Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #2

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I read every single post in every thread everyday, so sometimes my brain is fried. I'd like to know if Andi has mentioned anything lately about returning to her ADA job.

I personally don't think she should. I think being away from that environment would do her a world of good.

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I read every single post in every thread everyday, so sometimes my brain is fried. I'd like to know if Andi has mentioned anything lately about returning to her ADA job.

I personally don't think she should. I think being away from that environment would do her a world of good.

She's just mentioned generally she'll go back once the "dust settles." And I actually think it may help her! I'm a lawyer as well and it really helps focus all my competitiveness. I notice I argue more with my family when I'm not really involved with a case.

From Eagle Eye: Serious question, because I'm honestly curious: Why spend so much time in the fan thread of someone you despise so much?

This wasn't directed at me, but I will answer since I do occasionally enter the Fan Threads of couples or contestants I am not a fan of or do not like. I can say that I do not despise anyone, but there are some who have either said or done things that I don't care for. I go in to see what they are up to, and to see if they've done anything to change my negative opinion of them. Maybe I thought too harshly of them and they deserved to be cut some slack, or maybe they lived up to my impression of them.

  Excellent answer, Mustang. I tend to go into the twitter/FB threads to see what people are up to myself.

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Mustang19 wrote:From Eagle Eye: Serious question, because I'm honestly curious: Why spend so much time in the fan thread of someone you despise so much?

This wasn't directed at me, but I will answer since I do occasionally enter the Fan Threads of couples or contestants I am not a fan of or do not like. I can say that I do not despise anyone, but there are some who have either said or done things that I don't care for. I go in to see what they are up to, and to see if they've done anything to change my negative opinion of them. Maybe I thought too harshly of them and they deserved to be cut some slack, or maybe they lived up to my impression of them.  

Fair enough, and an occasional visit to the fan forum seems totally understandable. I was talking more specifically about avowed non-fans who are in the fan thread literally every single day, and I was just curious about the thought process. But since I said I'd leave this topic alone, let's just pretend I was never here.

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Mustang19 wrote:From Eagle Eye: Serious question, because I'm honestly curious: Why spend so much time in the fan thread of someone you despise so much?

This wasn't directed at me, but I will answer since I do occasionally enter the Fan Threads of couples or contestants I am not a fan of or do not like. I can say that I do not despise anyone, but there are some who have either said or done things that I don't care for. I go in to see what they are up to, and to see if they've done anything to change my negative opinion of them. Maybe I thought too harshly of them and they deserved to be cut some slack, or maybe they lived up to my impression of them.  

Fair enough, and an occasional visit to the fan forum seems totally understandable. I was talking more specifically about avowed non-fans who are in the fan thread literally every single day, and I was just curious about the thought process. But since I said I'd leave this topic alone, let's just pretend I was never here.

I think it's possible to hate-read, I do it with certain celebs and the tabloids .

Eagle Eye wrote: I was talking more specifically about avowed non-fans who are in the fan thread literally every single day...snipped....But since I said I'd leave this topic alone, let's just pretend I was never here.

I don't even know who's where every single day. It's interesting that anyone cares where users are visiting.

Ok, I'm going to try this again.

by lurker11 on Sat Jan 03, 2015 9:47 pm

She's just mentioned generally she'll go back once the "dust settles." And I actually think it may help her! I'm a lawyer as well and it really helps focus all my competitiveness. I notice I argue more with my family when I'm not really involved with a case.

Is that what you meant to say?

IMO she needs to back off the competitiveness in her personality because at times she's unreasonable, and her focus is just to win. That's what I was getting at.

That was what I meant to say... Work is a healthy release for that type of energy. when I'm not working I get more feisty in other areas, this may be the same for her as well. All the energy she focused into school and work previously had no other outlet. Maybe that's why she seemed so competitive in JP's season - she had no idea how to handle it when she's not working.

lurker11 wrote:That was what I meant to say... Work is a healthy release for that type of energy. when I'm not working I get more feisty in other areas, this may be the same for her as well. All the energy she focused into school and work previously had no other outlet. Maybe that's why she seemed so competitive in JP's season - she had no idea how to handle it when she's not working.  

What a great answer! Yes, she has no idea how to handle it outside of work, that's exactly my opinion of some of her behavior from what I've seen.