Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - General Discussion Thread #2

[aviej]

Hi everyone, just signed up to this forum,  but been lurking here post Jodi proposal. SO DEVASTATED Josh & Andi broke it off, and shocked how sudden it was. I cannot imagine either of them with anyone else and reallyhope they get back together!
I believe they both love/loved each other deeply. Watching their love unfold on tv, Iwas mesmerized. Josh is Andi's type, but he's the most opposite to MY type - you know Nick would fit that description better (or rather someone more LIKE him, not Nick himself he was always douchy to me) yet here I am nerdy girl rooting for the tough sportsguy. Of course Joshissomuch more than that. But when something you don't particurarly like normally catches your eye - especially to this extent you know that one thing catching your eye can't be totally based on your bias. Somerging rare developed between these two, so much that my belief in TRUE love's existance mightbe seriosly compromised if these two don't get back together!
(Oh sorry if.my introductory post developed into an essay. Also sorry for the bad spelling- typing on a phone.)
July

Completely agree with you. Initially I never thought that i would like a sporty guy either since they're not my type either but after seeing Josh, I want someone who is exactly like him and would treat me the same way that Josh treated Andi. I agree with you when you say that they love /loved each other deeply and i do hope that they get back together, if they can't be together, true love doesn't exist. I have never seen chemistry and love like what Josh and Andi have so hopefully we'll all pray that during this time they will realize how much they love and miss each other and decide to try again. I saw this on Twitter and hope that they can remember it too,  in Ghent thry danced to Love is war - LOVE IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR.  

The only way their relationship could work is if Andi goes back to being Andi 1.0 not her current 2.0 fame seeking self who is not ready to settle and having a family.

[mamahamme]

One more thing to remember. How would josh's family feel about Andi and josh seeing each other again?

[AnandaMarie]

I don't know how their families would feel but if being together is what makes them happy then that's what they should do. And yes aviej, I hope they realize the mistakes they made and try to correct them. I don't think they should ever give up on love this special so easily.

[aviej]

Even MM admitted, OMG she's his match! So there had to have been something there....

[AnandaMarie]

Even MM admitted, OMG she's his match! So there had to have been something there....

Yes I believe they were in love but broke up due to other circumstances. I do hope that they realize how much they love each other and realize the mistakes they made and try to fix them. Love like that is special and i hope they fight for it.

[AnandaMarie]

Just saw that Andi updated her blog with the Friday five today.

[dw_a_mom]

Hi everyone, just signed up to this forum,  but been lurking here post Jodi proposal. SO DEVASTATED Josh & Andi broke it off, and shocked how sudden it was. I cannot imagine either of them with anyone else and reallyhope they get back together!
I believe they both love/loved each other deeply. Watching their love unfold on tv, Iwas mesmerized. Josh is Andi's type, but he's the most opposite to MY type - you know Nick would fit that description better (or rather someone more LIKE him, not Nick himself he was always douchy to me) yet here I am nerdy girl rooting for the tough sportsguy. Of course Joshissomuch more than that. But when something you don't particurarly like normally catches your eye - especially to this extent you know that one thing catching your eye can't be totally based on your bias. Somerging rare developed between these two, so much that my belief in TRUE love's existance mightbe seriosly compromised if these two don't get back together!
(Oh sorry if.my introductory post developed into an essay. Also sorry for the bad spelling- typing on a phone.)
July

Completely agree with you. Initially I never thought that i would like a sporty guy either since they're not my type either but after seeing Josh, I want someone who is exactly like him and would treat me the same way that Josh treated Andi. I agree with you when you say that they love /loved each other deeply and i do hope that they get back together, if they can't be together, true love doesn't exist. I have never seen chemistry and love like what Josh and Andi have so hopefully we'll all pray that during this time they will realize how much they love and miss each other and decide to try again. I saw this on Twitter and hope that they can remember it too,  in Ghent thry danced to Love is war - LOVE IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR.  

Unfortunately, making a relationship last in the real world involves a lot of nuts, bolts and practical things that can very quickly supersede chemistry. Chemistry will only carry you through 6 months to a year; after that, you need to have built a strong foundation based on other, far less sexy, things. No one can predict who will be able to do that and who won't; I'm sure they had the best intentions, but what isn't meant to be, isn't meant to be. We only get a tiny fraction of the story; hard for us to know anything, really.

[AnandaMarie]

I thought that they had not only the chemistry, but the love as well. And I know that they made mistakes, maybe they neglected their relationship and focused too much on other things but I think that it's not to late for them to try again. Don't give up because the love they had is once in a lifetime and very special to find.

[provenceguy]

I think this relationship is dead as a doornail.

[aviej]

Ananda I feel for you, but the more I rewatch the videos and hear what Josh's friend have to say, I don't think it's likely. AS Josh said on the show, if he doesn't feel anything there's no reason to stick around. While I think he felt and still feels love for her, the image that she presented of herself is not what Josh got. What Josh got was a young woman searching for herself seeking stardom. It was not the confident attorney who is ready to settle down and live a normal life and be married, it's just not...

[mamahamme]

WOW I thought I needed to punish myself. I went back and watched a couple music video's that Sophienette put together. I had to walk away. Whew
I saw that thing on wetpaint about the man kneeling and Josh says he doesn't know what he will do now since he always thought he would be Mr. Murrdorf (something along those lines)I think there is still hope. I believe things said on the show aren't always what people totally mean. Oh well who am I o say. I'm going to hold on for the good for a little while. I feel it's worth a shot.

[sissyintexas]

I don't think she turned out to be the girl Josh thought he knew.

Also, any person (man or woman) would have a hard time getting past the fact that your partner had sex with someone else within a few days of getting engaged to you. That would be in your mind every time you had some kind of issue to resolve.

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