Bachelor 19 - Whitney Bischoff

Diana wrote:Chris is a huge Chicago Bears fan. I wonder who's from Chicago?

Iowa doesn't have a pro team. That is one of the reasons my DH wouldn't take a job offer in Iowa. He's a huge football fan and he ended up taking a job in Green Bay. 10 minutes from Lambeau Field. Can't beat that! Anyway, I'm sure there are a lot of Bears fans living in Iowa since Illinois is the neighboring state and I am sure Chris has been a Bears fan for more than 3 months.

I created two threads, one for Becca and one for Whitney

They are no discussion threads. Post or move posts over pointing to Becca as F1. I moved some over, but I didn't go through all the pages in the threads. Feel free to move more over in each thread.

Whitney Sleuthing F1

Mommyof1 wrote:

Diana wrote:Chris is a huge Chicago Bears fan. I wonder who's from Chicago?

Iowa doesn't have a pro team.  That is one of the reasons my DH wouldn't take a job offer in Iowa.  He's a huge football fan and he ended up taking a job in Green Bay.   10 minutes from Lambeau Field.  Can't beat that!  Anyway, I'm sure there are a lot of Bears fans living in Iowa since Illinois is the neighboring state and I am sure Chris has been a Bears fan for more than 3 months.  

Northeast Iowa would be fairly close to Chicago as well wouldn't it?

It's about 4.5 hours from arlington to Chicago. But yeah, Iowa's a pretty good mix of Bears/Packers/Vikings/Chiefs I'd say

OK - who can help me out with some "dilemma"?
I like Whitney and I like Becca. I see the potential with Chris with both of them. I also am "on the board" with those who imagine the different outcome than the spoilers say, for the sole purpose of having fun and not for the sake of a competition.
I see that Chris is smitten with Whitney. He likes her strong character and the way she can handle any situation. (Not to mention that she is beautiful) She is infatuated with him, thinks that he is a great match to her personality (and I don't know any better to think otherwise) and she is clearly showing him her intentions. All for the right reasons.
The question is: since she is being quite driven, in those moments of their time alone, it seems to me she leads him, she still appears feminine, graceful and cute, but he lets her being the head of the team and I wonder if he is completely comfortable with that role and whether she doesn't mind or will the roles eventually turn?
Thoughts for a discussion?

It's good to be pro both! That way you won't have to pick.   Both are great women. 
I think there are strong women in his family and he is very comfortable being in his role with them. I still believe he will choose Whitney.

I think he needs someone like Whitney.

Being that I don't know any of these people, I have no clue what any of them actually "need". 
I do have difficulty see a man in his mid 30's being with a virgin.

I like all the f3 plus Carly. Right now I see Whitney as a good match with Chris and feel she's his f1.

Don't get me wrong. So far I also have seen Whitney as the only possible match for Chris. (she's his perfect opposite - in a positive sense - different in "right places" and similar in important aspects) But I'm just as surprised how well he "coupled up" with Becca. There are obvious differences when he's with one or the other. I just like to "understand" the dynamic of this couple and what do you think.

I see him more with Whitney. I don't see him with Becca and I don't see Becca moving to Iowa.

I think he will like a woman who can handle herself socially, I think it suits his quieter demeanor.