Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #2

Kashathediva wrote:

bluwavz wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:I need educating with this sm thing. 
I understand if I should unfriend or unfollow. Unless there is a mature, valid reason in my eyes, it's kind of childish or can have more negative connotation than warranted with the action. 
But friending or following, on the other hand, I don't put a lot of emphasis. There are people I have friended that are mere acquaintances. Sometimes it's simply a nice, polite gesture.

I just don't get why he would follow her when she clearly disliked him after the show and didn't want to show up to the live premiere if he was going to be there. Maybe I'm making too a big a deal of it, but why go there? And again, why not follow Josh? The timing of this is just interesting to me.

He had a relationship with her. Things are over. I think he's past her. So why not friend or follow her? It's nice. She's could use a friend or two or three? He is a nice guy, imo, it would be big of him or nice of him to for someone in his past hurting. I could see myself doing this. 
Why should he follow Josh at this point? He never really had any relationship with him. He's not running into him socially. There is really nothing there to re-connect with. 
Again, just me, but if there was anything deep about the re-connection with MEandI, I don't think he would do it through sm after this whole fiasco. There would be other less obvious ways. (I know it seems like we have our own private little club house here, but we have hundreds of "guests" and other lurking that read our posts daily. We are far from private and if "we" have noticed this "follow" it's out there now.)

bleuberry wrote:Can you imagine if they actually got together again?! :shocked!:

Kashathediva wrote:I could be wrong. I will be the first to admit I do not over involve myself in all this sm. At my place in life I use it to re-connect with old friends and current friends/family. I have my privacies set according to who it is.  And basically the only things I share/post are positive happy, warm fuzzy things. Nothing gets posted that is a private area of my life. I post photos of my pets and things ok'ed by my kids, if it trespasses on their lives. 
So all I would look at it as would be a polite "hey" and let her know bygones. If I still had any feelings about a guy or unfinished business--there would be no re-connect. That would be dangerous waters.

timfan wrote:I just saw another rumor that andi is the frontrunner to be the bachelorette again I hope not I liked her season but she should find somebody not connected with the show

bleuberry wrote:Can you imagine if they actually got together again?! :shocked!:

bluwavz wrote:
I think it's fine if he wants to be friends with her, but I think she should make the first move on that one since she rejected him. I expected him to follow Josh because he expressed an interest in being friends with him and said he didn't expect either him or Andi to reach out to each other. That's why the follow to Andi but not Josh is weird to me. I don't think he's trying to get back with her, I just don't get it is all.

albean99 wrote:Does it really matter if Nick follows Andi? I wouldn't in a million years if I were him but I doubt it has much significance. It's just a follow. I wouldn't follow Josh either. Neither of them were nice to Nick.