Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Media Thread - Fan Forum - Discussion Thread #4

[laurentx]

Thanks for the recaps, everyone! Sounds adorable. I'm glad Josh confirmed he wasn't a monk for 5 years since that seemed to be a point of contention here during the show

And you know what's awesome? Five years, who knows how many girls, and not a single one of them has come out of the woodwork to trash him. Seriously, has there ever been an F1 with LESS dirt being spilled about him? I think it's a real testament to what a truly good guy he is.

Honestly, there are probably a few stories he'd rather not get told but because the Murray name is royalty around Athens and so many people have his back, any girl is smart enough to know she would be trashed immediately.

That said, his family is more PR savvy than most and I'm sure he wouldn't have pursued the opportunity had there been any skeletons in the closet.

[Alanna]

Thanks for the recaps, everyone! Sounds adorable. I'm glad Josh confirmed he wasn't a monk for 5 years since that seemed to be a point of contention here during the show

And you know what's awesome? Five years, who knows how many girls, and not a single one of them has come out of the woodwork to trash him. Seriously, has there ever been an F1 with LESS dirt being spilled about him? I think it's a real testament to what a truly good guy he is.

Honestly, there are probably a few stories he'd rather not get told but because the Murray name is royalty around Athens and so many people have his back, any girl is smart enough to know she would be trashed immediately.

That said, his family is more PR savvy than most and I'm sure he wouldn't have pursued the opportunity had there been any skeletons in the closet.

I think you can tell by their radio interviews on their home turf how confident he feels and it's basically his domain. I mean, like Eagle Eye pointed out already, the one interview was Josh Murray and then Andi tagging along because she's engaged to him. Hilarious! It's interesting also that while they were doing media in LA/NYC, they did the talking equally, but back home, it's Josh that takes the lead and Andi seems to love it. I'm guessing she doesn't really want him to bash Nick's skull in or punch the photogs but it seems just the fact that he could is what gets her all excited.

At the same time because his name/family are well known and he feels so confident in ATL and Athens, he can afford to come across as confident and assertive without veering off into cocky, trying to puff himself up. I love that he told Andi on their first 1:1 that of course he could play baseball again if he wanted to but now, he jokes about his "old body" and his concussions and blank stares. No need to impress the girl now, she's fully impressed. Adorbs!

[Maggenzm]

And you know what's awesome? Five years, who knows how many girls, and not a single one of them has come out of the woodwork to trash him. Seriously, has there ever been an F1 with LESS dirt being spilled about him? I think it's a real testament to what a truly good guy he is.

He did say in the radio interview from last week is that one of the reasons he had not gotten into a relationship the past five years was due to his not liking to hurt girls so if he wasn't feeling it, he simply didn't go there.

I love Josh more and more each day.  I love the things I am reading about him, and the way he conducts himself in interviews.  Very confident=very sexy!    I have a feeling andi feels the same.    

So true, we knew we picked a winner when we picked him, but he really exceeding my expectations. The more I know about him, the more respect and love I have for him. He is awesome!!  

[laurentx]

In the radio interview I loved Andi's response to the question, "who was the biggest douchebag in the house?" when Josh replied something to the effect of, "I think you already know my answer", Andi said "it rhymes with a body part".. a very negative slang version of the body part!   

Not trying to rehash but I love that they're not pretending the Nick stuff didn't happen, she owns it and they don't sugar coat their opinion of him. She was so afraid of her strong attraction to Josh she forced herself to pursue the anti-Josh. When she is asked about Nick now her response is almost like, "I don't even know what I was thinking!"

[aviej]

In the radio interview I loved Andi's response to the question, "who was the biggest douchebag in the house?" when Josh replied something to the effect of, "I think you already know my answer", Andi said "it rhymes with a body part".. a very negative slang version of the body part!   

Not trying to rehash but I love that they're not pretending the Nick stuff didn't happen, she owns it and they don't sugar coat their opinion of him.  She was so afraid of her strong attraction to Josh she forced herself to pursue the anti-Josh.  When she is asked about Nick now her response is almost like, "I don't even know what I was thinking!"

I love that! The anti-Josh, . It does take a real person to own up to things. She never once tried to deny or hide that sex did happen. It goes to show too that Josh's impact on her was so powerful, it was almost like a fairytale - too good to be true. She was so scared of the magnitude of her love for him that she ran in the opposite direction. I wish I were a fly on the wall in their fantasy suite though. Not the sex part, but the intimate conversations that they had. I wonder what about the fantasy suite made Josh know it was "game over". If he only heard her say I love you in the proposal, when what was it that was so convincing that he knew he'd end up with her.

[pander3575]

In the radio interview I loved Andi's response to the question, "who was the biggest douchebag in the house?" when Josh replied something to the effect of, "I think you already know my answer", Andi said "it rhymes with a body part".. a very negative slang version of the body part!   

Not trying to rehash but I love that they're not pretending the Nick stuff didn't happen, she owns it and they don't sugar coat their opinion of him.  She was so afraid of her strong attraction to Josh she forced herself to pursue the anti-Josh.  When she is asked about Nick now her response is almost like, "I don't even know what I was thinking!"

I love that! The anti-Josh, . It does take a real person to own up to things. She never once tried to deny or hide that sex did happen. It goes to show too that Josh's impact on her was so powerful, it was almost like a fairytale - too good to be true. She was so scared of the magnitude of her love for him that she ran in the opposite direction. I wish I were a fly on the wall in their fantasy suite though. Not the sex part, but the intimate conversations that they had. I wonder what about the fantasy suite made Josh know it was "game over". If he only heard her say I love you in the proposal, when what was it that was so convincing that he knew he'd end up with her.

I'd like to know too but also glad it is something private between them.

[Alanna]

In the radio interview I loved Andi's response to the question, "who was the biggest douchebag in the house?" when Josh replied something to the effect of, "I think you already know my answer", Andi said "it rhymes with a body part".. a very negative slang version of the body part!   

Not trying to rehash but I love that they're not pretending the Nick stuff didn't happen, she owns it and they don't sugar coat their opinion of him.  She was so afraid of her strong attraction to Josh she forced herself to pursue the anti-Josh.  When she is asked about Nick now her response is almost like, "I don't even know what I was thinking!"

I love that! The anti-Josh, . It does take a real person to own up to things. She never once tried to deny or hide that sex did happen. It goes to show too that Josh's impact on her was so powerful, it was almost like a fairytale - too good to be true. She was so scared of the magnitude of her love for him that she ran in the opposite direction. I wish I were a fly on the wall in their fantasy suite though. Not the sex part, but the intimate conversations that they had. I wonder what about the fantasy suite made Josh know it was "game over". If he only heard her say I love you in the proposal, when what was it that was so convincing that he knew he'd end up with her.

I'd like to know too but also glad it is something private between them.

She told him exactly what ring she wanted and if she also shared what she did with Nick then I think it's a pretty good indication he was The One. At some point she had to stop being so stand-offish with him and "give" herself to him so that must have happened in the fs for them to cross the bridge into a fully trusting relationship. He did have some doubts because he thought she was about to break up with him at the frc though.

[laurentx]

I remember Andi said they had a deep discussion about their future and what it would be like.  I'm sure the tone was Andi starting to make plans after their return to Atlanta, so without even saying ILY Josh knew it was him. Plus, if she fess up about sleeping with Nick it's because she felt alot of guilt and regret.  We've all talked about his confidence at the F3 RC, it's obvious she didn't even have to tell him he was the one - he already knew.

Alanna I think at the FRC he was momentarily nervous that she had a sudden change of heart - not that she was choosing Nick but rather had lingering insecurities about their relationship.  I think he sensed Nick was going to be gone by the FRC.

[pander3575]

I felt so bad watching Josh's face when he was thinking she wasn't going to pick him. You could see it in his eyes and his cheek. Then when she said she loved him he almost couldn't contain himself. So cute!

[aviej]

I love that! The anti-Josh, . It does take a real person to own up to things. She never once tried to deny or hide that sex did happen. It goes to show too that Josh's impact on her was so powerful, it was almost like a fairytale - too good to be true. She was so scared of the magnitude of her love for him that she ran in the opposite direction. I wish I were a fly on the wall in their fantasy suite though. Not the sex part, but the intimate conversations that they had. I wonder what about the fantasy suite made Josh know it was "game over". If he only heard her say I love you in the proposal, when what was it that was so convincing that he knew he'd end up with her.

I'd like to know too but also glad it is something private between them.

She told him exactly what ring she wanted and if she also shared what she did with Nick then I think it's a pretty good indication he was The One. At some point she had to stop being so stand-offish with him and "give" herself to him so that must have happened in the fs for them to cross the bridge into a fully trusting relationship. He did have some doubts because he thought she was about to break up with him at the frc though.

What I found funny too was when Nick and Josh were the only two standing at the RC and even though Andi clearly was enamored by Josh, the way she looked at him and called his name in the RC, the fact that she called Nick first to collect the rose was funny. Josh's expression was priceless! He was like...okaaaayy....And then it was so sweet when he looked up at her in this boyish charm when she did finally call him to get the rose. Andi was playing hard to get right to the end. And our boy Josh, stood up to the plate every time! He was never going to let her go, despite her pushing him away at times.

[Jolena]

I'd like to know too but also glad it is something private between them.

She told him exactly what ring she wanted and if she also shared what she did with Nick then I think it's a pretty good indication he was The One. At some point she had to stop being so stand-offish with him and "give" herself to him so that must have happened in the fs for them to cross the bridge into a fully trusting relationship. He did have some doubts because he thought she was about to break up with him at the frc though.

What I found funny too was when Nick and Josh were the only two standing at the RC and even though Andi clearly was enamored by Josh, the way she looked at him and called his name in the RC, the fact that she called Nick first to collect the rose was funny. Josh's expression was priceless! He was like...okaaaayy....And then it was so sweet when he looked up at her in this boyish charm when she did finally call him to get the rose. Andi was playing hard to get right to the end. And our boy Josh, stood up to the plate every time! He was never going to let her go, despite her pushing him away at times.

When she did that , I thought she was busting josh too but then I said " she saved the best for last! Last Fantasy suite, last for that RC, and of course the final Rose at last.

[pander3575]

I believe Ali and Ashley did the same thing with Roberto and JP. They called the F2 first at the RC but Josh's look was priceless.

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