Re: Josh Murray Bachelorette 10 - *Fan Forum* Updates - Discussion - Thread #11

[Guest]

She talked a lot about Nick making her feel sexy and how passionate they were together. Obviously she was attracted to him. I'm glad Josh only watched his parts and didn't hear her say all those things.

I don't know how these people take on these roles of The Bachelor/Bachelorette. I think it's hard to be in that position and hurt people. But I think with that comes a responsibility that some people can handle better than others. I thought Andi had done a pretty good job of being The Bachelorette. At least I thought that until tonight.

Don't get me wrong, still love this couple so much. But I'm wondering now if it's more because I love Josh and who Andi is with Josh. Don't know if anyone understands what I mean, but that's kind of how I feel right now.

I think you've articulated very well what a lot of viewers are feeling. I, for one, can understand...  

That makes me feel better, truly. Because as I'm reading everyone celebrating, I'm wondering how they can all get past it so fast. Yes, it's great to see them so happy now, but I don't know, I hope she's really sure of her feelings. I'm scared for Josh that he could get hurt. But she does seem really happy now, so hopefully it works out.

[oless4]

Det här var den värsta final jag någonsin sett! Nick har allvarliga problem. Jag är så upprörd att jag inte kommer att kunna somna!

Samma här, är uppe i varv och kan fortfarande inte fatta att idioten sa så.. Idiot är vad han är. Usch!

Please post in English only. Thank you

Is this an English only forum?

[Cari]

Samma här, är uppe i varv och kan fortfarande inte fatta att idioten sa så.. Idiot är vad han är. Usch!

Please post in English only. Thank you

                Is this an English only forum?

I believe it is. I'm Filipina and sometimes we have slang terms I wish I could write along with my post. BUT who would understand? Hahaha I respectfully say that it is common courtesy to use a universal language where all would understand. It would be disrespectful to the rest of the members if a selective few would "converse" in a different language be it Filipino or French   

[bamagal]

I did not post the following comments last night because I did not want to detract further from the mood of the thread.  However, IMO, the way that TPTB and CH handled the AFTR was an EPIC fail. Why take the beautiful love story that was unfolding before our eyes, and tarnish it by allowing a bitter rejected F2 to monopolize the AFTR episode? Why allow (and it would appear encourage) the F2 to literally "stalk" Andi, when she had stated, not once but twice, that she was not interested in further contact? (How else would F2 have known Andi was in Mexico, unless one of the "inner circle" told him?) The editing "vilified" the F2 character throughout the season and created obvious dissension among he and the other men from early on.  Yet, in the AFTR, TPTB not only allowed, but encouraged his behavior.  The whole discussion between Andi and F2 could have been arranged in a private setting (or not occurred at all) with proper handling.  To allow F2, who has been a loose cannon all season and proven many times that he has no "filter", come on the AFTR and bring up things that were personal and private was reprehensible.  He complained of being "blind-sided" by the process, yet TPTB allowed him to blindside Andi with his comments about their intimacy.  His behavior, encouraged by the TPTB, was an embarrassment not only to Andi and Josh, but to those of us who watched the entire season.   CH's favoritism of F2 was blatant and his disdain for Josh was palatable!  Has all conscience and consideration for the final couple and their families been lost in the quest for the elusive RATINGS?
   I feel so very fortunate to have watched Andi and Josh's love story unfold.  Josh's proposal was the best in franchise history.  And I will forever be a fan of Andi and Josh! I wish them well and hope their love endures forever.

[joshfan]

hi, where did the photos of josh and andi on the beach after the proposal come from?

[Guest]

Please post in English only. Thank you

                Is this an English only forum?

I believe it is. I'm Filipina and sometimes we have slang terms I wish I could write along with my post. BUT who would understand? Hahaha I respectfully say that it is common courtesy to use a universal language where all would understand. It would be disrespectful to the rest of the members if a selective few would "converse" in a different language be it Filipino or French   

Sorry about that!    We just got a bit carried away with the whole Nick situation on ATFR. I can promise you that it was all about Nick and nothing nice.  Won't happen again.

[Tnmomof4]

My take on what Andi was trying to communicate to Josh during the beginning of the proposal was that it took the whole season, it's ups and downs, possibly her relationship with Nick, for her to realize that she actually was in love with Josh from the start.  In other words, she really didn't know, or maybe let herself know, that she loved him until that morning, after everything had played out and at that point she realized she had loved him all along.
Not to justify her sleeping with both, but I really think (at least in her mind in those moments) that at the time she did it, she still was trying to give this "different" connection she had with Nick a chance and I guess, in her world, sleeping with him would give her clarity. She hadn't let herself totally believe that she loved Josh yet. Not my cup of tea, but I think it's what's she needed to be sure.

[Piper61]

                Is this an English only forum?

I believe it is. I'm Filipina and sometimes we have slang terms I wish I could write along with my post. BUT who would understand? Hahaha I respectfully say that it is common courtesy to use a universal language where all would understand. It would be disrespectful to the rest of the members if a selective few would "converse" in a different language be it Filipino or French   

Sorry about that!    We just got a bit carried away with the whole Nick situation on ATFR. I can promise you that it was all about Nick and nothing nice.  Won't happen again.

That is what I thought, and hence a post I made last night joking that I wanted you guys to PM me the English translation. No worries from me!

In the end, I am very happy for Andi and Josh as a couple because I truly believe they are very much in love. I wish them the very best, and I am really invested in watching what comes next with them, and their two families. Andi is a very lucky lady, and I believe she really knows it and if she messes up, there are plenty of women who will be ready to step up to the plate to be with Josh. He is an absolute gem!

[Guest]

I believe it is. I'm Filipina and sometimes we have slang terms I wish I could write along with my post. BUT who would understand? Hahaha I respectfully say that it is common courtesy to use a universal language where all would understand. It would be disrespectful to the rest of the members if a selective few would "converse" in a different language be it Filipino or French   

Sorry about that!    We just got a bit carried away with the whole Nick situation on ATFR. I can promise you that it was all about Nick and nothing nice.  Won't happen again.

That is what I thought, and hence a post I made last night joking that I wanted you guys to PM me the English translation.  No worries from me!

Thanks!

In the end, I am very happy for Andi and Josh as a couple because I truly believe they are very much in love.  I wish them the very best, and I am really invested in watching what comes next with them, and their two families.  Andi is a very lucky lady, and I believe she really knows it and if she messes up, there are plenty of women who will be ready to step up to the plate to be with Josh.  He is an absolute gem!

I agree and I think that when she finally let her guard down, she let herself feel all those feelings of love. Back in real life the feelings have only been confirmed, so it seems. They looked totally in love and adorable.  :sweetheart: 

[Trueloveforever]

Sorry about that!    We just got a bit carried away with the whole Nick situation on ATFR. I can promise you that it was all about Nick and nothing nice.  Won't happen again.

That is what I thought, and hence a post I made last night joking that I wanted you guys to PM me the English translation.  No worries from me!

Thanks!

In the end, I am very happy for Andi and Josh as a couple because I truly believe they are very much in love.  I wish them the very best, and I am really invested in watching what comes next with them, and their two families.  Andi is a very lucky lady, and I believe she really knows it and if she messes up, there are plenty of women who will be ready to step up to the plate to be with Josh.  He is an absolute gem!

I agree and I think that when she finally let her guard down, she let herself feel all those feelings of love. Back in real life the feelings have only been confirmed, so it seems. They looked totally in love and adorable.  :sweetheart: 

  

[GrahamGal]

Can someone tell me the actual order of the FSD? Thanks!

[luvlady345]

LOL, I dunno it must be just me..... Andi sleeping with Nick doesn't take any joy I feel for Josh and Andi it's not like they were dating exclusively an Andi cheated she was in a relationship with Nick also, 95% of these lead sleep with their F3, F2 and F1 you know it is what it is, I don't see how any of you can be surprised that TPTB did this, once the season is over they don't care about the couple they have gotten what the want.... I am 100% behind Josh and Andi this is the start of their relationship and I believe that those 2 will make it.....

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