Re: Josh Murray Bachelorette 10 - *Fan Forum* Updates - Discussion - Thread #11

[Linds911]

OK as spoiled Jodi fans, what 3 things besides the plan video do I need to know about this season from behind the scenes and what 3-5 threads do I need to visit besides this fan thread?

Josh's snap chat withAndi in his top 3
Mamma Murrays Facebook/twitter
Josh arriving at Miami airport May 12th picture
(I think you got this one) but ribbons on Josh's arm

Thanks!

Snapchat?

I friended Mamma Murray on FB earlier this month, but never went there once I did.  I just wanted to make sure if she locked it I was already a friend so I could see pics if they end up together.  Sad I know.  So I will have to go back through her post and take a look.

So he arrived 3-4 days after the proposal.  Yes that would have been an F1 clue for sure.  

All I know is he got the yellow ribbon in Ghent and the purple at some point at the end of the FSD.  I want to know more.

Someone got a screen shot of Josh's friends on Snapchat which is a app where you can send pics and videos that last a few short seconds. Then RS posted it and Josh sent a tweet wondering why all the Snapchat requests   

[Cari]

Thank y'all for welcoming us here! I'm certain #TeamEinstein is over the moon that we are not #TeamIdiots after all!  

I'm glad that the "limited" material we can sleuthe with proved accurate! I was PMing with sista, Alanna and apparently y'all have sleuthed alot! Point to us where those gems are! Great job, everyone!

I'm tempted to go spoiled next season because it seems I've missed a lot of fun. But there is sweet gratification sleuthing without the rose colored glasses.  I'm not sure if #TeamEinstein feels the way I do but I feel smug "knowing" the chemistry I've seen with Jodi wasn't tainted by any spoiler. :winkie: Haha #FromWWtoCocky tsk,tsk,tsk  :P 

Jodi is reminiscent of my golden pair, Jash. I love their post show poses! My gosh, they're TOO Adorable! I wanna squish them! Can TPTB make Jodi dolls and stuff toys? PLEASE!  

Oh wait, what did you say, GG?! Pillows?! That's right! Pillows, too with a collage of their pics and snapshot of THE Baseball Card!

I guess, we're TeamIdiots after all! Bwahaha

And oh.. Whispers...

But hey, forgive me in advance if I will defend Nick, ok? I wasn't his fan during the show. Not even a fan of his unnecessary comment at the AFTR but I can empathize with his state of broken heart...

Fine, fine...

Back to happy mode!

Bring on the Jodi crumbs! Squeeeee.......  :crazy dance: 

[Luvvy]

Luvvy, it should be up on youtube eventually.  It is not up yet though.

Thanks!

[GrahamGal]

Josh's snap chat withAndi in his top 3
Mamma Murrays Facebook/twitter
Josh arriving at Miami airport May 12th picture
(I think you got this one) but ribbons on Josh's arm

Thanks!

Snapchat?

I friended Mamma Murray on FB earlier this month, but never went there once I did.  I just wanted to make sure if she locked it I was already a friend so I could see pics if they end up together.  Sad I know.  So I will have to go back through her post and take a look.

So he arrived 3-4 days after the proposal.  Yes that would have been an F1 clue for sure.  

All I know is he got the yellow ribbon in Ghent and the purple at some point at the end of the FSD.  I want to know more.

Someone got a screen shot of Josh's friends on Snapchat which is a app where you can send pics and videos that last a few short seconds. Then RS posted it and Josh sent a tweet wondering why all the Snapchat requests   

Hahaha too funny. With RS posting it he must have gotten flooded with request.

[Maggenzm]

I honestly think andi knew it was josh from the beginning. She was just scared and was over analyzing everything about josh. Therefore that is probably the reason she didn't make up her mind till the morning of the final rose ceremony.  Her head was always getting in the way of what she felt in her heart.

Her over analyzing things is what caused her to continue to lead Nick on. I just wish she didn't sleep with him, especially knowing how he felt deeply about her, his past breakup, and her strong feeling for Josh. I am still very disappointed we didn't see their full love story. Why spend so much time on Nick? Did they want a Mesnick?
I also clearly see that Nick's intention was to break them up, as you can see, he thought that she will changend after living the letter to CH, that's why he announced something so private on Television to tarnish that relationship. I really believer TP told him to say it, just like Nikki (JPG) said.
IMO, TP really missed an opportunity here to showcase that love story. One of the upside with these two is that they are so madly in love with one another that the more people see them, the quicker, they will forget about Nick comments.

[biolalyss]

I didn't think I could love Josh any more than I did already, but he is just the best. From the MTP to LCD to proposal, his character and physical/mental/emotional/spiritual appeal is just unmatched. I was sad to see the discussion with Nick damper the mood for a time, but nothing can keep Jodi down now! To see how happy and in love they are brought joy to my heart and I see a bright future ahead! They were even cuter on Jimmy Kimmel and I can't wait to see their media tour. I look forward to following their ongoing love journey with all of you! Cheers to the happy couple   #JodiForever #Team Sushi

[Guest]

I just finished watching the show and JK, and reading through this thread. I feel a little confused and disappointed, and it wasn't how I was expecting to feel.

I know this is a show first and foremost, but we still wanted the happy ending. We did get that, but with a lot of other stuff thrown our way.

I was thinking about Josh, and how wonderful he is, and how he said Andi has been honest with him. And after watching the ATFR I do believe she was intimate with Nick, she didn't deny it, said it was below the belt and should have been kept behind closed doors. I think if it was a lie, she would have slipped a curse word in there like..."What the bleep are you talking about?" But that didn't happen. So it leads me to believe she was intimate with him.

Then I started thinking about the conversation she must have had with Josh. And no matter how wonderful and understanding he is about the process, it must have really hurt him to know at that point, she had been with someone else. Because no matter the situation, you don't have to be intimate with anyone, look at Sean. His season was my favorite until this one came along, and then I loved them both equally. But now Andi's actions have saddened me because I feel like Josh didn't deserve that.

I go back to the proposal. I feel like she dragged out her feelings for him in that proposal, and he even said he got worried. It took her a long time leading up to saying she loved him. Once she said it, it was great, but was that producer driven or her idea? I thought it took away from the moment, especially when he had been so open with her. I was surprised that nobody else commented on it.

I have loved Andi all season, but tonight, I don't know. I feel like she did lead Nick on, although he went way too far with trying to contact her over and over again, and then dropping that comment on the ATFR.

I also wonder how we would all feel if it was reversed and she had been intimate with Josh, knowing how in love he was, and then dumped him. He would have been devastated and shocked as well.

I know this is part of this show, but not everybody reacts the same way to a situation. I guess I don't understand how she can tell Josh she loved him the first moment she saw him, tell Nick she never was in love with him, but yet still be intimate with Nick. I'm sure she regrets that now, and hopefully they can put it behind them because they seem really happy together.

I know Josh realizes that their relationship became exclusive at the proposal, and he seems okay with everything that has happened. But I still feel like tonight put a damper on the whole season for me, and I didn't get my fairytale ending.

I still love them together, I really do. I hope everything works out for them in the future. But I just feel sad at the way things unfolded tonight. Maybe as we get more interviews, I will feel better about things.

[Luvvy]

Roses, I felt very similarly to you. I felt better after rewatching it a few times. The proposal was great and emotional. I cried the second time I watched it but not the first, I think the Nick stuff just left a bad taste in my mouth and the show didn't help by focusing on it so much.

I think also what helped me get over the Nick thing is seeing how truly happy and in love they are on ATFR (the little we did get to see of them) and in pictures. Can't hide the looks of love. I'm sure tomorrow will be even better.

[Spencer81]

Roses, Luvvy, I agree with you all. Feel like there is a small cloud over my happiness.. I just don't know what Andi was thinking.. Was she that excited that she couldn't say no.. She didn't need to lead Nick on anymore. Things would have ended alot easier if she wouldn't have slept with him. And then to be so cold to someone you were intimate with..She should have talked to him when he wanted to and then he would have felt better and not talked about it at ATFR. I think Josh is too good for her, but time will tell I guess. I think all the glam with the show went to her head..

[Dixie Pines]

I just finished watching the show and JK, and reading through this thread. I feel a little confused and disappointed, and it wasn't how I was expecting to feel.

I know this is a show first and foremost, but we still wanted the happy ending. We did get that, but with a lot of other stuff thrown our way.

I was thinking about Josh, and how wonderful he is, and how he said Andi has been honest with him. And after watching the ATFR I do believe she was intimate with Nick, she didn't deny it, said it was below the belt and should have been kept behind closed doors. I think if it was a lie, she would have slipped a curse word in there like..."What the bleep are you talking about?" But that didn't happen. So it leads me to believe she was intimate with him.

Then I started thinking about the conversation she must have had with Josh. And no matter how wonderful and understanding he is about the process, it must have really hurt him to know at that point, she had been with someone else. Because no matter the situation, you don't have to be intimate with anyone, look at Sean. His season was my favorite until this one came along, and then I loved them both equally. But now Andi's actions have saddened me because I feel like Josh didn't deserve that.

I go back to the proposal. I feel like she dragged out her feelings for him in that proposal, and he even said he got worried. It took her a long time leading up to saying she loved him. Once she said it, it was great, but was that producer driven or her idea? I thought it took away from the moment, especially when he had been so open with her. I was surprised that nobody else commented on it.

I have loved Andi all season, but tonight, I don't know. I feel like she did lead Nick on, although he went way too far with trying to contact her over and over again, and then dropping that comment on the ATFR.

I also wonder how we would all feel if it was reversed and she had been intimate with Josh, knowing how in love he was, and then dumped him. He would have been devastated and shocked as well.

I know this is part of this show, but not everybody reacts the same way to a situation. I guess I don't understand how she can tell Josh she loved him the first moment she saw him, tell Nick she never was in love with him, but yet still be intimate with Nick. I'm sure she regrets that now, and hopefully they can put it behind them because they seem really happy together.

I know Josh realizes that their relationship became exclusive at the proposal, and he seems okay with everything that has happened. But I still feel like tonight put a damper on the whole season for me, and I didn't get my fairytale ending.

I still love them together, I really do. I hope everything works out for them in the future. But I just feel sad at the way things unfolded tonight. Maybe as we get more interviews, I will feel better about things.

Thinking and feeling the exact same way, Roses... Bittersweet for me tonight.

[Guest]

She talked a lot about Nick making her feel sexy and how passionate they were together. Obviously she was attracted to him. I'm glad Josh only watched his parts and didn't hear her say all those things.

I don't know how these people take on these roles of The Bachelor/Bachelorette. I think it's hard to be in that position and hurt people. But I think with that comes a responsibility that some people can handle better than others. I thought Andi had done a pretty good job of being The Bachelorette. At least I thought that until tonight.

Don't get me wrong, still love this couple so much. But I'm wondering now if it's more because I love Josh and who Andi is with Josh. Don't know if anyone understands what I mean, but that's kind of how I feel right now.

[Dixie Pines]

She talked a lot about Nick making her feel sexy and how passionate they were together. Obviously she was attracted to him. I'm glad Josh only watched his parts and didn't hear her say all those things.

I don't know how these people take on these roles of The Bachelor/Bachelorette. I think it's hard to be in that position and hurt people. But I think with that comes a responsibility that some people can handle better than others. I thought Andi had done a pretty good job of being The Bachelorette. At least I thought that until tonight.

Don't get me wrong, still love this couple so much. But I'm wondering now if it's more because I love Josh and who Andi is with Josh. Don't know if anyone understands what I mean, but that's kind of how I feel right now.

I think you've articulated very well what a lot of viewers are feeling. I, for one, can understand...  

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