Re: Juan Pablo & Nikki Ferrell - Fan Forum - Discussion - Couples Therapy Premier Sept 10 2014

by stuckinsc Thu Oct 09, 2014 6:46 pm

This is one place where I will say that I think that Nikki is completely wrong. If you fall in love with a single parent you do not ask them to move away from their child.

I understand that this started when they thought he would get DWTS and he was willing to move to LA for the filming of the show, stay at hotel or with friends, etc. Nikki liked that and probably expressed how she hates Miami and wants to move to LA only or such. Now he is stuck. I don't think he ever intended to move to LA longterm, but now that is what Nikki wants.

I can't blame him that he doesn't want to leave Camila and I am disappointed in Nikki that she would want him to. Other than that I do really like Nikki.

If JPG isn't the right man for her then I hope she finds the one who is.

by SerenityGirl Thu Oct 09, 2014 8:54 pm

Juan Pablo has already stated in a tweet that Nikki has never asked him to move away from Camila.

What I find odd is if leaving Miami is not an option for him and Nikki has never asked him to leave Miami, why even entertain that option? The only reason I can think of is he considered moving for an opportunity in LA. He's still holding out getting on DWTS.

by chinita Thu Oct 09, 2014 9:57 pm

IMO, I think that's a "make up" issue. I keep thinking Nikki is "acting" a bad side of her to let audience know how patient JPG is with her. Didn't she say the purpose is to clean his image?

by Isabel123 Thu Oct 09, 2014 11:02 pm

Dr Jen's take: Nikki is being pragmatic but sometimes she has to take the leap of faith coz nothing is guaranteed. Also love Dick perspective.

What Do The Couples Think About One Another?

http://www.vh1.com/shows/couples_therapy/what-do-the-couples-think-about-one-another/1088979/video/#id=1731637

by docnash14 Thu Oct 09, 2014 11:46 pm

chinita wrote:IMO, I think that's a "make up" issue. I keep thinking Nikki is "acting" a bad side of her to let audience know how patient JPG is with her. Didn't she say the purpose is to clean his image?

In my opinion, Nikki is not acting. She appears very genuine in her upset and frustration to me.

by chinita Fri Oct 10, 2014 12:18 am

OT: aren't Jenn and Dick a couple?

by SerenityGirl Fri Oct 10, 2014 8:20 am

No. Jenn and John are a couple. Dick and Stephanie are a couple.

by Nabsie Fri Oct 10, 2014 8:21 am

I watched the recap from this week and Dick said Nikki is done with the show and won't do any of the recaps or anything to do with the show. It was pretty boring because it was only Dick, Cicily and Treach. JPG was with Camila.

by soccerm3m Fri Oct 10, 2014 9:13 am

I did not get to watch the whole recap but I thought they were throwing JP and Nikki under the bus.

by Nabsie Fri Oct 10, 2014 10:10 am

They just talk about the episode. We know Nikki and JPG and Dick are very close now, especially Nikki and Dick. You can see Dick doesn't say too many bad things about Nikki but once the episodes get less dramatic I'm sure everyone will be a lot more positive about each other.

by SerenityGirl Fri Oct 10, 2014 11:25 am

I think because the show has focused so much on Juan and Nikki, that's what the recaps have also focused on. I agree Evel is close to Nikki and doesn't really say too much about her complaining all the time. He does sort of bash Juan in this recap. He said Juan's a cool guy to hang out with and have a beer with but would never want him to date his daughter. Both Treach and Cecily agreed. Evel also said some in the house thought Juan was either a player, a bull s*******, or was leading Nikki on. Cecily said it bothered her how he treated Nikki. Treach defended Juan not saying I love you to Nikki and also mentioned that Juan was very touchy feely with Nikki and she sometimes didn't like that. They just express their feelings differently which may be part of the problem with them. He also said that even if Juan said I love you to Nikki that they would still fight. Their issues are more than him saying I love you.

I think going on CT although might have been a good thing for their relationship overall was a mistake for Nikki on a personal/individual level. She should have thought more about how this would impact her job and her mental state. I think that’s why she wants nothing to do with the show. She wants to be taken seriously as a nurse and having peers, patients, superiors seeing her in that light must be embarrassing for her. Again she should
have thought through more how this would impact her and not only thought about how it would help Juan’s image and their relationship. I almost think she should own up to everything that she said and went through on the show and suck it up instead of running away from it but then again I'm not her and don't know what else is going on behind the scenes.

by stuckinsc Fri Oct 10, 2014 12:40 pm

SerenityGirl wrote:I think because the show has focused so much on Juan and Nikki, that's what the recaps have also focused on. I agree Evel is close to Nikki and doesn't really say too much about her complaining all the time. He does sort of bash Juan in this recap. He said Juan's a cool guy to hang out with and have a beer with but would never want him to date his daughter. Both Treach and Cecily agreed. Evel also said some in the house thought Juan was either a player, a bull s*******, or was leading Nikki on. Cecily said it bothered her how he treated Nikki. Treach defended Juan not saying I love you to Nikki and also mentioned that Juan was very touchy feely with Nikki and she sometimes didn't like that. They just express their feelings differently which may be part of the problem with them. He also said that even if Juan said I love you to Nikki that they would still fight. Their issues are more than him saying I love you.

I think going on CT although might have been a good thing for their relationship overall was a mistake for Nikki on a personal/individual level. She should have thought more about how this would impact her job and her mental state. I think that’s why she wants nothing to do with the show. She wants to be taken seriously as a nurse and having peers, patients, superiors seeing her in that light must be embarrassing for her. Again she should
have thought through more how this would impact her and not only thought about how it would help Juan’s image and their relationship. I almost think she should own up to everything that she said and went through on the show and suck it up instead of running away from it but then again I'm not her and don't know what else is going on behind the scenes.

I agree. I am a Nikki fan, but the hide your head in the sand and criticizing other people for being interested in her when she is the one putting herself out there is a good quality in my opinion.

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