Bachelor Canada - Season 2 - *Sleuthing - *Spoilers* - *Speculation* - Discussion #2

Nikki was not blogging and i think as long as anyone mentions , that suffices. Another week or so and all wiill ne revealed

see2love wrote:Nikki was not blogging and i think as long as anyone mentions , that suffices.  Another week or so and all wiill ne revealed

Very true.....knowing Tim had April meets his friends my thought is that is cool, don't get me wrong, I just think the reason is so very different then most have implied.   I won't hash it out because it will be my thoughts vs. your thoughts etc.  Being TeamTim I am always looking at certain things for both girls what the girls say in video or blog doesn't help me figure out this puzzle that's it and that didn't give April a big pro check on MY list.

sophienette wrote:BW Kasha...check out the changes on my sig ... Thanks for the reminder in yours  

Niiice.

I am finding more and more, I am not so connected with the show(franchise) as much as I am the forum.

does anyone here follow lisa on insta? what i just found: was that she posted this picture of her after tim "dumped" her and her caption reads "some call it dumped, but i say i dodged a bullet" then ppl commented saying things like how tim was gay and how the shows double standard cause she wasnt allowed to kiss another man but tim could kiss multiple women. And she replied to her comments in a way that despises tim. What i found interesting though is that trish and sachelle liked her photo... Not something i would like if i was his f1. April didn't like it and she follows lisa.

Good catch!

joshfan wrote:does anyone here follow lisa on insta? what i just found: was that she posted this picture of her after tim "dumped" her and her caption reads "some call it dumped, but i say i dodged a bullet" then ppl commented saying things like how tim was gay and how the shows double standard cause she wasnt allowed to kiss another man but tim could kiss multiple women. And she replied to her comments in a way that despises tim. What i found interesting though is that trish and sachelle liked her photo... Not something i would like if i was his f1. April didn't like it and she follows lisa.

This goes back to what I thought originally. I didn't watch the show when it started since I wasn't interested in what I had seen with Tim. By episode 5 I started to watch and thought he seemed genuine about finding love on a show that is not that genuine at all. 

Then I posted somewhere in the thread when April's best friend contacted me and told me that April was tired of guys only talking about themselves and I wrote in my post about how I could relate that Tim's TO date with April and how he talked about himself, happy, life-changing moment, etc, etc, and how April seemed a bit uninterested until he asked her a question about love and then finally she revealed stuff about herself. But, it was him showing April his hometown so that makes sense to reveal stuff about himself and then April about herself. 

I posted that either Tim is really genuine about not leading anyone on and so that reason (yes, I am aware that it makes little sense to lead Trish on either) but based on how he figuratively and literally has chased April it would be leading her on only to dump her. He has to dump 24 women anyway for there to only be one. 

So, as I have repeatedly stated, Tim either he is a douche or he is really genuine. 

Some things that give me pause and lend themselves to maybe-douche:
1) I also posted that I thought it was odd that he was hosting all these girl's nights at clubs this weekend. These are not high class clubs or cocktail lounges. When I searched the clubs, they are serious raunchy, 20 year old let's do drugs type of clubs (not cocktail lounges to be sure). I posted I thought that was odd considering I personally wouldn't want to date, let alone be engaged to or in a serious relationship with someone hosting these things. It doesn't coincide with 'marriage' seriousness that is for sure, imo! Tying in with the 'dating' scene, Tim did a talk on speed dating, etc. He has also talked about how his serious girlfriend in the longest relationship he has had (2 years) was a result of internet dating. So it somewhat makes sense to talk about dating since this is what he has done even on a crazier way being the bachelor.
2) Tim's SM activity can be seen as misleading or douche. For example, he talked about being grilled by his 13 ex-girlfriends. I thought that was a weird choice of words. I understand the show but to technically refer to them as such? I personally noted it and thought...hmm... but that is just me and it was probably tongue in cheek (though I doubt most of the girls refer to Tim as their ex-boyfriend! Ha!). His other SM activity is when he posted "be with someone that makes you happy". His comment to a poster that asked if he was single and not with anyone anymore was "Hahaha... maybe. Or maybe just trying to mislead you". He has also used a lot of winking emoticon's to females that post on his SM. He has also posted on his personal SM only April related things. Strange if Trish was the one. But, not so strange if she wasn't or if he has broken up with the one or is with no one. He could just like and favorite everything if he wanted if he was with no one from the show since it would mean nothing.
3) Sharleen Joynt noted that she found the way Tyler was at WTA really strange . "Too chipper" (in a negative/bad omen) way was her wording. I took that to mean that either something great happened or Tyler knew something bad had happened and was compensating before the taping of ATFR (which was likely taped the same time). 
4) Who knows what happened during ATFR!? The girls posted their blogs before the WTA and their predictions with that. Kaylynn's IG photo I have said was looking sad/concerned about Trish when she, Trish, and Sachelle were out partying until 3 am after all the taping was completed. They called it a 'girl's night out' and Trish hasn't posted ANYTHING related to Tim after that time that relates to HTD or anything else. She had posted up until then and she was the only one doing so. It made me think she was F1 possibly but then they are no longer together once ATFR taped so no need to post on her IG about Tim and HTD since the girls know this (or she was F2 and now all the girls knew that so again, no need to post Tim related stuff). After ATFR taping Trish posted a pic of herself with April, Sachelle, and Lisa. In the comments section, she said to another commenter that she had definitely found friendship.
5) Two girls self-evicted. Yes, Natalie came back but even she said so only to stir the pot and that she knew Tim was interested. Dom left since she knew he wasn't either and yet they had the passionate kiss. April was very hesitant to trust Tim. Trish has said she is falling and we have pre-view of her saying that her hearts says love but head not so much. Reading into it from a negative perspective (since I mostly do the positive from everything) one can see this as women's intuition not trusting the person and not just the process. Tim also let a lot of girls go, genuine is the positive way to read into this, the douche would be he didn't care at all and was tired of acting. If he chooses no one... well that would lend itself to the same idea though it seems unlikely this is the case (so far, that is). 

So, as ridiculous as all this is and how one can read into anything (and I am doing just that!)... either Tim was shot down (no one), he chose someone but they are now broken up, or he is still happy with the person he has chosen (one can do a similar genuine-Tim reading into everything and support that all is fine, it has been done so wanted to look at the other side since there statistics of this show are not good, BachCan or not. Bottom line is even BachCan has no marriages from their first season only a broken off engagement). 


P.S. If Tim is getting the gay comments already then based on what happened with BachAussie that is not a good thing. Lord help me if this season ends up like the Aussie one.    Tim being so genuine but still passionate kisser (even Dom who left passion or not) and kissed girl's back to back (April was into lying down with him). April saying that Tim says all the right stuff so perfectly. The comment by Trish on "definitely found friendship" with the girls doesn't bode well either. BachAussie deja vu, to say the least. And if there is a so-called Mesnick with BachCan I will refer to this franchise as BachCan't ... Ugh. 
Hoping for a happy ending. Even as ridiculous as that may be... I am still all about love over here... 

AllAboutLove wrote:

joshfan wrote:does anyone here follow lisa on insta? what i just found: was that she posted this picture of her after tim "dumped" her and her caption reads "some call it dumped, but i say i dodged a bullet" then ppl commented saying things like how tim was gay and how the shows double standard cause she wasnt allowed to kiss another man but tim could kiss multiple women. And she replied to her comments in a way that despises tim. What i found interesting though is that trish and sachelle liked her photo... Not something i would like if i was his f1. April didn't like it and she follows lisa.

This goes back to what I thought originally. I didn't watch the show when it started since I wasn't interested in what I had seen with Tim. By episode 5 I started to watch and thought he seemed genuine about finding love on a show that is not that genuine at all. 

Then I posted somewhere in the thread when April's best friend contacted me and told me that April was tired of guys only talking about themselves and I wrote in my post about how I could relate that Tim's TO date with April and how he talked about himself, happy, life-changing moment, etc, etc, and how April seemed a bit uninterested until he asked her a question about love and then finally she revealed stuff about herself. But, it was him showing April his hometown so that makes sense to reveal stuff about himself and then April about herself. 

I posted that either Tim is really genuine about not leading anyone on and so that reason (yes, I am aware that it makes little sense to lead Trish on either) but based on how he figuratively and literally has chased April it would be leading her on only to dump her. He has to dump 24 women anyway for there to only be one. 

So, as I have repeatedly stated, Tim either he is a douche or he is really genuine. 

Some things that give me pause and lend themselves to maybe-douche:
1) I also posted that I thought it was odd that he was hosting all these girl's nights at clubs this weekend. These are not high class clubs or cocktail lounges. When I searched the clubs, they are serious raunchy, 20 year old let's do drugs type of clubs (not cocktail lounges to be sure). I posted I thought that was odd considering I personally wouldn't want to date, let alone be engaged to or in a serious relationship with someone hosting these things. It doesn't coincide with 'marriage' seriousness that is for sure, imo! Tying in with the 'dating' scene, Tim did a talk on speed dating, etc. He has also talked about how his serious girlfriend in the longest relationship he has had (2 years) was a result of internet dating. So it somewhat makes sense to talk about dating since this is what he has done even on a crazier way being the bachelor.
2) Tim's SM activity can be seen as misleading or douche. For example, he talked about being grilled by his 13 ex-girlfriends. I thought that was a weird choice of words. I understand the show but to technically refer to them as such? I personally noted it and thought...hmm... but that is just me and it was probably tongue in cheek (though I doubt most of the girls refer to Tim as their ex-boyfriend! Ha!). His other SM activity is when he posted "be with someone that makes you happy". His comment to a poster that asked if he was single and not with anyone anymore was "Hahaha... maybe. Or maybe just trying to mislead you". He has also used a lot of winking emoticon's to females that post on his SM. He has also posted on his personal SM only April related things. Strange if Trish was the one. But, not so strange if she wasn't or if he has broken up with the one or is with no one. He could just like and favorite everything if he wanted if he was with no one from the show since it would mean nothing.
3) Sharleen Joynt noted that she found the way Tyler was at WTA really strange . "Too chipper" (in a negative/bad omen) way was her wording. I took that to mean that either something great happened or Tyler knew something bad had happened and was compensating before the taping of ATFR (which was likely taped the same time). 
4) Who knows what happened during ATFR!? The girls posted their blogs before the WTA and their predictions with that. Kaylynn's IG photo I have said was looking sad/concerned about Trish when she, Trish, and Sachelle were out partying until 3 am after all the taping was completed. They called it a 'girl's night out' and Trish hasn't posted ANYTHING related to Tim after that time that relates to HTD or anything else. She had posted up until then and she was the only one doing so. It made me think she was F1 possibly but then they are no longer together once ATFR taped so no need to post on her IG about Tim and HTD since the girls know this (or she was F2 and now all the girls knew that so again, no need to post Tim related stuff). After ATFR taping Trish posted a pic of herself with April, Sachelle, and Lisa. In the comments section, she said to another commenter that she had definitely found friendship.
5) Two girls self-evicted. Yes, Natalie came back but even she said so only to stir the pot and that she knew Tim was interested. Dom left since she knew he wasn't either and yet they had the passionate kiss. April was very hesitant to trust Tim. Trish has said she is falling and we have pre-view of her saying that her hearts says love but head not so much. Reading into it from a negative perspective (since I mostly do the positive from everything) one can see this as women's intuition not trusting the person and not just the process. Tim also let a lot of girls go, genuine is the positive way to read into this, the douche would be he didn't care at all and was tired of acting. If he chooses no one... well that would lend itself to the same idea though it seems unlikely this is the case (so far, that is). 

So, as ridiculous as all this is and how one can read into anything (and I am doing just that!)... either Tim was shot down (no one), he chose someone but they are now broken up, or he is still happy with the person he has chosen (one can do a similar genuine-Tim reading into everything and support that all is fine, it has been done so wanted to look at the other side since there statistics of this show are not good, BachCan or not. Bottom line is even BachCan has no marriages from their first season only a broken off engagement). 


P.S. If Tim is getting the gay comments already then based on what happened with BachAussie that is not a good thing. Lord help me if this season ends up like the Aussie one.    Tim being so genuine but still passionate kisser (even Dom who left passion or not) and kissed girl's back to back (April was into lying down with him). April saying that Tim says all the right stuff so perfectly. The comment by Trish on "definitely found friendship" with the girls doesn't bode well either. BachAussie deja vu, to say the least. And if there is a so-called Mesnick with BachCan I will refer to this franchise as BachCan't ... Ugh. 
Hoping for a happy ending. Even as ridiculous as that may be... I am still all about love over here... 

Hmm good point ! But no u never read any of those things negatively. I thought tim was a great bachelor haha why did april's bestfriend contact you?

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joshfan...

Ugh! I know. I try to just sleuth and focus on how things can be seen from the positive. When I do the opposite (look from the negative) it doesn't bode well. BachAussie was ALL about being genuine, genuine, genuine, and the bach there ended up fooling almost everyone and not being genuine at all. (Honestly, the guy gave an oscar-worthy performance with his F1 whom he dumped after proposing to). Just nuts. So, yes looking for the color red after someone tells you to focus on it (or you think about the color red) one will always find it. Same for positive and in this case, negative. 

As for April's bff. I was contacted because I had posted a lot about April when I first started watching and how she may not be playing hard to get but she is hard to get and how Tim will have to work for her. This was episode 5 so now that we see the upset April it seems even more so that she is not there to just play games. Anyway, her bff wanted to let me know who April really is as a person and that she is tired of guys who talk about themselves and has been betrayed so is super cautious and will not rush something just because people want her to do so. Some other stuff she said that was interesting but the gist of it was that April's edit was making her seem way more mysterious and reserved than she really was with Tim.

I don't know what bars Tim is at and hosting but I know that Bianka and Brad both advertised (since she was announced as the F1) on twitter about this one bar in Toronto (I assume) to join them.  

Bianka still does that every weekend and shows a picture maybe a poster that the bar does up for her.

In fact I can remember early on Brad was going to bars outside of TO to be a host at a bar.  He was even in Edmonton one weekend doing this. Shortly after the season was done airing, he was gone almost every weekend, maybe a way to keep the iron hot so to speak for the next Bachelor Canada.  I don't know if this is the same situation for Tim

Maybe they get paid for this, I'm not sure but since Brad and Bianka split he no longer does this.

Maybe this was in their contract but it is weird that both leads from Bachelor Canada are/were doing this.

I could be wrong but I think Tim is still in a relationship with his F1 and seems happy.    Now watch me be wrong.  

AAL great post! You expressed your thoughts very well and why we all have our puzzle pieces we are looking for. The difference is our puzzle pieces for what??? Each of us watch these shows (US-CAN-AUS) for our own reasons. We come here to this forum and other forums whether it is for a love story, entertainment, just to watch the train wreak, the drama, the women/men, just to sleuth or even to spoil. I think the majority of the viewers of this show are looking to watch a love story unfold and even some of here want a love story. So, speaking for myself even if the love story I am feeling, seeing etc. isn't the one that actually happens I still got what I wanted out of watching. (Hope that makes sense?) I have enjoyed this BACHCAN season and being here during it. I have learned a lot from the talent here in this forum, it amazes me. We each have something to offer here and I look forward to the rest of the season as we watch our own personal reason for watching continue, whether it is right or wrong, I have still enjoyed my experience of that story that I have seen thus far with Tim.

Brill wrote:I don't know what bars Tim is at and hosting but I know that Bianka and Brad both advertised (since she was announced as the F1) on twitter about this one bar in Toronto (I assume) to join them.  

Bianka still does that every weekend and shows a picture maybe a poster that the bar does up for her.

In fact I can remember early on Brad was going to bars outside of TO to be a host at a bar.  He was even in Edmonton one weekend doing this. Shortly after the season was done airing, he was gone almost every weekend, maybe a way to keep the iron hot so to speak for the next Bachelor Canada.  I don't know if this is the same situation for Tim

Maybe they get paid for this, I'm not sure but since Brad and Bianka split he no longer does this.

Maybe this was in their contract but it is weird that both leads from Bachelor Canada are/were doing this.

I could be wrong but I think Tim is still in a relationship with his F1 and seems happy.    Now watch me be wrong.  

ITA Brill