Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - Facebook - Twitter - IG's - Updates - Discussion Thread #4

by nannymargie Sun Sep 14, 2014 10:30 am

I agree Bamagal and also let's not forget Josh is a financial advisor. So I am sure they know what they are doing. Also did get paid for doing the show.

by luvlady345 Sun Sep 14, 2014 10:38 am

LOL, why not it's harmless to wonder about their finances? Andi and Josh don't know us from a hill of beans we are just their fans, fans wonder...Let's not put people in a corner as to what they can discuss.....

by bamagal Sun Sep 14, 2014 10:51 am

luvlady345 wrote:LOL, why not it's harmless to wonder about their finances? Andi and Josh don't know us from a hill of beans we are just their fans, fans wonder...Let's not put people in a corner as to what they can discuss.....

With all due respect to the members of this forum, from my perspective, and previous posts, it would appear that a member of this forum has an "inside track" on the couple, and probably passes our comments on to our favorite couple. For example, several times we have "wished" for a pic, or tweet and it appears within minutes. I would hate for comments about their finances to get back to them. Sorry, but I believe that there are limits to what we, as fans, should speculate about!

by luvlady345 Sun Sep 14, 2014 11:18 am

bamagal wrote:
luvlady345 wrote:LOL, why not it's harmless to wonder about their finances? Andi and Josh don't know us from a hill of beans we are just their fans, fans wonder...Let's not put people in a corner as to what they can discuss.....

With all due respect to the members of this forum, from my perspective, and previous posts, it would appear that a member of this forum has an "inside track" on the couple, and probably passes our comments on to our favorite couple. For example, several times we have "wished" for a pic, or tweet and it appears within minutes. I would hate for comments about their finances to get back to them. Sorry, but I believe that there are limits to what we, as fans, should speculate about!

Yeah, with all due respect I like Andi/Josh I guess I am just a person who don't put much stock into that Andi/Josh may or may not have spy's on this forum it's just speculation and people can and will speculate about them..... But seriously what does it matter, it wasn't meant to be mean or demean them in anyway..... I don't know I just don't get the sensitivity.....

by Laura Walsh Sun Sep 14, 2014 11:45 am

bamagal:

I totally agree that some things should be off limits and finances is right up there with limits. IMHO

by bamagal Sun Sep 14, 2014 11:46 am

Laura Walsh wrote:bamagal:

I totally agree that some things should be off limits and finances is right up there with limits. IMHO

by luvlady345 Sun Sep 14, 2014 11:56 am

LOL, I am going to say this an agree to disagree, it's not like we can see into their bank accounts, nor do I hope people would want to.. It's the same way fans wonder where Josh is or what they are doing and speculate about every personal thing they are or not doing, it's all personal.... I dunno, I guess people are just different....

by Laura Walsh Sun Sep 14, 2014 12:10 pm

Just have to put my two cents in regarding Josh out last night. It's clear that he was out with his friends and why not? As it's been said, Andi goes out with Kelly. There is not a doubt in my mind that Josh is 100% dedicated to Andi and she does not have a single thing to worry about with Josh.

The problem is that when Josh goes out, of course, girls want a pic with him. But when Andi goes out there isn't any pics with guys because most guys just don't do that stuff.

Being able to hang out with your friends is very good for a relationship I think. As long as it isn't all the time and as long as you trust each other.

That is the number one reason why my husband and I have lasted 38 years. When we were younger he went on golf weekends with his guy friends and I would go on girls weekends. He never said anything except, have a good time, sweetheart and do you need some cash.

My husband was a very good looking guy and if I spent all my time worrying about him when he wasn't with me I'd have put myself in an early grave. My husband never gave me a second of worry. As a matter of fact, he still calls me from work on his lunch hour every day. Not to check up on me but just to see how my day is going.

I would not have lasted a month with a guy that smothered me. So I think it's very healthy for a relationship that they have some outside interests and time with friends.

I think this weekend with Andi away shows Josh how much he misses her as when Josh was away on his business trip and Andi missed him so much.

Sorry to go into my marriage but was just trying to make a point.

Laura

by Trueloveforever Sun Sep 14, 2014 12:30 pm

The way I see it is good for them that they're hanging with their friends. A relationship needs some space and time away from each other. They need to see and hang with their friends too. Of course girls are gonna ask for pics with Josh, but at the end of the day, he's engaged to Andi and that's who he's coming home to.

A healthy relationship is based on trust and communication, and they both have that as we already know, so there's nothing to worry about. I'd honestly be worried if they didn't go out and about and hang with their friends.

Plus, distance makes the heart grow fonder!! Their reunion is gonna be so much sweeter when they see each other again.

by smartcat Sun Sep 14, 2014 12:41 pm

Laura Walsh wrote:Just have to put my two cents in regarding Josh out last night. It's clear that he was out with his friends and why not? As it's been said, Andi goes out with Kelly. There is not a doubt in my mind that Josh is 100% dedicated to Andi and she does not have a single thing to worry about with Josh.

The problem is that when Josh goes out, of course, girls want a pic with him. But when Andi goes out there isn't any pics with guys because most guys just don't do that stuff.

Being able to hang out with your friends is very good for a relationship I think. As long as it isn't all the time and as long as you trust each other.

That is the number one reason why my husband and I have lasted 38 years. When we were younger he went on golf weekends with his guy friends and I would go on girls weekends. He never said anything except, have a good time, sweetheart and do you need some cash.

My husband was a very good looking guy and if I spent all my time worrying about him when he wasn't with me I'd have put myself in an early grave. My husband never gave me a second of worry. As a matter of fact, he still calls me from work on his lunch hour every day. Not to check up on me but just to see how my day is going.

I would not have lasted a month with a guy that smothered me. So I think it's very healthy for a relationship that they have some outside interests and time with friends.

I think this weekend with Andi away shows Josh how much he misses her as when Josh was away on his business trip and Andi missed him so much.

Sorry to go into my marriage but was just trying to make a point.

Laura

Thanks Laura, It's not about getting into your marriage what you are doing is showing people who may not have 35 years how it can work. I have 55 years under my belt
and I believe people need to know that being married does not make you a prisoner in each others jail. We hope to be surrounded by friends. Hers, his and theirs and trust and confidence in your relationship allows freedom of friendship and spending time separately sometimes. I think Andi and Josh in this young relationship have that figured it out already and have that trust confidence. It will bode really well for them in the future.

by rinacabigas Sun Sep 14, 2014 1:38 pm

Laura Walsh wrote:Just have to put my two cents in regarding Josh out last night. It's clear that he was out with his friends and why not? As it's been said, Andi goes out with Kelly. There is not a doubt in my mind that Josh is 100% dedicated to Andi and she does not have a single thing to worry about with Josh.

The problem is that when Josh goes out, of course, girls want a pic with him. But when Andi goes out there isn't any pics with guys because most guys just don't do that stuff.

Being able to hang out with your friends is very good for a relationship I think. As long as it isn't all the time and as long as you trust each other.

That is the number one reason why my husband and I have lasted 38 years. When we were younger he went on golf weekends with his guy friends and I would go on girls weekends. He never said anything except, have a good time, sweetheart and do you need some cash.

My husband was a very good looking guy and if I spent all my time worrying about him when he wasn't with me I'd have put myself in an early grave. My husband never gave me a second of worry. As a matter of fact, he still calls me from work on his lunch hour every day. Not to check up on me but just to see how my day is going.

I would not have lasted a month with a guy that smothered me. So I think it's very healthy for a relationship that they have some outside interests and time with friends.

I think this weekend with Andi away shows Josh how much he misses her as when Josh was away on his business trip and Andi missed him so much.

Sorry to go into my marriage but was just trying to make a point.

Laura

My thought on this is that because of the venue that Josh goes to hangout with....BARS. I just don't understand why of all places, he goes there without Andi. Bars are the place where singles goes to mingle, more especially with young adults and college students to have a drink, good time or get lucky that night. So, of course Josh will be flocked by girls. Pardon me but, when I was single, I haven't been to a bar alone or with my friends. We hangout in a public place but not in a bar.......maybe, because I grow up in another country. Since my husband and I have been married, never once went to a bar per se, except in the restaurant's bar waiting for our table to eat.

I have no problem with Josh going out when Andi is away.....but, I wish Josh will be more discreet with the places that he goes to and the time of the night. I think he was in the bar past midnight. Now, I'm not saying that Josh ought to have a curfew.....it just that time & place where he was at last night is not desirable for an engaged person.

With Andi, in my observation via pics & SM.....she's very discreet and handle herself very well so as not to arouse talks that is not favorable with her actions going out minus Josh.

Regarding their finances, I don't have any qualms whatsoever. I'm just concerned with their actions post show and their relationship. It's because I want Josh and Andi to live happily ever after.

by albean99 Sun Sep 14, 2014 1:43 pm

bamagal wrote:
luvlady345 wrote:LOL, why not it's harmless to wonder about their finances? Andi and Josh don't know us from a hill of beans we are just their fans, fans wonder...Let's not put people in a corner as to what they can discuss.....

With all due respect to the members of this forum, from my perspective, and previous posts, it would appear that a member of this forum has an "inside track" on the couple, and probably passes our comments on to our favorite couple. For example, several times we have "wished" for a pic, or tweet and it appears within minutes. I would hate for comments about their finances to get back to them. Sorry, but I believe that there are limits to what we, as fans, should speculate about!

It's not against the rules to speculate about a contestant's finances such as the one stated in a previous post. It's natural to wonder and we don't run this board based on what someone from the show may hear of or read. It is against the rules to tell other members what to do or post.

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