Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - Facebook - Twitter - IG's - Updates - Discussion Thread #4

[luvlady345]

I don't know but I am sure Josh was at a sports bar, because he was tweeting about the game nonstop....

[Relalou]

Just have to put my two cents in regarding Josh out last night.  It's clear that he was out with his friends and why not?  As it's been said, Andi goes out with Kelly.  There is not a doubt in my mind that Josh is 100% dedicated to Andi and she does not have a single thing to worry about with Josh.

The problem is that when Josh goes out, of course, girls want a pic with him.  But when Andi goes out there isn't any pics with guys because most guys just don't do that stuff.

Being able to hang out with your friends is very good for a relationship I think.  As long as it isn't all the time and as long as you trust each other.

That is the number one reason why my husband and I have lasted 38 years.  When we were younger he went on golf weekends with his guy friends and I would go on girls weekends.  He never said anything except, have a good time, sweetheart and do you need some cash.

My husband was a very good looking guy and if I spent all my time worrying about him when he wasn't with me I'd have put myself in an early grave.  My husband never gave me a second of worry.  As a matter of fact, he still calls me from work on his lunch hour every day.  Not to check up on me but just to see how my day is going.

I would not have lasted a month with a guy that smothered me.   So I think it's very healthy for a relationship that they have some outside interests and time with friends.

I think this weekend with Andi away shows Josh how much he misses her as when Josh was away on his business trip and Andi missed him so much.

Sorry to go into my marriage but was just trying to make a point.

Laura

My thought on this is that because of the venue that Josh goes to hangout with....BARS.  I just don't understand why of all places, he goes there without Andi.   Bars are the place where singles goes to mingle, more especially with young adults and college students to have a drink, good time or get lucky that night.  So, of course Josh will be flocked by girls.  Pardon me but, when I was single, I haven't been to a bar alone or with my friends.  We hangout in a public place but not in a bar.......maybe, because I grow up in another country. Since my husband and I have been married, never once went to a bar per se, except in the restaurant's bar waiting for our table to eat.

I have no problem with Josh going out when Andi is away.....but, I wish Josh will be more discreet with the places that he goes to and the time of the night.  I think he was in the bar past midnight.  Now, I'm not saying that Josh ought to have a curfew.....it just that time & place where he was at last night is not desirable for an engaged person.

With Andi, in my observation via pics & SM.....she's very discreet and handle herself very well so as not to arouse talks that is not favorable with her actions going out minus Josh.

Once again, IA with Laura: Each couple needs to work out what is healthy for them and each of us is probably making a judgment based upon our own comfort level in a relationship. Josh stressed during the show (on more than one occasion) how absolute trust is important to him in a relationship. Andi apparently showed him absolute honesty during the show process. A commitment to a faithful relationship is the key, not the activities each participates in alone IMO. If spending all one's time together is the only possible protection for a faithful relationship, then it is already doomed to fail: Work, schedules, friendships, etc. can all pull one or other out of direct orbit and into situations with members of the opposite sex.
Josh's life has changed significantly since meeting Andi, but not to the point that he doesn't feel he can watch a football game in a bar with his friends and without Andi. Good for him.
My husband and I are both pretty independent in many ways and even after 30 years, we have activities and friend groups that are unique to one or other of us. We still spend the majority of our time together, are committed to one another and trust one another. Neither of us ever required that our partner should cease doing things or going places that didn't involve us. Neither of us have ever given the other reason to worry or to become jealous. Our commitment is to each other and, from what we have seen, so is that of Josh and Andi. Well… that's my opinion.

[Guest]

Just have to put my two cents in regarding Josh out last night.  It's clear that he was out with his friends and why not?  As it's been said, Andi goes out with Kelly.  There is not a doubt in my mind that Josh is 100% dedicated to Andi and she does not have a single thing to worry about with Josh.

The problem is that when Josh goes out, of course, girls want a pic with him.  But when Andi goes out there isn't any pics with guys because most guys just don't do that stuff.

Being able to hang out with your friends is very good for a relationship I think.  As long as it isn't all the time and as long as you trust each other.

That is the number one reason why my husband and I have lasted 38 years.  When we were younger he went on golf weekends with his guy friends and I would go on girls weekends.  He never said anything except, have a good time, sweetheart and do you need some cash.

My husband was a very good looking guy and if I spent all my time worrying about him when he wasn't with me I'd have put myself in an early grave.  My husband never gave me a second of worry.  As a matter of fact, he still calls me from work on his lunch hour every day.  Not to check up on me but just to see how my day is going.

I would not have lasted a month with a guy that smothered me.   So I think it's very healthy for a relationship that they have some outside interests and time with friends.

I think this weekend with Andi away shows Josh how much he misses her as when Josh was away on his business trip and Andi missed him so much.

Sorry to go into my marriage but was just trying to make a point.

Laura

Thanks Laura, It's not about getting into your marriage what you are doing is showing people who may not have 35 years how it can work. I have 55 years under my belt
and I believe people need to know that being married does not make you a prisoner in each others jail. We hope to be surrounded by friends. Hers, his and theirs and trust and confidence in your relationship allows freedom of friendship and spending time separately sometimes. I think Andi and Josh in this young relationship have that figured it out already and have that trust confidence. It will bode really well for them in the future.

I totally agree with both of you! My husband and I are going on 22 years, and I still appreciate my girl's nights out and he his guys' golf weekends. It's healthy for a marriage to have that time with our friends separate of each other, but we also love to spend time with our mutual friends as couples, which it looks like Andi & Josh do with Kelly and her boyfriend. They are doing just fine. I have a lot of faith that they're going to go the distance with their relationship.

On another note, how do all of you find these fan tweets of Josh and Andi out and about when the tweeter doesn't use the hashtag #jmurbulldog or #andidorfman?  

[rinacabigas]

Just have to put my two cents in regarding Josh out last night.  It's clear that he was out with his friends and why not?  As it's been said, Andi goes out with Kelly.  There is not a doubt in my mind that Josh is 100% dedicated to Andi and she does not have a single thing to worry about with Josh.

The problem is that when Josh goes out, of course, girls want a pic with him.  But when Andi goes out there isn't any pics with guys because most guys just don't do that stuff.

Being able to hang out with your friends is very good for a relationship I think.  As long as it isn't all the time and as long as you trust each other.

That is the number one reason why my husband and I have lasted 38 years.  When we were younger he went on golf weekends with his guy friends and I would go on girls weekends.  He never said anything except, have a good time, sweetheart and do you need some cash.

My husband was a very good looking guy and if I spent all my time worrying about him when he wasn't with me I'd have put myself in an early grave.  My husband never gave me a second of worry.  As a matter of fact, he still calls me from work on his lunch hour every day.  Not to check up on me but just to see how my day is going.

I would not have lasted a month with a guy that smothered me.   So I think it's very healthy for a relationship that they have some outside interests and time with friends.

I think this weekend with Andi away shows Josh how much he misses her as when Josh was away on his business trip and Andi missed him so much.

Sorry to go into my marriage but was just trying to make a point.

Laura

Thanks Laura, It's not about getting into your marriage what you are doing is showing people who may not have 35 years how it can work. I have 55 years under my belt
and I believe people need to know that being married does not make you a prisoner in each others jail. We hope to be surrounded by friends. Hers, his and theirs and trust and confidence in your relationship allows freedom of friendship and spending time separately sometimes. I think Andi and Josh in this young relationship have that figured it out already and have that trust confidence. It will bode really well for them in the future.

I totally agree with both of you! My husband and I are going on 22 years, and I still appreciate my girl's nights out and he his guys' golf weekends. It's healthy for a marriage to have that time with our friends separate of each other, but we also love to spend time with our mutual friends as couples, which it looks like Andi & Josh do with Kelly and her boyfriend. They are doing just fine. I have a lot of faith that they're going to go the distance with their relationship.

On another note, how do all of you find these fan tweets of Josh and Andi out and about when the tweeter doesn't use the hashtag #jmurbulldog or #andidorfman?  

You go to your notifications & search Josh Murray, Andi Dorfman, Josh Murray and Andi Dorfman and Jmurbulldog.

[bamagal]

LOL, why not it's harmless to wonder about their finances?  Andi and Josh don't know us from a hill of beans we are just their fans, fans wonder...Let's not put people in a corner as to what they can discuss.....  

With all due respect to the members of this forum, from my perspective, and previous posts, it would appear that a member of this forum has an "inside track" on the couple, and probably passes our comments on to our favorite couple.  For example, several times we have "wished" for a pic, or tweet and it appears within minutes.  I would hate for comments about their finances to get back to them.  Sorry, but I believe that there are limits to what we, as fans, should speculate about!

It's not against the rules to speculate about a contestant's finances such as the one stated in a previous post. It's natural to wonder and we don't run this board based on what someone from the show may hear of or read. It is against the rules to tell other members what to do or post.

My apologies if I offended anyone, or broke the rules of the forum!  I was not trying to tell anyone what to post, or not to post!  I just expressed my own opinion!
Won't happen again!

[Georgia Lindsay]

I don't know but I am sure Josh was at a sports bar, because he was tweeting about the game nonstop....

Kramers is a huge sports bar, but more importantly, a huge place for GA Bulldogs fans to congregate, it's the place to be on gameday. I'm sure he was with his guy friends, he has alot of friends. BTW,  in the past, my husband has gone there with his guy friends to watch the Georgia game, when I was busy doing something else ~ oh the horror, but he's not famous, so no girls ask for a picture with him.    Alot of guys go there, of course so do the girls. What's the big deal?? Why should he sit home alone, and not go out with his friends??

Also, this was a huge game for the dawgs in the SEC, too bad they almost won it. I think everyone needed a drink after the nerve wracking game. :Nod: I'm sure Andi has no problem whatsoever with this. She knows Josh loves people, football and fun, and that describes Kramers to a tee.

Before the show finale ended, Josh was at the Ivy,  with Jay King, we all saw the pictures. Another popular place and his friends go there all the time. It obviously didn't bother Andi, and that's when she was out of town on pr or something, can't remember.

[Georgia Lindsay]

Wow, reading back, is this still a Josh and Andi FAN FORUM???? I thought I got lost for a minute. smh at some comments in this threads with no factual knowledge of anything.

[rinacabigas]

It's natural to have a varied opinions..... why would we be in an environment that we are in unison of what we think of all the subjects?  One thing is apparent.....we have a common interest...love for Josh and Andi.  However, just because I love them....I have to be a Yes Man for all the things that they do.  I can express what I think, right?  I'm not asking them to heed my opinion....rather, I'm voicing my interpretations of their actions.

We're all fans of Andi & Josh.....that's why we're here spending time in this forum, in which we'll never regain it back.

I'm not offended if what's in your mind is different than mine....but, I noticed some think that I'm breaking the code of this forum or something if I share my thoughts that are not the same with theirs.

[albean99]

With all due respect to the members of this forum, from my perspective, and previous posts, it would appear that a member of this forum has an "inside track" on the couple, and probably passes our comments on to our favorite couple.  For example, several times we have "wished" for a pic, or tweet and it appears within minutes.  I would hate for comments about their finances to get back to them.  Sorry, but I believe that there are limits to what we, as fans, should speculate about!

It's not against the rules to speculate about a contestant's finances such as the one stated in a previous post. It's natural to wonder and we don't run this board based on what someone from the show may hear of or read. It is against the rules to tell other members what to do or post.

My apologies if I offended anyone, or broke the rules of the forum!  I was not trying to tell anyone what to post, or not to post!  I just expressed my own opinion!
Won't happen again!

It's okay to have an opinion, bamagal.  It was just a warning because it came across as telling people what not to post even if that wasn't your intention. All we can control as members is what we post ourselves. An example could be to post "I don't feel comfortable speculating about their finances because I'm afraid it will get back to Andi & Josh" and leave it at that.

[nannymargie]

There is a pic of Andi and the bride to be and another friend who is expecting on IG from last nite. Not sure if it was posted or not. Don't know how to bring it over.

[GuardianAngel]

There is a pic of Andi and the bride to be and another friend who is expecting on IG from last nite.  Not sure if it was posted or not.  Don't know how to bring it over.

andi_dorfman Bachelorette shenanigans with the bride to be and the preggo DD... @sjhayward @kkmularkey 13h
Read more at http://websta.me/p/809089873516288165_680984981#cgJbHrR1LHgfUIGT.99

[nannymargie]

Thank you GA.

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