Bachelor In Paradise - **Finale** - Episode 7 - September 8 2014 - General Discussion - *Spoilers*

sophienette wrote:

happygirl77us wrote:I wonder why they made sure to point out Graham closed his twitter account

he didnt, it was a joke I think

CH said that BIP introduced an element of humor (eg inside jokes) that poked fun at the show itself and a few people on it - the racoon was one example. The caption about Graham deleting his Instagram account was related to AshLee's statement that she was attracted to Graham because of what she saw on his Instagram account and the "joke" was that Graham deleted it so he wouldn't get more similar "attractions". Of course he didn't delete it at all - it was just another example of the show poking fun.

sophienette wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:

happygirl77us wrote:
A very long 4 months till The Bachelor

Well, there is Bachelor Canada in the middle leaving only a month to fill in.  Bach can supposedly will go from Sept 18 till end of November....11 episodes I thought.  Hopefully we will find out soon how many epis for sure.

I am liking how Lacey doesn't hold back with her thoughts...LOL.

and sleuthing new season... when are they starting filming?

RS thinks it will begin next week after the start of DWTS. He thinks Chris will be in the audience and they will start taping a couple of days after.

^^ I am hearing next Thursday.

Chloep, What does Marcus and Lacy think of these claims? What's going on with that mess?

Well, looking at their private FB, I'd say, they don't care for mindless BS the least bit...



I don't feel comfortable sharing stuff from their privates sites(they are private for a reason, I guess) but trust me, they are very happy and immensely excited about what lies ahead of them.

Good to know chloep! We are loving all the pics.

A good reminder to all, to never post pics from a private Facebook Twitter IG etc.

I just do not like this girl. She can't even take a compliment without turning it into a poor me situation.

Nick Viall‏@viallnicholas28·Sep 8
Sarah...you're awesome!!! #BachelorInParadise #BIP

Sarah Herron‏@sarahherron·3 mins
@viallnicholas28 are you being sarcastic? I feel like you're being sarcastic.

Time to move on and get some work done.

Nick Viall‏@viallnicholas28·3 mins
@sarahherron on which part? You being awesome? Not even a little

Nick PapaGiorgio‏@rodmonium91·42 secs
@viallnicholas28 @sarahherron Sarah after watching Monday's episode, I think most guys think your awesome! How could they not?!?

GuardianAngel wrote:Time to move on and get some work done.

Nick Viall‏@viallnicholas28·3 mins
@sarahherron on which part? You being awesome? Not even a little

Nick PapaGiorgio‏@rodmonium91·42 secs
@viallnicholas28 @sarahherron Sarah after watching Monday's episode, I think most guys think your awesome! How could they not?!?

Wow, Sarah, try taking a compliment. I think the men of this franchise should just run when you can't even tell her she is awesome without her getting upset.

stuckinsc wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:Time to move on and get some work done.

Nick Viall‏@viallnicholas28·3 mins
@sarahherron on which part? You being awesome? Not even a little

Nick PapaGiorgio‏@rodmonium91·42 secs
@viallnicholas28 @sarahherron Sarah after watching Monday's episode, I think most guys think your awesome! How could they not?!?

Wow, Sarah, try taking a compliment.  I think the men of this franchise should just run when you can't even tell her she is awesome without her getting upset.  

I want to use the too! Ok, so, you know how I'm prone to staring at every inch of Marcus, right? Well, call me blind, cuz I saw no sign of any hickey on Strudel's neck like little Miss Sarah claims. Maybe it was just one more of her over-exaggerations/fibs/lies, kind of like when she said that Lacy was swimming in the ocean naked with Robert or Robert going to sleep for the night in his jeans?

My take on the FS night with S and R...

I can see Sarah being disappointed in Robert's lack of interest in sitting up all night talking to get to know one another better. But, maybe in Robert's head, that's what he and she had been doing for the last weeks, day in and day out. With nothing else to do in Paradise maybe he ran out of this to say? Maybe he didn't see the difference between on camera and off camera conversations because he isn't that complicated or mysterious of a person. He strikes me as nice but maybe a bit of a bore. In that case, why would Sarah want to "keep" him anyway? If the guy ran out of things to talk about or questions to ask then maybe he isn't the right guy for her, and better to find out before she slept with him.

I can see Sarah being disappointed in Robert's lack of physical friskiness, as that is a clue that he's really not that into her. But wasn't it just days earlier that Sarah was ogling over Brooks and wishing she could go on a date with him? Perhaps Robert picked up on that and thought better of making a mess out of their nice friendship by trying to turn it into a hot romance it was never meant to be. I understand disappointment in not finding a great match, not feeling desirable as a woman, etc. But, why did she have to turn on this guy, who had been nothing to nice to her the whole time, and say that she doesn't know if he has a p**** or not? Why the low road? That's what bugs me the most about her. She is very quick to feel sorry for herself and just as quick to throw somebody else under the bus.

I see people praising Robert for being himself and taking things slow. I see people praising Sarah for speaking her piece to Robert and not settling for a guy who appears not to be that much into her. Kudos on both parts. However, my opinion of Sarah continues to leave an aftertaste as her bitterness does tend to show through. I give her the benefit of the doubt because she is young and seems well liked by her peers, but in the end I assess her based on what I see from her and her alone. I remain on the fence with her, because she takes 2 steps forward and 1 step back all the time, IMO.

GuardianAngel wrote:I just do not like this girl. She can't even take a compliment without turning it into a poor me situation.

Nick Viall‏@viallnicholas28·Sep 8
Sarah...you're awesome!!! #BachelorInParadise #BIP

Sarah Herron‏@sarahherron·3 mins
@viallnicholas28 are you being sarcastic? I feel like you're being sarcastic.

Or, she's :fishing: for more. :WAVEY:

Bet2Win wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:I just do not like this girl. She can't even take a compliment without turning it into a poor me situation.

Nick Viall‏@viallnicholas28·Sep 8
Sarah...you're awesome!!! #BachelorInParadise #BIP

Sarah Herron‏@sarahherron·3 mins
@viallnicholas28 are you being sarcastic? I feel like you're being sarcastic.

Or, she's :fishing: for more.  :WAVEY:

Whether it's that she cannot take a compliment or she's fishing for more, both to me are a sign that she is lacking in self-confidence.  I hope she can grow and mature into a confident woman who finds the right guy for her.