Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Fan Forum - General Discussion Thread #2

[GuardianAngel]

WOW I thought I needed to punish myself. I went back and watched a couple music video's that Sophienette put together. I had to walk away. Whew
I saw that thing on wetpaint about the man kneeling and Josh says he doesn't know what he will do now since he always thought he would be Mr. Murrdorf (something along those lines)I think there is still hope. I believe things said on the show aren't always what people totally mean. Oh well who am I o say. I'm going to hold on for the good for a little while. I feel it's worth a shot.

This is what he said. Nothing about being Mr Murrdorf

Wetpaint

[AnandaMarie]

Ananda I feel for you, but the more I rewatch the videos and hear what Josh's friend have to say, I don't think it's likely. AS Josh said on the show, if he doesn't feel anything there's no reason to stick around. While I think he felt and still feels love for her, the image that she presented of herself is not what Josh got. What Josh got was a young woman searching for herself seeking stardom. It was not the confident attorney who is ready to settle down and live a normal life and be married, it's just not...

Aviej i know im probably having a much harder time with this. About whats in bold - Andi was a confident attorney who was ready to be married and have kids and now she has changed. However, I hope she realizes her mistake and realizes that Josh is worth more than any amount of fame and money. The person that Josh fell in love with is still there, but fame has changed her a little. I think if Andi goes back to being who she was, they could work and maybe time apart will make her realize that. I still hope for the best for them together.

[AnandaMarie]

WOW I thought I needed to punish myself. I went back and watched a couple music video's that Sophienette put together. I had to walk away. Whew
I saw that thing on wetpaint about the man kneeling and Josh says he doesn't know what he will do now since he always thought he would be Mr. Murrdorf (something along those lines)I think there is still hope. I believe things said on the show aren't always what people totally mean. Oh well who am I o say. I'm going to hold on for the good for a little while. I feel it's worth a shot.

I will hold on too. I still hope that they can make it work. Maybe time apart will change things. I wish for nothing more for them than for them to get married, be happy and enjoy each other.

[aviej]

Like almost everyone was fooled. Even Chris Soules is saying, or at least reported to have said that he thought it was going to last. Sigh.

[AnandaMarie]

Everyone did, it was impossible to not see the love between them. I know that somebody here said that relationships aren't only about chemistry and i understand that. Josh and Andi had the chemistry and undeniable love for each other. I know that being in love doesn't magically make a relationship work. I know that relationships take hard work and time but I just believe that if the love is there, they should do everything to make the relationship work and not give up on it. Sadly, whether it be traveling, Andi 's blog and designing or whatever else, I think they didn't work on their relationship as much as they should have. I also wonder that if in the new year, Josh expected that she would maybe start her job as a lawyer again and that they wouldn't be travelling and doing so much stuff in the public eye so that they would be able to work on their relationship this year. Maybe that didn't happen and it factored in their breakup.
It's just that up to 6 months they were perfectly fine so i don't think that it's anything that he suddenly learnt about her. I just think that they didn't give the relationship enough work and time. And I wondered if the new year had anything to do with the split even though they may have been having problems before. If they weren't at least ok before, why would Aaron post a picture of the siblings 'all wifed up'.

By the way, I would just like to thank everyone here for their support. This is my first breakup (well not mine but I feel worse that if it was mine ) and i guess it affected me alot. So it's nice having you guys to talk to and sorry if I have been posting alot and annoying any of you.

[GuardianAngel]

We really don't know for sure that they were fine up till 6 months, and we don't know that the issues were a result of Andi not going back to work or too much travelling. People fall out of love, then there's no reason to try again.

We also can't IMO speculate why any of the pics were posted with hidden meaning. It's possible that other friends/family were unaware of any problems. It's difficult to question all their actions followed by a split. There's many reasons, but if this is what they decided, then I'm sure it was with a lot of thought for what was best for them. With time, each of them will follow another path, which hopefully leads them to happiness!

In the meantime we can be sad about the situation, but as in any relationship, not just reality TV people, only they know what's best for them. It doesn't take away from what they had. If you want to hold out hope they get back together, it may be another let down, so it's best to trust their judgement and wish them well, especially if they want to move forward.
JMHO

[Linds911]

Anada, No worries we are all feeling sad like you, just some of us are reacting to it all in different ways. I do hope Andi and Josh are doing ok.

[AnandaMarie]

I know Ga, nobody knows the true reason for the split other than Josh and Andi. I was just speculating, sorry if i took it too far.
But even if others think differently, I will still hope that their love brings them back together in the future.

[GuardianAngel]

I know Ga, nobody knows the true reason for the split other than Josh and Andi. I was just speculating, sorry if i took it too far.
But even if others think differently, I will still hope that their love brings them back together in the future.  

No need to apologize. It's best to talk it out, however long it takes.

[Laura Walsh]

I wonder if they were planning to quietly separate and wait to issue a statement, but then RS upset the apple cart when he posted in his blog the "don't shoot the messenger" comments earlier this week about their imminent breakup.

Otherwise, how embarrassing is it to make a major appearance together, making the comments she made, only to split 3 days later?

This is my feeling. I believe they would have waited a bit longer but when all the rumors started after RS statement it was probably decided to just do it and get it over with.

[soccermom333]

I know Ga, nobody knows the true reason for the split other than Josh and Andi. I was just speculating, sorry if i took it too far.
But even if others think differently, I will still hope that their love brings them back together in the future.  

Don't apologize Ananda. Everyone grieves in their own way and please take all the time you need.

Check your PM's

[Linds911]

Thanks GA for leaving this thread open still so we all have a place to discuss and ponder it all for a bit longer.

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