Bachelor 19 - Whitney Bischoff #2

@MVMom39forever wrote:

@Buckeye_Fan wrote:

@Jeepers wrote:I sure wish there was a like button

I think being an Iowan is what Whitney truly wants and with the right guy anywhere in Iowa would be fine

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I've been wishing for like buttons a lot too!  Lots of good comments.


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@MVMom39forever wrote:

So are we keeping count here of all the sweet scenes we had to find out about either after the fact, in deleted scenes or fan photos:

- Week 4 garter toss between Chris and Whitney in courtyard was deleted scene

- Week 5 Chris' time with Whitney that resulted in her getting the group date rose was a deleted scene ...and, come on ... when have we ever NOT seen the interaction between the lead and the person who gets the GDR?

- Week 6 in Deadwood ... no deleted scene that I am aware of but we saw none of Whitney's time with Chris on date and I am sure it was a great bonding moment as they both love country music

-Week 7 in Iowa at mural ... didn't he toss Whitney a bouquet that we did not get to see?

And now the above ... Week 8 - Chris and Whitney celebrating HIS birthday together. Come on... does anyone doubt that this is no  coincidence that of all the final 4 Chris is spending his birthday with Whitney AND they didn't show them celebrate onscreen together?

Hmmm ... final 1 clues for sure ...  

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OK, no offense to any Becca fans that might reading, but many have the opinion that Chris' actions towards Becca are more attentive than to Whitney.  The thing is, we might only be seeing the most positive actions towards Becca, and similar actions towards Whitney are not being shown to us.  Now, I think Chris is plenty attentive to Whitney, but that's just me.  In any case, we can't go too much on what we see.  Who knows what we aren't seeing?[/size]

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Exactly!! How can we judge when they are not showing us?! Plus, I think that Whitney and Becca are very different women. 

Whitney came on show with a purpose: Chris! 

I don't know if we heard why Becca came on show ... maybe more for the experience as a Cali girl? Either way, as a southern-raised Christian lady with high morals, Becca does not APPEAR to me to be a very flirtatious woman who chases men. As a sorority sister, Becca also SEEMs to be a real girl's girl and supportive friend (based on how happy she seemed to be for Whitney when she relayed her mural date). 

As a late 1-on-1 date, Becca saw her friends form strong connections with Chris and as a result, might have been hesitant in coming between anyone. 

Finally, Chris has a show to put on. I think he settled early on Whitney but needed to bring someone else to F2 and stayed as open minded as he could. He clearly likes and respects Becca and admires her beauty. She was a far better candidate for him to explore a relationship with than Carly (friend zone) and Britt who imploded and disrespected him. But exploring a relationship with Becca meant he had to put more effort into it than Whitney who was more than happy to meet him more than 1/2 way.[/size]

Aunties_Love wrote:If he just wanted to drag someone to F2, why not Kaitlyn. Especially if it didn't matter who. We all saw on Becca's HTD, her mother saying don't break her daughter's heart. So, he purposely took her to break her heart.....somehow that doesn't make sense. It will be an interesting ending though....

lurker11 wrote:aunties: but that is such an odd way to look at it.... it's better he breaks whitney's heart than beccas? why is that automatically better?

Diana wrote:I could argue taking Whitney to the F2 would be just as cruel if not more than if Becca is F2. IMO.

Aunties_Love wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:If he just wanted to drag someone to F2, why not Kaitlyn. Especially if it didn't matter who. We all saw on Becca's HTD, her mother saying don't break her daughter's heart. So, he purposely took her to break her heart.....somehow that doesn't make sense. It will be an interesting ending though....

lurker11 wrote:aunties: but that is such an odd way to look at it.... it's better he breaks whitney's heart than beccas? why is that automatically better?

That's not exactly what I was saying when I responded to that post.  When I responded to MVMom's post about how she thought that Chris decided on Whit early on but because of the game, had to bring someone to the F2.  My post was in general, knowing the history of Becca, being a virgin and never being in love, and the fact that Becca's mom asked Chris not to break her heart...all that combined.  If he wasn't feeling for Becca and it wasn't a close race between Whit and Becca, why bring Becca knowing that his choice is Whit.  That is what I meant...Whit's heart was never on the line according to what MVMom was saying as he was going to choose her and therefore her heart wouldn't be broken.  At the final 3, Kaitlyn could of been a better option as he could probably see that she is a tougher person, had been through heart ache before so it wouldn't of been as traumatic for her as it would be for Becca.

I hope I am making myself clear without coming off as a hard a$$ cause that is far from my intentions.

Diana wrote:Sorry for the double post but did anyone else notice Chris say this to Whitney?

“This is the last time I’m going to see your family until that final day"

It makes me feel he knew he'd see them again. Am I the only one?

Eviebloom wrote:

Diana wrote:Sorry for the double post but did anyone else notice Chris say this to Whitney?

“This is the last time I’m going to see your family until that final day"

It makes me feel he knew he'd see them again. Am I the only one?

I  noticed that too and wondered what he meant by that??

Aunties_Love wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:If he just wanted to drag someone to F2, why not Kaitlyn. Especially if it didn't matter who. We all saw on Becca's HTD, her mother saying don't break her daughter's heart. So, he purposely took her to break her heart.....somehow that doesn't make sense. It will be an interesting ending though....

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I hope I am making myself clear without coming off as a hard a$$ cause that is far from my intentions.