Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #2

I watched the Emily interview, and whether it was true or not is a different story, but CH made a point of saying Brad was "invited" but declined, and he was ok with Emily doing interview solo. Of course they were setting Emily up to be next 'ette.

nannymargie wrote:

atem wrote:

bluwavz wrote:

Kasha, do you know if they wanted Brad to do the breakup interview with Emily? Contract or not, I doubt they had to convince MeAndI that much to do it.

I think that interview with Emily was a set up for her to be the next puppet.

This one, I don't get.  There's nothing to say.

I think TPTB wanted this interview because everyone thought that these 2 would make it.  So when they didn't they want to know why.

Ok. 
Not everyone thought these 2 would make it. That is an opinion. There are those who never thought these two would. That is an opinon. 
There are some who maybe interested in hearing this interview. Whether their concerns will be answered, I expect it to be split. I expect some will still not believe the answers given. I expect there will be some who say the relationship is history and other who will say the door is still open.
There are some who hope MEandI has a bucket of water thrown at her and hears her shrieks of "I'm melting, I'm melting". There are some hoping she becomes best buds with Kelsey, takes off for a Paris pilgrimage and becomes the next Nietzsche or Napoleon. 
Personally, I think Edward Snowden is very lonely. Russia has long winters and he remains single. Maybe MEandI could be his love interest. Russia  could use her sense of style and she could grace Russian tv screens for awhile.

It's difficult for those who loved this couple to understand the opinions in the General Discussion during her season, and post season, that these two would never in a million years last. There IMO was never a deep love that would last forever. If there was, they would still be together.

There are a ton of reasons why it was the opinion that it wouldn't work. It has nothing to do with outside forces. It has nothing to do with strong personalities, because regardless of personalities, if two people are in love, they make it work, no matter what.

It has to do with Andi IMO who is selfish, thinks only of herself and wants everyone to love her. She lies, she acts, and she isn't real, she's fake. All that has caught up with her, and now she finds herself in a position where once again she is at TPTB's beck and call. She has to do this sit down. She is going to make darn sure, she is the victim of this breakup. She probably loved being in front of the camera, pouring on the waterworks to show everyone just how upset she is over this break up. They probably played a montage of the happy times for her to build up to the waterworks.

It's too bad Josh doesn't get his own personal sit down, without her. These two will never get back together.

Kasha, I'll hope for the Russian deal for MeAndI. Anything to get her off of my TV screen.

NannyMargie, I'm part of "everyone," and I never thought she and Josh would make it, and I never saw the great love between them that you saw. Guess that's what makes the world interesting.

Hopefully this will be the last time that I have to see or hear anything from MeAndi. IMO there is nothing she could say or do to change my mind about her. She is a spoiled brat that needs to be looking for a job and standing on her own two feet. Not trying with all her IG's pics trying to make us feel sorry for her. It is not working and the majority of people are so done with her too by just reading comments. If Josh wanted to be there I am sure he would but I think he is so over her and has been for quite awhile. I doubt he even wants to be in the same room with her. He had to live with MeAndi and finally saw her true colors which to me are just plain ugly. He is doing GREAT without her and looks very happy living his life.JMO

Just to comment that Andi usually gets thousnads of comments on instagram and twitter and most are supportive of her. Yes, some are negative, but most are not.

Of course some people here are "over her," and I totally respect that. And no one (here) knows what really happened between Josh and Andi. Josh did not "have" to live with Andi, he chose to.

People have opinions and like mentioned earlier, they are all opinions. I respect that too. Keeps the board fun.

The thing with sm---the people responding to her should be her fans. Noticed I used the word "should", as I can not imagine commenting on someone's page if they were not. 
With that being said, I would expect that she'd have a large fan following. This show is shown internationally. 
BTW--in case it's not noticed, we have a large membership on this forum--almost 5000. In addition to that, on almost any given time, we have a ratio of 3:1 guests to members reading.

GuardianAngel wrote:It's difficult for those who loved this couple to understand the opinions in the General Discussion during her season, and post season, that these two would never in a million years last. There IMO was never a deep love that would last forever. If there was, they would still be together.

There are a ton of reasons why it was the opinion that it wouldn't work. It has nothing to do with outside forces. It has nothing to do with strong personalities, because regardless of personalities, if two people are in love, they make it work, no matter what.

It has to do with Andi IMO who is selfish, thinks only of herself and wants everyone to love her. She lies, she acts, and she isn't real, she's fake. All that has caught up with her, and now she finds herself in a position where once again she is at TPTB's beck and call. She has to do this sit down. She is going to make darn sure, she is the victim of this breakup. She probably loved being in front of the camera, pouring on the waterworks to show everyone just how upset she is over this break up. They probably played a montage of the happy times for her to build up to the waterworks.

It's too bad Josh doesn't get his own personal sit down, without her. These two will never get back together.

Well I will just keep my rose colored glasses on. It looks better to over look the faults and look for the good things. I do feel they were in love and Josh has said a bunch of times that they were in love and happy. I don't think Josh was lying. Josh has even said Andi was a loving and nurturing person. She cooked and cleaned and did everything. Who would have thought that Andi did all that. Josh lived with her and would know more than us about the good things in saw in her.

It takes 2 to make a relationship work so I will not put all the blame on Andi.

nannymargie wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:It's difficult for those who loved this couple to understand the opinions in the General Discussion during her season, and post season, that these two would never in a million years last. There IMO was never a deep love that would last forever. If there was, they would still be together.

There are a ton of reasons why it was the opinion that it wouldn't work. It has nothing to do with outside forces. It has nothing to do with strong personalities, because regardless of personalities, if two people are in love, they make it work, no matter what.

It has to do with Andi IMO who is selfish, thinks only of herself and wants everyone to love her. She lies, she acts, and she isn't real, she's fake. All that has caught up with her, and now she finds herself in a position where once again she is at TPTB's beck and call. She has to do this sit down. She is going to make darn sure, she is the victim of this breakup. She probably loved being in front of the camera, pouring on the waterworks to show everyone just how upset she is over this break up. They probably played a montage of the happy times for her to build up to the waterworks.

It's too bad Josh doesn't get his own personal sit down, without her. These two will never get back together.

Well I will just keep my rose colored glasses on.  It looks better to over look the faults and look for the good things.   I do feel they were in love and Josh has said a bunch of times that they were in love and happy. I don't think Josh was lying. Josh has even said Andi was a loving and nurturing person. She cooked and cleaned and did everything.  Who would have thought that Andi did all that.  Josh  lived with her and would know more than us about the good things in saw in her.

It takes 2 to make a relationship work so I will not put all the blame on Andi.  

Well said.

Rolly wrote:

nd4reality wrote:Cry me a river.

ITA   MeAndi is one piece of work....Josh dodged a bullet...JMO.

I agree. He may be a little bruised now but in time he will get that this was the best thing to happen to him. Now hopefully he will be smart and not jump back into that pond.:strings1

And to those of you up thread (I think quite a few of you brought up this point btw )....................hopefully CH asks the one burning question of what the heck was going on on the premier red carpet. Inquiring minds want to know.

GuardianAngel wrote:It's difficult for those who loved this couple to understand the opinions in the General Discussion during her season, and post season, that these two would never in a million years last. There IMO was never a deep love that would last forever. If there was, they would still be together.

There are a ton of reasons why it was the opinion that it wouldn't work. It has nothing to do with outside forces. It has nothing to do with strong personalities, because regardless of personalities, if two people are in love, they make it work, no matter what.

It has to do with Andi IMO who is selfish, thinks only of herself and wants everyone to love her. She lies, she acts, and she isn't real, she's fake. All that has caught up with her, and now she finds herself in a position where once again she is at TPTB's beck and call. She has to do this sit down. She is going to make darn sure, she is the victim of this breakup. She probably loved being in front of the camera, pouring on the waterworks to show everyone just how upset she is over this break up. They probably played a montage of the happy times for her to build up to the waterworks.

It's too bad Josh doesn't get his own personal sit down, without her. These two will never get back together.

I didn't think it was going to work out between them either, but I don't put all the blame on Andi. I agree with your characterization of her, and I'm sure that she will paint herself to be the victim in the interview. That said, I don't think that Josh is the victim either. I think that people didn't really get to know him that well and think of him just in terms of the edit the show gave him. But, from what I've seen on SM, he's pretty immature, stubborn, judgmental, and hasty in his actions. They both have a lot of growing up to do before they can be in healthy relationships, IMHO.

chasingpavements wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:It's difficult for those who loved this couple to understand the opinions in the General Discussion during her season, and post season, that these two would never in a million years last. There IMO was never a deep love that would last forever. If there was, they would still be together.

There are a ton of reasons why it was the opinion that it wouldn't work. It has nothing to do with outside forces. It has nothing to do with strong personalities, because regardless of personalities, if two people are in love, they make it work, no matter what.

It has to do with Andi IMO who is selfish, thinks only of herself and wants everyone to love her. She lies, she acts, and she isn't real, she's fake. All that has caught up with her, and now she finds herself in a position where once again she is at TPTB's beck and call. She has to do this sit down. She is going to make darn sure, she is the victim of this breakup. She probably loved being in front of the camera, pouring on the waterworks to show everyone just how upset she is over this break up. They probably played a montage of the happy times for her to build up to the waterworks.

It's too bad Josh doesn't get his own personal sit down, without her. These two will never get back together.

I didn't think it was going to work out between them either, but I don't put all the blame on Andi. I agree with your characterization of her, and I'm sure that she will paint herself to be the victim in the interview. That said, I don't think that Josh is the victim either. I think that people didn't really get to know him that well and think of him just in terms of the edit the show gave him. But, from what I've seen on SM, he's pretty immature, stubborn, judgmental, and hasty in his actions. They both have a lot of growing up to do before they can be in healthy relationships, IMHO.

Thank you!