knows? These things usually have only a kernel of truth.

^^^ That is interesting.

And whoever mentioned that she was dating a "wealthy real estate agent" prior to the show is also interesting. Not to say she wants to date a sugar daddy.. but maybe she's more looking for someone already really established because she's not yet?

It worked for Kelly. (the sugar daddy part)

In regards to the whole dating a wealthy real estate agent thing, RS mentioned it a few times during Juan Pablo's season and it's still there in his posts. I think that's exactly what she needs and it's similar to Kelly's situation - someone very wealthy and established that will allow her to do whatever the heck she wants.

I don't usually believe magazines given a lot of it is laughable, but the whole "wants a husband that will be open minded that doesn't want a traditional wife" sounds like Andi to me. I don't see her having a legitimate job in the next few years and the same goes for kids IMO. I think she wants the freedom to do as she pleases and being a wife comes with a lot of responsibility that I personally don't think she wants. With someone like Kelly's fiance, I think there's very little responsibility involved. Sounds like it would be a good fit for her.

Andi even said in interviews that falling in love with Josh made things a bit tricky because she essentially wanted out of Atlanta. I can definitely see her moving and I would bet it will be NY or LA.

Kashathediva wrote:AYes, I have a very good idea of what this refers to. 
I paraphrase what I heard/read.
Basically in a nutshell she did not say something bad about Josh--she insinuated it. Remember the mag says source/sources vs her own mouth.
Paraphrase from article: 
"She thinks New York City is the right place for her to find someone with an energy and intellectualism to match her own," says a pal of the former district attorney and budding fashion designer, 27.  "She needs to be with a guy who's open-minded and won't try to put her in a traditional wife role."

Interpret this as you will.
My fav part is "budding fashion designer". 
I guess she wants more than a box of rocks? Sounds like she needs cracker jack, that box has caramel corn, nuts and a prize.

 ... nuts and a prize

Semantically, the quote source sounds like her cousin who wrote a verbose opinion piece prior to Andi's season airing.  Some poppycock about how Andi's season would be different in that she would inject feminism into the tired franchise.  I think her cousin's understanding of feminism came from an ecard and that her assumption that this reality show would be Andi's platform for social change was a tad delusional. (shared gene?) Regardless, I saw nothing during the season to champion anything exceptional.

Anyway, perhaps on Sunday CH will provide a professional to administer an IQ test so that once Andi arrives in NYC she can post her score on Tinder or equivalent. Energy-wise, she's been unemployed for 6 months and her time management is such that she had to sew a dress on a plane so given the population of NYC I'd say her odds are good of finding a match.

I'm surprised Andi isn't in NY for fashion week if that is truly what she wants to do. It would behoove her to go and see what real designers create and how they market their lines.

notarose wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:AYes, I have a very good idea of what this refers to. 
I paraphrase what I heard/read.
Basically in a nutshell she did not say something bad about Josh--she insinuated it. Remember the mag says source/sources vs her own mouth.
Paraphrase from article: 
"She thinks New York City is the right place for her to find someone with an energy and intellectualism to match her own," says a pal of the former district attorney and budding fashion designer, 27.  "She needs to be with a guy who's open-minded and won't try to put her in a traditional wife role."

Interpret this as you will.
My fav part is "budding fashion designer". 
I guess she wants more than a box of rocks? Sounds like she needs cracker jack, that box has caramel corn, nuts and a prize.

 ... nuts and a prize

Semantically, the quote source sounds like her cousin who wrote a verbose opinion piece prior to Andi's season airing.  Some poppycock about how Andi's season would be different in that she would inject feminism into the tired franchise.  I think her cousin's understanding of feminism came from an ecard and that her assumption that this reality show would be Andi's platform for social change was a tad delusional. (shared gene?) Regardless, I saw nothing during the season to champion anything exceptional.

Anyway, perhaps on Sunday CH will provide a professional to administer an IQ test so that once Andi arrives in NYC she can post her score on Tinder or equivalent. Energy-wise, she's been unemployed for 6 months and her time management is such that she had to sew a dress on a plane so given the population of NYC I'd say her odds are good of finding a match.

OMG...you two are hysterical!.. i cant help but . Thanks for a good laugh!

umngirl wrote:I'm surprised Andi isn't in NY for fashion week if that is truly what she wants to do. It would behoove her to go and see what real designers create and how they market their lines.

She's no Des.

But I don't think she knows what she wants in life at the moment. I don't think she's passionate about being a designer and to be a designer, especially fashion, it's no cake walk. It's brutal. She has a lot to learn!

Ash2214 wrote:In regards to the whole dating a wealthy real estate agent thing, RS mentioned it a few times during Juan Pablo's season and it's still there in his posts. I think that's exactly what she needs and it's similar to Kelly's situation - someone very wealthy and established that will allow her to do whatever the heck she wants.

I don't usually believe magazines given a lot of it is laughable, but the whole "wants a husband that will be open minded that doesn't want a traditional wife" sounds like Andi to me. I don't see her having a legitimate job in the next few years and the same goes for kids IMO. I think she wants the freedom to do as she pleases and being a wife comes with a lot of responsibility that I personally don't think she wants. With someone like Kelly's fiance, I think there's very little responsibility involved. Sounds like it would be a good fit for her.

Andi even said in interviews that falling in love with Josh made things a bit tricky because she essentially wanted out of Atlanta. I can definitely see her moving and I would bet it will be NY or LA.

Ash, I was thinking this and Just recently mentioned it to a friend that Maybe Andi might want someone more established and successful like her friend Kelly and maybe Josh just wasent enough for her . If that quote in the above post has any truth to it then it confirms my thoughts . I believed from the beginning of this breakup that it was Andi that was more difficult ( her own words) .and didn't want the same life that Josh wanted . I do believe Josh pulled the final plug on calling it off and Couldn't keep the charade up , but I think she lead him to it . JMHO will be interesting to see her interview .

umngirl wrote:I'm surprised Andi isn't in NY for fashion week if that is truly what she wants to do. It would behoove her to go and see what real designers create and how they market their lines.

But that would require some effort and some thought. Perhaps some actual talent and work. Between the workouts, the shopping and hanging with friends, who has the time?