Re: : Nick Viall Bachelorette 10 - *Fan Forum* - *Spoilers* - Discussion - Thread #8

[emusha]

Love our boy, he is not bitter, he will be fine!!!!


Nicholas Viall @viallnicholas28     ·   46s    

Congratulations to @AndiDorfman and @jmurbulldog on their engagement. Wishing you both incredible happiness. #TheBachelorette #Bachelorette

the way he is handling it with such love and consideration and no ounce of bitterness truly shows how much he fell in love with her....he will be fine and he will look back at this to be proud that he truly opened up his heart...with his sis he'd talked about how he was never truly quick to do that...but he has so openly and honestly and compassionately... good on you nick - i hope you are proud of yourself for your courage and bravery to love and remain honest....makes me tear up to read his tweet cos having been in his position before i do know how true heartbreak but still loving and wanting everything for someone feels

[Guest]

A lot of people on SM sympathizing with Nick, even Josh fans.  I would be shocked if he wasn't the next Bachelor, they aren't setting up all this heartbreak for nothing.

I don't think he could be the bachelor and play along with a final 4 situation. I'd love to believe that TPTB just forced him to do all that to get out of a law suit, but that was raw emotion. He is being swarmed by girls on twitter. I think he should just take his time healing and date in private.

[Catdwoman50]

More power to Nick whatever is next for him! I hope he doesn't pull a Marcus. Sorry was a fan of him too but not after harsh words towards Nick

[emusha]

Andi,

You lit me up. You made me feel those things that people go a lifetime to find, and I feel like I made you feel the same. I truly hoped we would have made it into the real world, where there would be no arbitrary dead-line, where those stresses that came with that environment would have melted away, where we could have had the goofy, fun, exciting relationship that I know we could have. What we had was real to me, and it was amazing.

I fully realize that in the end I could have been wrong about what we had. While it’s hard to accept, I totally realize that it's a possibility. With that being said, when I think about the relationship that we had, very few things in my life have felt more real.

I think about that moment when you ended things and what you said to me. I believe you when you said something didn’t feel right with us when you woke up that morning, but I wonder if what didn’t feel right was really about us and our relationship. I wonder if it would have been different if that night you thought about us with your heart and not with your head. Let’s just call it what it was--our relationship was very much the road less traveled. I totally get that all the passion, intensity, and connections that we had were accompanied by fear and sometimes discomfort. There is a reason why very few are willing to take the road less traveled. It can be scary, challenging, and risky, but if you have the courage to take it, it usually ends up being amazing.

That is one thing that has bothered me the most--when you said you know you could have a good life with me, you just don’t think you could have a great one. The thing is, if you were to go back and think of every moment that we spent together, the first time we met, our first date, our “wow” moment in New England, our time in France, everything about Venice, our walk in Belgium, that moment in the monastery, the first time I told you I loved you and everything about that day and night, and the adjectives to describe those moments, many words come to mind. Words like exciting, passionate, intense, tingling, romantic, sexy, easy, and great. You could even say scary, nerve-racking, frustrating, and challenging. You could say all of these are words you could use to describe us, but I doubt very much you would think of those moments and the word "good" would ever come to mind.

I am not going to say that if by some miracle you changed your mind and were willing to give us a shot that we would definitely make it. I don’t know that. I think that if we were willing to trust each other, be totally vulnerable with one another, and follow our hearts, we would have a great chance. What I could promise you is that if we did make it, we would be anything but good. It would be exciting, sometimes even hard, but definitely great.

There is a reason why I asked you if you ever had your heart broken. I wanted to know if you have ever “put it on the line” enough to truly have a chance at something special. To me that is what it’s all about. A lot of things about us scared me. I really didn’t know if we would make it, but I was willing to put it all on the line for us because I truly believed the connection we had was incredibly unique and special. To me, if there is no risk of being totally crushed and heartbroken then there is no way it can be great.

I realize I have to move on and I mean it when I say that if you’re truly happy with your decision and I haven’t been a thought on your mind, then I want that happiness to continue for you. If I have to move on, I will look to find amazing with someone else know that some day I will. I just know I would much rather turn my life upside down and risk it all to have amazing with you.

[black_tears]

A lot of people on SM sympathizing with Nick, even Josh fans.  I would be shocked if he wasn't the next Bachelor, they aren't setting up all this heartbreak for nothing.

I don't think he could be the bachelor and play along with a final 4 situation. I'd love to believe that TPTB just forced him to do all that to get out of a law suit, but that was raw emotion. He is being swarmed by girls on twitter. I think he should just take his time healing and date in private.

I have no doubts he'll have any trouble finding someone much better easily. Besides, how did Reid say it? Post show... it's like trying to take a drink of water out of a firehose, or something to that effect. I'm sure he's about to be bombarded.   

[mercieme]

A lot of people on SM sympathizing with Nick, even Josh fans.  I would be shocked if he wasn't the next Bachelor, they aren't setting up all this heartbreak for nothing.

I don't think he could be the bachelor and play along with a final 4 situation. I'd love to believe that TPTB just forced him to do all that to get out of a law suit, but that was raw emotion. He is being swarmed by girls on twitter. I think he should just take his time healing and date in private.

IA, I think for real he was doing fine post show before confronting her tonight. The boy was a nervous wreck and I agree with Nikki, I don't know how some of the producers on that show sleep at night, they really got their crap dramatic ending tonight.

[Catdwoman50]

And I hope he waits to find that someone who makes him feel extra ordinary! He deserves it.

[sdmom]

A lot of people on SM sympathizing with Nick, even Josh fans.  I would be shocked if he wasn't the next Bachelor, they aren't setting up all this heartbreak for nothing.

I don't think he could be the bachelor and play along with a final 4 situation. I'd love to believe that TPTB just forced him to do all that to get out of a law suit, but that was raw emotion. He is being swarmed by girls on twitter. I think he should just take his time healing and date in private.

Yes I agree but I still want him to post pictures on SM. Btw, is anyone interested in the pre show spoilers from chloep, especially the part about Nick? If so,I can bring it over from the other thread if it's ok with chloep?

[black_tears]

A lot of people on SM sympathizing with Nick, even Josh fans.  I would be shocked if he wasn't the next Bachelor, they aren't setting up all this heartbreak for nothing.

I don't think he could be the bachelor and play along with a final 4 situation. I'd love to believe that TPTB just forced him to do all that to get out of a law suit, but that was raw emotion. He is being swarmed by girls on twitter. I think he should just take his time healing and date in private.

Yes I agree but I still want him to post pictures on SM. Btw, is anyone interested in the pre show spoilers from chloep, especially the part about Nick? If so,I can bring it over from the other thread if it's ok with chloep?

Yes please!

[Guest]

I can't admit total defeat - the love story was between her and Nick, she just chose what she was comfortable with. I cannot believe she would give Nick that reassurance the night before, and then dump him. She could have let him go earlier. Just a shocking thing - she is a fantastic actress. Now I'm on to the After the Final Rose to see what is happening there. Hope Nick feels FREE and runs as far away from this franchise as possible. He was definitely played, but he got to travel, become famous and will have lots of ladies waiting for him. ;) Where are you Sue and Nutty?
And how does Josh feel about her saying the most passion she has ever felt - ever - is with Nick?
Well, it is over and done with now. I hope the couple will be happy. Now I know why her Dad follows Mama Murray! That was always the sticking point for me that gave me pause.
You friends are very wonderful to enjoy this journey with me. Thank you.  :cutesmile!: 

[chloep]

^^ Bringing over the spoiler from 05/13.

Also, Andi was apparently a great actress; she played her role perfectly - lot of crying, lot of angst, lot of love, etc.... Plenty of guys thought that she was phony and at least one of them called her out on it in his exit interview...



And now not a rumor, but something that I've heard from multiple sources...

Apparently, Nick had been BY FAR the most unassuming, tentative guy of the final 8 or so- He was super careful and was a bit skeptical about this whole process.(his family too). Andi has gone out of her way to reassure him(and his family) - and it seems that she took him to the F2(according to RS) just to dump him... This is quite cruel, IMO. Even crueler if the rumor above is not just a rumor. :Frown: no no

[Guest]

Love our boy, he is not bitter, he will be fine!!!!


Nicholas Viall @viallnicholas28     ·   46s    

Congratulations to @AndiDorfman and @jmurbulldog on their engagement. Wishing you both incredible happiness. #TheBachelorette #Bachelorette

What a class act   

#teamnickforevah

i have no other word. Extraordinary.

it takes an extraordinary woman to appreciate this extraordinary man

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