Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 10 - MTP-LCD-FRC- July 28/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

luvlady345 wrote:YAY!!!!! Josh and Andi look awesome together and so in love!!!!!!!  

atem wrote:

noobsleuth wrote: So the girl who trashes JP for keeping her through the FS, even though he knew he wasn't going to pick her, is getting called out by her F2 for sleeping with him in the FS all while knowing she wasn't going to pick him!

Now, Andi and Josh are admitting they did meet before the show!

This season just keeps getting better and better! I'm just going to embrace TPTB's love of irony for a moment.

I'll give her a little bit of pass because it was a live show, but seriously how hard is it for a lead to say that they had feelings for the F2, but stronger for the F1, and that since the show has wrapped everything has been going really well? Why deny the F2 feelings altogether? I will never understand that. Another indication that they don't cast for normal.

Bennett went to visit Nick to bring on this scenario. It sends a clear message as to how production felt about Andi. IMO

I agree with whoever asked how would people react had the roles been reversed and this was the Bachelor. That's a great point... the Bach would have been burned at the stake had this happened (oh wait, previous ones have!)

I totally disagree.  Doesn't matter if the Lead is Male or Female.  The person that is the final 2 dumped person is to pretend that nothing happened.  Doesn't matter what they want, what they feel.  It doesn't matter as no one cares.

atem wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:

atem wrote:

There isn't anything to watch.  You can read RS's spoilers, catch some screen caps, read articles and see what's going on.  

I actually did some of that JPG's season and don't feel like I missed anything! Something to think about. 

Now, to have some fun watching The Bachelor Australia... well, portions of it.  LOL

BKay wrote:I'm watching them on Kimmel now. Now she is saying that she didn't know for sure about Josh until the morning of the proposal.

BKay wrote:I'm watching them on Kimmel now. Now she is saying that she didn't know for sure about Josh until the morning of the proposal.

ElonM wrote:

atem wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:
I actually did some of that JPG's season and don't feel like I missed anything! Something to think about. 

Now, to have some fun watching The Bachelor Australia... well, portions of it.  LOL

And Married at First Sight, where they actually doesn't know each other before the wedding.

noobsleuth wrote: So the girl who trashes JP for keeping her through the FS, even though he knew he wasn't going to pick her, is getting called out by her F2 for sleeping with him in the FS all while knowing she wasn't going to pick him!

Now, Andi and Josh are admitting they did meet before the show!

This season just keeps getting better and better! I'm just going to embrace TPTB's love of irony for a moment.

I'll give her a little bit of pass because it was a live show, but seriously how hard is it for a lead to say that they had feelings for the F2, but stronger for the F1, and that since the show has wrapped everything has been going really well? Why deny the F2 feelings altogether? I will never understand that. Another indication that they don't cast for normal.

Bennett went to visit Nick to bring on this scenario. It sends a clear message as to how production felt about Andi. IMO

I agree with whoever asked how would people react had the roles been reversed and this was the Bachelor. That's a great point... the Bach would have been burned at the stake had this happened (oh wait, previous ones have!)

Andi,

You lit me up. You made me feel those things that people go a lifetime to find, and I feel like I made you feel the same. I truly hoped we would have made it into the real world, where there would be no arbitrary dead-line, where those stresses that came with that environment would have melted away, where we could have had the goofy, fun, exciting relationship that I know we could have. What we had was real to me, and it was amazing.

I fully realize that in the end I could have been wrong about what we had. While it’s hard to accept, I totally realize that it's a possibility. With that being said, when I think about the relationship that we had, very few things in my life have felt more real.

I think about that moment when you ended things and what you said to me. I believe you when you said something didn’t feel right with us when you woke up that morning, but I wonder if what didn’t feel right was really about us and our relationship. I wonder if it would have been different if that night you thought about us with your heart and not with your head. Let’s just call it what it was--our relationship was very much the road less traveled. I totally get that all the passion, intensity, and connections that we had were accompanied by fear and sometimes discomfort. There is a reason why very few are willing to take the road less traveled. It can be scary, challenging, and risky, but if you have the courage to take it, it usually ends up being amazing.

That is one thing that has bothered me the most--when you said you know you could have a good life with me, you just don’t think you could have a great one. The thing is, if you were to go back and think of every moment that we spent together, the first time we met, our first date, our “wow” moment in New England, our time in France, everything about Venice, our walk in Belgium, that moment in the monastery, the first time I told you I loved you and everything about that day and night, and the adjectives to describe those moments, many words come to mind. Words like exciting, passionate, intense, tingling, romantic, sexy, easy, and great. You could even say scary, nerve-racking, frustrating, and challenging. You could say all of these are words you could use to describe us, but I doubt very much you would think of those moments and the word "good" would ever come to mind.

I am not going to say that if by some miracle you changed your mind and were willing to give us a shot that we would definitely make it. I don’t know that. I think that if we were willing to trust each other, be totally vulnerable with one another, and follow our hearts, we would have a great chance. What I could promise you is that if we did make it, we would be anything but good. It would be exciting, sometimes even hard, but definitely great.

There is a reason why I asked you if you ever had your heart broken. I wanted to know if you have ever “put it on the line” enough to truly have a chance at something special. To me that is what it’s all about. A lot of things about us scared me. I really didn’t know if we would make it, but I was willing to put it all on the line for us because I truly believed the connection we had was incredibly unique and special. To me, if there is no risk of being totally crushed and heartbroken then there is no way it can be great.

I realize I have to move on and I mean it when I say that if you’re truly happy with your decision and I haven’t been a thought on your mind, then I want that happiness to continue for you. If I have to move on, I will look to find amazing with someone else know that some day I will. I just know I would much rather turn my life upside down and risk it all to have amazing with you.

chloep wrote:

emusha wrote:

chloep wrote:

Everything I shared then has been proven true(from Nick's story-line, to his family, to Andi as an actress, to Josh and Andi meeting up shortly before the show).... Wow...

I actually have to go back and find that post of mine from May...

Wow chloep  ........ what was it you shared about nick's storyline, his family, andi as an actress and about them meeting? please do elaborate...

I am trying to find that post... It was right after the FRC. Before the show even started....

ElonM wrote:

atem wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:
I actually did some of that JPG's season and don't feel like I missed anything! Something to think about. 

Now, to have some fun watching The Bachelor Australia... well, portions of it.  LOL

And Married at First Sight, where they actually doesn't know each other before the wedding.